Rebuilding Trust In the short run, transparency can take the place of trust until trust is reestablished. Learn the components of trust, how to function in its absence, and what it takes to reconnect. Must Reads more less How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The 2 Stages of Pain The Problem with Forgiveness Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Why Did My Spouse Cheat? How to Survive Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Recovery Timeline Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors How do you respond to blackmail? Part II We Started Well, but... 338 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Why do They Continue to Lie? 5/12/2015 Q&A Do you Think he Might be Lying Again? 4/24/2015 Q&A How Can we Shift Control of the Relationship? 4/24/2015 Q&A How Can I Trust Him if I Can't See Him? 4/24/2015 Q&A How do I Obtain Closure When the AP is his Ex-Wife? 4/21/2015 Q&A How Does a Betrayed Spouse Deal with Lying by Omission? 4/15/2015 Q&A Is it Normal for a Betrayed Spouse to have 180 Degree Turnaround? 4/15/2015 Q&A Should I Give up on my Dishonest Husband? 3/20/2015 Q&A How can I Get my Husband to Cut off Contact With His AP? 3/20/2015 Q&A Could my Spouse be Held Back Without Full Disclosure? 2/20/2015 Q&A Should my Spouse Take a Lie Detector? 2/20/2015 Q&A How can I Know if my Husband may be Having Another Affair? 2/20/2015 Q&A How can we Agree on Financial Safety? 2/10/2015 Q&A (HFH) Am I Subconsciously Sabotaging my Marriage? 2/10/2015 Q&A Is it Safe to Stay? 1/23/2015 Q&A How do we Get to Ground Zero and end this Cycle? 1/23/2015 Q&A How Can I Forgive a 7 Year Affair? 1/23/2015 Q&A How do I Start to Trust Again? 1/12/2015 Q&A Should I Be Healed by Now? 1/12/2015 Q&A Can We Recover From This? 1/06/2015 Q&A Do We Need Marriage as a Foundation? 1/06/2015 Q&A Should I Allow my Husband to Move Back in? 1/06/2015 Q&A How can I Stop the Images from Popping up in my Mind? 12/16/2014 Q&A How far do I Push for the Truth? 12/16/2014 Q&A Am I Crazy, or is my Husband Telling the Truth? 12/11/2014 Q&A Am I Over the Top for Feeling this Way? 12/11/2014 Q&A Limerance and Male Compartmentalization 12/11/2014 Q&A Do I Run or Reconcile? 12/10/2014 Q&A How do I Accept This as my Life? 12/10/2014 Q&A How can a Betrayed Spouse Become Unfaithful? 12/10/2014 Q&A My Husband Continuously "Forgets" 12/10/2014 Q&A How Do I Know if my Spouse is Really Changing or just Pretending? 12/10/2014 Q&A How Can I Get Past the Fear of the Future? 12/05/2014 Q&A Should I Share my Temptations and/or Failings with my Spouse? 12/01/2014 Q&A How do you Respond to Righteous Indignation? 11/20/2014 Q&A My Husband is Having Urges 11/05/2014 Q&A Intrusive Thoughts Preventing Rest 11/04/2014 Q&A Intrusive Thoughts and Triggers 11/04/2014 Pages« first‹ previous1234567