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Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 343 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Reflect on How He Got Here? 10/25/2017 Q&A When Will My Mate Feel Safe Again? 10/09/2017 Q&A How Do I Overcome Fear of Relapse? 10/05/2017 Relapse Prevention & How to Recover from an Affair 9/20/2017 Q&A How Do We Work Together after Relapse? 9/08/2017 Q&A Should We Start the Healing Process over Again? 9/06/2017 Q&A Is This an Unhealthy Way to Heal? 9/06/2017 Q&A What Is Euphoric Recall? 8/18/2017 Q&A Should We Be Able to Discuss His Current Activities without a Fight? 8/16/2017 Q&A Should My Husband Be Transparent about His Relationships? 8/16/2017 Q&A How Do I Regain a Sense of Safety after His Relapse? 8/16/2017 Q&A Are We Deluded about His Porn and Alcohol Use? 8/10/2017 Q&A How Can I Ever Feel Safe with This History of Deceit? 7/12/2017 Q&A Do We Revert Back to Our Old State Once the Threat Disappears? 7/12/2017 Q&A Is It Beneficial to Read My Mates Journaling during Hope for Healing? 7/05/2017 Q&A Is It Possible for Him to Change Enough Where I Feel Can Safe in the Future? 7/05/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle My Fear of Contact with the Affair Partner? 7/05/2017 Q&A Am I Crazy for Not Wanting My Husband to Be around His Affair Partner? 6/28/2017 Q&A Once a Person Cheats, Are They More Likely to Cheat Again? 6/21/2017 Q&A He Says I'm 50% Responsible for His Affair. Is That a Sign of Denial? 6/21/2017 Q&A What Can We Expect from EMS Online? 6/07/2017 Q&A How Do We Combat Triggers for Upcoming Events? 5/10/2017 Q&A Is There Hope If the Affair Partner Still Works with My Mate? 5/03/2017 Q&A What's Your Advice for Me Now That My Husband Is Working with His Affair Partner Again? 5/03/2017 Q&A Is He Relapsing? 4/25/2017 Q&A How Can I Be Assertive without Being Aggressive about His Recovery? 4/25/2017 Q&A Should I Be Worried That He Hasn't Completed His 4th Step in 18 Months of Recovery? 4/25/2017 Q&A How can I regain trust after this setback? 4/05/2017 Q&A How can I regain trust after this setback? 4/05/2017 Q&A How Do I Bring up a Situation I'm Uncomfortable With? 3/29/2017 Q&A Is This as Good as it Gets? 3/29/2017 Q&A Is It Normal for Him to Still Think about Her and Desire Her? 3/08/2017 Q&A Should This Friendship End? 3/08/2017 Q&A Is It Common to Relapse More Than Once? 3/08/2017 Q&A Are his Recovery Steps Sufficient or is Something Missing? 2/08/2017 Q&A How can we Achieve Transparency Without me Policing my Husband? 2/08/2017 Q&A How can I Set Boundaries Without Fear of Him Returning to the Affair Partner? 2/08/2017 Q&A Thankful my Skeletons are All Out, But Where do I go from Here? 2/02/2017 Q&A How do I Know if He is Serious About Reconciliation? 1/24/2017 Q&A How do we Start an Accountability Group? 1/11/2017 Q&A How do I Function Normally in the World when I'm Actually a Sex Addict? 1/11/2017 Q&A How Can I Keep Getting Back Up? 1/11/2017 Q&A Am I Wrong to Use History to Confront Current Behaviors? 1/11/2017 Q&A Are these Requests Appropriate for me to Ask for? 12/16/2016 Q&A He Contacted the Affair Partner and Lied About it. What do I do? 12/07/2016 Q&A How Can We Heal from Her Affair Under these Circumstances? 12/07/2016 Q&A Can we Fully Recover from Her Affair Without Moving Our Family? 11/30/2016 Q&A How do you Enforce Boundaries Short of Separation or Divorce? 11/30/2016 Q&A Should 12 Step Work be a Requirement for a Sex Addict Wanting to Salvage the Marriage? 11/30/2016 Q&A What Are Reasonable Expectations for Me Being Married to a Sex Addict? 11/30/2016 Pages« first‹ previous1234567next ›last »