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The Power of Small Groups How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? 372 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How do we Overcome these Barriers to Intimacy? 11/30/2016 Q&A What are the Signs to Watch for to Know a Liar has Stopped Lying? 11/30/2016 Q&A Should I Confront My Mate With the Evidence of His Relapse? 11/02/2016 Q&A Should I Demand My Mate Take a Polygraph? 11/02/2016 Q&A Can There be no Feelings After an 8 Year Affair? 10/18/2016 Q&A Is My Husband Lying or is the Polygraph Inaccurate? 10/18/2016 Q&A How do I Stop Being Ambivalent so I can Commit Back to the Marriage? 10/12/2016 Q&A How do I Forgive a Lifetime of Infidelity? 10/12/2016 Q&A Can We Heal from Infidelity if My Mate Isn't Empathetic, Won't Talk About it, and Blows Up When I Bring it Up? 10/11/2016 Q&A How Can I Communicate With My Spouse After Her Affairs? 10/11/2016 Q&A Why Isn't She Remorseful After Her Affair? 10/11/2016 Q&A After His Affair, Will I Ever Trust Him Again? 10/11/2016 Q&A If He's Been so Good at Lying, How Can I Trust His Story of the Affair? 10/11/2016 Q&A If Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater, How do I Feel Safe? 9/28/2016 Q&A What Signs do I Look for to Know that My Unfaithful Spouse is in Recovery? 9/28/2016 Q&A Is This a Reasonable Stand for Me to Take with My Unfaithful Spouse? 9/28/2016 Q&A After His Affairs, He Isn't Broken. Can We Heal? 9/22/2016 Q&A Am I Overreacting About Occasional Pornography Use? 9/22/2016 Q&A How do We Handle This Challenge Regarding Safety? 9/22/2016 Q&A Can We Find a Way for Me to Feel Safe and My Mate Keep the Dream Job? 9/14/2016 Q&A Is God Not Opening the Right Door or is My Mate Not Walking Through? 9/14/2016 Q&A How Do I Answer the Questions I Don't Remember? 9/14/2016 Q&A Should I Quit My Job to Help My Mate Heal After My Affair? 9/14/2016 Q&A Why Does My Mate's Disclosure Not Make Sense? 8/24/2016 Q&A How Can I Convince My Mate to Be Tested for STD's? 8/24/2016 Q&A My Mate has Changed Drastically for the Better. Is This Real? 8/24/2016 Q&A Is it My Mate or the Affair Partner Lying? 8/24/2016 Q&A How Can I Settle These Questions in My Mind? 8/24/2016 Q&A Can Marriages Survive Mismatched Personalities and Sexual Differences? 8/03/2016 Q&A With this Level of Drip Feeding Truth, Will I Regain Feelings for My Spouse? 8/03/2016 Q&A How Did the Conversations Transition? 7/26/2016 Q&A How Can We Move Forward While There is Still Lying to My Face? 7/13/2016 Q&A Did I Extend Too Much Trust Too Soon? 7/12/2016 Q&A Is This a Non-Negotiable? 6/21/2016 Q&A Advice for 'Getting it'? 6/21/2016 Q&A How do I Convince My Mate That I'm Telling the Truth? 6/06/2016 Q&A Is There Anything I Can do to Help My Wife Get to a Place of Forgiveness? 6/06/2016 Q&A What Do You Suggest I Do? 6/03/2016 Q&A What Do I Do Without Honesty? 6/03/2016 Q&A Is Waiting for Remorse a Fool's Errand? 6/03/2016 Q&A Am I Making a Federal Case Out of a Misdemeanor? 6/03/2016 Q&A Why Doesn't He Talk About Previous Relationships? 6/03/2016 Q&A How Could a Polygraph be a Threat if there is Nothing to Hide? 5/17/2016 Q&A How Can I Believe My Spouse Now? 5/17/2016 Is My Mate Safe? 5/10/2016 Q&A What do You Recommend for a Polygraph? 5/03/2016 Q&A What Are Some Exercises to Rebuild Trust? 4/28/2016 Q&A Should I Believe This? 4/26/2016 Surviving Infidelity: How Do You Handle The Disclosure Process? 2/09/2016 Q&A What is Your Opinion of Detachment in Recovery? 2/02/2016 Pages« first‹ previous12345678next ›last »