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Healing After An Affair 5060 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Should I Tell the Affair Partner’s Spouse about the Affair? 5/07/2018 Q&A What Should I Do? 5/07/2018 Q&A Can a Person Sincerely Do a ‘180’ on the Way He Treats His Wife after an Affair? 5/07/2018 Q&A How Do I Get Hope? 5/07/2018 Q&A What Should I Do? 5/07/2018 Q&A Will I Ever Feel Love for My Husband Again? 5/07/2018 Q&A What Do I Say to Family Members That Would Like Me to File for Divorce? 5/07/2018 Q&A Should I Leave the Marriage or Should I Stay? 5/07/2018 Q&A Should I Leave the Marriage or Should I Stay? 5/07/2018 Q&A Why Do I Want to Know More? 5/07/2018 Q&A Should I Ask My Unfaithful Wife for What I Want? 5/07/2018 Q&A How Will I Know When the Time Is Right to Date Again? 5/07/2018 Q&A Is a 'Loss of Self' Specific to Infidelity or Trauma? 5/07/2018 Q&A How Common Is It for the Unfaithful Wife to Shut Down? 5/07/2018 Q&A Do You Have Any Insights on My Situation? 5/07/2018 Q&A Will My Husband Ever Be Able to Self-Regulate His Behavior? 5/07/2018 Q&A How Long Can This Process Take and What, If Anything, Should I Be Doing Differently? 5/07/2018 Q&A How Do I Overcome My Doubts and Uncertainty? 5/07/2018 Q&A Why Did My Spouse Leave His Wedding Band on While He Was with the Affair Partner? 5/07/2018 Q&A How Do I Deal with a Lack of Safety in Recovery? 5/07/2018 Q&A How Do I Learn to Love My Spouse Again? 5/07/2018 Q&A Will My Wife Ever Stop Blaming Me for Her Affair? 5/07/2018 Q&A How I Can Get past My Husband's Lack of Seeing the Affair Partner for Who She Is? 5/07/2018 Q&A How I Can Get past My Husband's Lack of Seeing the Affair Partner for Who She Is? 5/07/2018 Q&A Is There Hope for Us? 5/07/2018 Q&A Is Recovery Delayed Because We Are Also Best Friends? 5/07/2018 Q&A How Can I Set Safe Boundaries in Our Recovery? 5/07/2018 Q&A How Do I Deal with the Emotions That Come with This? 5/02/2018 Q&A Is It Safe for Us to Move? 5/02/2018 Q&A How Do You Get over Forbidden Love? 5/02/2018 Q&A Do You Recommend a Separation in This Situation? 5/02/2018 Q&A Why Would My Mate Embellish the Story of Their Affair? 5/02/2018 Q&A Can Our Marriage Survive If My Husband Never Sees the Affair for What It Was? 5/02/2018 Q&A Short of a Polygraph, Can I Trust That He's Telling Me the Truth? 5/02/2018 Q&A Is It Okay to Celebrate My Success in Working on the Marriage? 5/02/2018 Q&A What Is an Exit Affair? 4/25/2018 Q&A What Is the Right Thing for Us to Do with a Child Born from the Affair? 4/25/2018 Q&A Can a Person Sincerely Do a “180” on the Way He Treats His Wife after an Affair? 4/25/2018 Q&A How Long Does It Take for a Sex Addict to Come out of the Denial? 4/25/2018 Q&A How Long Is Too Long? 4/25/2018 Q&A Is My Wife Addicted to Lying? 4/25/2018 Q&A How Do I Heal from All of the Secrets My Husband Kept from Me? 4/25/2018 Q&A Should I Tell My Co-Worker about Her Husband’s Affair? 4/25/2018 Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Stop Living in the Past? 4/25/2018 Q&A Will My Husband Ever See the Affair for What It Really Was? 4/25/2018 Q&A Do You Think My Mate Is Being Honest with Me? 4/25/2018 Q&A Am I Wrong Not to Look Back on Previous Years of Marriage with Fond Memories? 4/25/2018 Q&A When Will I Begin to Love My Mate Again? 4/18/2018 Q&A What Should I Do When My Mate Is Ranting at Me? 4/18/2018 Q&A Why Do I Find Myself Expressing Emotion through Tears So Much in My Recovery? 4/18/2018 Pages« first‹ previous…484950515253545556…next ›last »