Recovering Alone Recovery can be won even if your spouse is not willing to participate just yet. What is most important is your own individual recovery so that you can thrive in a life of new hope and restoration. Must Reads more less How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The Problem with Forgiveness Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 The Power of Small Groups Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery How to Survive Infidelity How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse 170 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Is it OK for Me to Say No Even Though it May Make Things Worse? 11/30/2016 Q&A Have you Seen a Marriage Recover from this Kind of Affair? 11/30/2016 Q&A How Can I Not Feel Lonely While My Spouse Grieves the Loss of His Affair Partner? 11/30/2016 Q&A Why Can't He, and Will He Ever, Understand My Pain? 11/30/2016 Q&A What Concerns Should I Have at this Point in Our Recovery from His Affair? 11/30/2016 Q&A How do We Deal With Chronic Pain, Medication Addiction, and Affair Recovery? 11/23/2016 Q&A How do I Deal With an Extremely Obstinate Unfaithful Spouse? 11/23/2016 Q&A How Long Should I Try to Hold On? 10/24/2016 Q&A qWhat Are Appropriate Separation Protocols? 10/24/2016 Q&A Why Would He Do this After Already Inflicting so Much Pain? 10/24/2016 Q&A Should We Part Ways Now to Save Ourselves? 10/24/2016 Q&A Will My Spouse Come Around or is it Time to End it After the Affair? 9/28/2016 Q&A Should I Let Go or is This Normal Behavior? 9/07/2016 Q&A Why is My Mate Not Making Healing and Recovery a Priority? 9/07/2016 Q&A If the Infidelity Continues, is it Time for Divorce? 8/03/2016 Q&A Any Considerations for Me to Determine Safety in the Relationship? 8/03/2016 Q&A What Will Help My Unfaithful Spouse 'Get it'? 8/03/2016 Q&A How Long Should I Resist Divorce? 7/26/2016 Q&A What Can I Do to Keep Things From Unwinding? 7/19/2016 Q&A What if My Mate Isn't Committed to the EMSO Contract? 7/19/2016 Q&A How Can We Move Forward While There is Still Lying to My Face? 7/13/2016 Q&A How do we Face this Logistical Challenge? 6/28/2016 Q&A Would it be Better Without Me? 6/28/2016 Q&A How Should I Continue From Here? 6/21/2016 Q&A Is This an Unsafe Person? 6/21/2016 Q&A What About Financial Safety? 6/14/2016 Q&A What's the Right Thing to Do Here? 6/03/2016 Q&A Should I Leave and Work on Me? 6/03/2016 Q&A What Direction Should I Take? 6/03/2016 Q&A How Long Should I Wait for My Spouse to Return? 4/28/2016 Q&A What Will the Future Hold in This Scenario? 4/28/2016 Q&A How Can I Feel Safety in an Unsafe Environment? 4/28/2016 Q&A What Should I Be Looking for From My Spouse to Feel Safe? 4/28/2016 Q&A (HH) How do You Know When to Invite an Unfaithful Spouse Home? 3/24/2016 Q&A Are There any Interventions you Suggest? 2/09/2016 Q&A What's Reasonable to Make Me Feel Safe? 2/02/2016 Q&A Can I Feel Safe? 2/02/2016 Q&A What's Left to Do at This Point? 1/26/2016 Q&A How Can I Ensure My Safety? 1/21/2016 Q&A Is it Possible to Heal All of This Alone? 12/23/2015 Q&A Do I Just Wait for Limerance to Fade? 12/15/2015 Q&A Do I Have a Right to Contact the AP's Spouse? 12/15/2015 Q&A Why Won't He Talk About It? 11/19/2015 Q&A Why Does He Want to Fix the Marriage While He is With His AP? 11/10/2015 Q&A My Spouse Is Not Taking Personal Responsibility and May Be a Sex Addict. I Feel Like Giving Up, Should I? 11/04/2015 Q&A How Do I Communicate the Importance of My Spouse's Recovery? 10/20/2015 Q&A Is it Safe For Me to Stay? 10/20/2015 Q&A How can I Pretend to be Happy When I'm Not? 7/07/2015 Q&A Should I Separate my Finances? 6/02/2015 Q&A How Can I Set Boundaries While my Spouse is Having an Affair? 5/12/2015 Pages« first‹ previous1234next ›last »
