All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery The Power of Small Groups Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons How to Survive Infidelity The Problem with Forgiveness Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 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