Recovering Alone
Recovery can be won even if your spouse is not willing to participate just yet. What is most important is your own individual recovery so that you can thrive in a life of new hope and restoration.
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164 Resources
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Video Q&A How do I Deal With an Extremely Obstinate Unfaithful Spouse? 11/23/2016
Video Q&A How Long Should I Try to Hold On? 10/24/2016
Video Q&A qWhat Are Appropriate Separation Protocols? 10/24/2016
Video Q&A Why Would He Do this After Already Inflicting so Much Pain? 10/24/2016
Video Q&A Should We Part Ways Now to Save Ourselves? 10/24/2016
Video Q&A Will My Spouse Come Around or is it Time to End it After the Affair? 9/28/2016
Video Q&A Should I Let Go or is This Normal Behavior? 9/07/2016
Video Q&A Why is My Mate Not Making Healing and Recovery a Priority? 9/07/2016
Video Q&A If the Infidelity Continues, is it Time for Divorce? 8/03/2016
Video Q&A Any Considerations for Me to Determine Safety in the Relationship? 8/03/2016
Video Q&A What Will Help My Unfaithful Spouse 'Get it'? 8/03/2016
Video Q&A How Long Should I Resist Divorce? 7/26/2016
Video Q&A What Can I Do to Keep Things From Unwinding? 7/19/2016
Video Q&A What if My Mate Isn't Committed to the EMSO Contract? 7/19/2016
Video Q&A How Can We Move Forward While There is Still Lying to My Face? 7/13/2016
Video Q&A How do we Face this Logistical Challenge? 6/28/2016
Video Q&A Would it be Better Without Me? 6/28/2016
Video Q&A How Should I Continue From Here? 6/21/2016
Video Q&A Is This an Unsafe Person? 6/21/2016
Video Q&A What About Financial Safety? 6/14/2016
Audio Q&A What's the Right Thing to Do Here? 6/03/2016
Audio Q&A Should I Leave and Work on Me? 6/03/2016
Audio Q&A What Direction Should I Take? 6/03/2016
Audio Q&A How Long Should I Wait for My Spouse to Return? 4/28/2016
Audio Q&A What Will the Future Hold in This Scenario? 4/28/2016
Audio Q&A How Can I Feel Safety in an Unsafe Environment? 4/28/2016
Audio Q&A What Should I Be Looking for From My Spouse to Feel Safe? 4/28/2016
Audio Q&A (HH) How do You Know When to Invite an Unfaithful Spouse Home? 3/24/2016
Video Q&A Are There any Interventions you Suggest? 2/09/2016
Video Q&A What's Reasonable to Make Me Feel Safe? 2/02/2016
Video Q&A Can I Feel Safe? 2/02/2016
Video Q&A What's Left to Do at This Point? 1/26/2016
Audio Q&A How Can I Ensure My Safety? 1/21/2016
Audio Q&A Is it Possible to Heal All of This Alone? 12/23/2015
Video Q&A Do I Just Wait for Limerance to Fade? 12/15/2015
Video Q&A Do I Have a Right to Contact the AP's Spouse? 12/15/2015
Audio Q&A Why Won't He Talk About It? 11/19/2015
Video Q&A Why Does He Want to Fix the Marriage While He is With His AP? 11/10/2015
Video Q&A My Spouse Is Not Taking Personal Responsibility and May Be a Sex Addict. I Feel Like Giving Up, Should I? 11/04/2015
Video Q&A How Do I Communicate the Importance of My Spouse's Recovery? 10/20/2015
Video Q&A Is it Safe For Me to Stay? 10/20/2015
Video Q&A How can I Pretend to be Happy When I'm Not? 7/07/2015
Video Q&A Should I Separate my Finances? 6/02/2015
Video Q&A How Can I Set Boundaries While my Spouse is Having an Affair? 5/12/2015
Video Q&A How Long do I Wait for my Wife to End her Affair? 4/21/2015
Audio Q&A What Can I do Since my Husband is Still in His Affair? 3/20/2015
Audio Q&A Should I Cut off All Contact With my Husband? 3/20/2015
Audio Q&A What's the Difference Between Personal Recovery and Marital Recovery? 2/20/2015
Audio Q&A How can my Husband Consider Himself Single? 2/20/2015
Video Q&A My Unfaithful Spouse Will Not Share. What do I do? 1/12/2015