All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The Problem with Forgiveness Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) The Power of Small Groups Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) How to Survive Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 5004 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Is It Possible to Work on Re-connection While We Are Separated? 8/01/2018 Q&A Should I Be Concerned about My Mates Behavior Patterns? 8/01/2018 Q&A How Can My Mate Help Restore My Honor? 8/01/2018 Q&A Are We Doing Something Wrong in Our Recovery Process? 8/01/2018 Q&A How Can I Help My Mate with the Challenges of Intrusive Sexual Thoughts? 8/01/2018 Q&A Is There Hope for Us? 8/01/2018 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Ambivalence in Our Situation? 8/01/2018 Q&A How Do I Approach My Mate about My Suspicion of an Affair? 8/01/2018 Is it Love or Infatuation? 7/25/2018 Q&A How Do I Keep from Making Things Worse? 7/23/2018 Q&A What Can I Do to Better Understand My Betrayed Mate? 7/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Respond to the Disconnect between the Two of Us? 7/23/2018 Q&A Should We Be Sexually Intimate during Recovery? 7/23/2018 Q&A Is Our Relationship Too Broken? 7/23/2018 Q&A Can You Suggest Ways to Address Our Issues? 7/23/2018 Q&A Is the Affair the Problem or a Symptom? 7/23/2018 Q&A Am I over Acting or Asking for Too Much? 7/23/2018 Q&A How Can You Ever Get over Triggers When They Are All around You? 7/23/2018 How Do I Handle My Lack of Sexual Desire? 7/23/2018 Q&A How Can I Overcome My Triggers in the Curriculum? 7/23/2018 Q&A How Can I Communicate to My Wife That I Wasn't ‘Using’ Her during the Affair? 7/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Maintain My Own Identity While Still Being Safe in a Relationship? 7/16/2018 Q&A Should I Leave or Should I Stay and Wait? 7/16/2018 Q&A How Do We Cut Ties with People That Enable Destructive Patterns? 7/16/2018 Q&A Can We Recover, or Is This Betrayal Too Much? 7/16/2018 Q&A How Can We Move past Resentments and Heal Our Marriage? 7/16/2018 Q&A How Long Do I Wait for My Unfaithful Spouse to Re-Engage with Me? 7/16/2018 Q&A Did My Husband Love Me While He Was Being Unfaithful to Me? 7/16/2018 Q&A How Can I Convince My Wife That I Only Love Her? 7/16/2018 Q&A Shouldn't My Mate Be More Empathetic by Now? 7/16/2018 Q&A What If He Can Never Truly See the Affair Partner for Who They Are? 7/16/2018 Q&A What Is the Best Way to Start a Conversation When There Is so Much Hurt between Us? 7/16/2018 Q&A How Do I Know If My Mate Truly Is Safe? 7/16/2018 Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Heal from My Lack of Empathy? 7/16/2018 Q&A What Do I Do about My Mean Unfaithful Spouse? 7/16/2018 Q&A How Do I Move past the Feelings of Rage I Have Towards the Affair Partner? 7/11/2018 Q&A Can Regularly Consuming the Content of the Betrayed Forums Be Counter-Productive to Healing? 7/11/2018 Q&A How Can We Create Safety in Our Situation? 7/11/2018 Q&A Can I Change My Unfaithful Mates Perception of the Affair Partner? 7/11/2018 Q&A What Do I Do with Triggering Pictures? 7/11/2018 Q&A Do You Have Any Recommendations for Communicating My Needs? 7/11/2018 Q&A Are There Differences in Love of Spouse in Marriage and Love of the Affair Partner? 7/11/2018 Q&A Can My Husband Heal without Continued Expert Help? 7/11/2018 Q&A How Much Information Should I Have about the Affair? 7/11/2018 Q&A Am I Being Unreasonable by Wanting My Mate to View the Affair Partner in a Different Light? 7/11/2018 Q&A How Do I Handle My Husbands Thinking? 7/11/2018 Mickey and Stephanie's Mentor Video 7/06/2018 Q&A Is There Something Wrong with Me? 7/06/2018 Q&A Why Is My Wife Still Friends with People That Helped Hide Her Affair? 7/06/2018 Q&A Why Isn't My Mate Taking Recovery Seriously? 7/06/2018 Pages« first‹ previous…444546474849505152…next ›last »