All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity How to Survive Infidelity Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? The Problem with Forgiveness Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse The Power of Small Groups Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 4838 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Should We Separate Due to the Lack of Safety? 11/01/2018 Q&A Could the Affair Be a Result of Addiction? 11/01/2018 Q&A Should We Share Our Story with Our Children? 11/01/2018 Q&A Will Things Ever Get Better for Us? 11/01/2018 Q&A How Do We Heal When We Have Both Been Unfaithful? 11/01/2018 Q&A How Does Depression Affect Infidelity and Recovery? 11/01/2018 Q&A Was My Mate Committed to Me? 11/01/2018 Q&A Should I Disclose More Information for the Sake of the Children? 11/01/2018 Q&A Is It Necessary to Wait until I No Longer Have Feelings for the AP to Reconnect with My Wife? 11/01/2018 Q&A Could We Fail If We Don't Reach Ground Zero? 11/01/2018 Q&A Why Won't My Mate Give Me Full Disclosure? 11/01/2018 Q&A Can I Retrain My Brain to Not Go into Fight or Flight from the Triggers? 11/01/2018 Hope Rising 2018: Apology from the Unfaithful 10/31/2018 Q&A Will the Deep Pain Ever Cease? 10/23/2018 Q&A Should We Keep Talking about the Affair or Move On? 10/23/2018 Q&A Is It Useful to Think about What Could've Happened? 10/23/2018 Q&A How Do We Move past All the Secrets? 10/23/2018 Q&A Am I Co-Dependent? 10/23/2018 Q&A How Can We Set Boundaries with Friends That Aided the Affair? 10/23/2018 Q&A Why Has My Mate Broken My Trust Again? 10/23/2018 Q&A Should We Continue with EMSO If My Mate Won't Break Contact With the Affair Partner? 10/23/2018 Q&A Is ‘Sleep Masturbation’ a Thing? 10/23/2018 Q&A Is Understanding the 'Why' Important for Healing? 10/23/2018 Q&A How Can I Fix What I've Done? 10/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Overcome the Physical Aspect of the Affair? 10/23/2018 Q&A Is Charm Another Form of Pimping Tenderness? 10/23/2018 Q&A How Can We Safely Parent a Child from the Affair? 10/23/2018 Q&A What Might Be Holding My Partner Back? 10/23/2018 Q&A What Are the Benefits of an Infidelity Specific Therapist? 10/23/2018 Q&A Why Am I Still Struggling with Affection and Intimacy? 10/23/2018 Q&A What Does Living a Life of Recovery Look Like? 10/23/2018 Q&A Should We Separate? 10/23/2018 Q&A Why Does It Seem like My Unfaithful Husband Acts like the Betrayed Spouse? 10/23/2018 Q&A Can Empathy Be Learned? 10/23/2018 Q&A What Can I Do to Help Him Truly Get It? 10/23/2018 Q&A What Can I Do to Strengthen My Self Image? 10/23/2018 Q&A Will This End? 10/23/2018 Q&A Is There a Better Way to Explain My Pain to My Mate? 10/23/2018 Q&A How Can I Change Our Dynamic during Separation? 10/23/2018 Q&A Am I Crazy for Even Trying to Save the Marriage? 10/23/2018 Q&A Will Feelings for the Affair Partner Come Back If They Are Not Addressed? 10/17/2018 Q&A Do I Have Enough Information to Ever Fully Trust Him Again? 10/17/2018 Q&A What Does 'Working on the Marriage' Look like for the Unfaithful? 10/17/2018 Q&A What Should I Expect from a Recovering Wayward Wife? 10/17/2018 Q&A How Can I Continue to Heal Without My Feelings Being Hijacked by Fear? 10/17/2018 Q&A Can We Recover from His Affair If We Live Ten Hours Apart? 10/17/2018 Q&A How Can I Emotionally Detach from the Affair Partner? 10/17/2018 Q&A How Can I Give My Anger a Healthy Outlet? 10/17/2018 Q&A Should I Be Okay with My Mates Ex-Spouse Staying in Our Home When Family Comes to Visit? 10/17/2018 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand What I'm Dealing With? 10/17/2018 Pages« first‹ previous…373839404142434445…next ›last »