All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) The Problem with Forgiveness Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery The Power of Small Groups Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal How to Survive Infidelity Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair 5017 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Why Did This Happen When I Did Everything Right? 1/30/2019 Q&A Can I Get over an Affair Partner I Work With? 1/30/2019 Q&A How Can I Find Better Accountability and Create Safety? 1/30/2019 Q&A Can You Truly Love Someone Else If You Don't Love Yourself First? 1/30/2019 Q&A How Do I Know If My Husband Is a Sex Addict? 1/30/2019 Q&A How Do We Handle Closure with the Affair Partner? 1/30/2019 Q&A Why Does My Husband Use Distraction and Blame to Get Himself out of Owning What He’s Done? 1/30/2019 Q&A Why Does My Mate Say He Can't Remember Details of the Affair? 1/30/2019 Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 1/30/2019 Q&A Is It Better to Be Able to Talk about the Affair Partner or to Act like They Never Existed? 1/28/2019 Q&A Is His Explanation Probable? 1/28/2019 Q&A How Do We Overcome Such Destructive Behavior? 1/28/2019 Q&A Can You Provide Me with Objective Perspective? 1/28/2019 Q&A How Do You Know in Your Heart That You Need to Call It Quits? 1/28/2019 Q&A How Do I Heal from Multiple Traumatic Events? 1/28/2019 Q&A How Do I Know He Really Wants Me and to Save Our Marriage and Not Just Save His Image? 1/28/2019 Q&A Will I Ever See My Husband the Way I Once Did? 1/28/2019 Q&A How Do I Heal When Time Has Been Taken from Me? 1/28/2019 Q&A How Do I Respond to My Husband's Outburst? 1/28/2019 Q&A How Do I Maintain a Realistic View of My Spouse, Marriage and Expectations in Life Married to a Sex Addict? 1/28/2019 Q&A What Is Something That Couple's Do to Take Back Anniversary Dates? 1/28/2019 Q&A Is There Any Reason to Still Be Here? 1/28/2019 Q&A Should I Consider Counseling? 1/28/2019 Q&A Why Seek Recovery for a Marriage That Was Always Bad? 1/28/2019 Q&A Should My Husband Be Evaluated for Sexual Addiction? 1/28/2019 Q&A How Do I Define My Losses? 1/28/2019 Q&A How Do I Grieve and Let Go? 1/28/2019 Q&A Does My Husband Have an Addiction? 1/28/2019 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts about Our Dilemma? 1/28/2019 Q&A Should We Set Boundaries with Masturbation in Marriage? 1/28/2019 Q&A Will I Be Able to Find Joy Again? 1/23/2019 Q&A How Do I Convince My Husband I Did Love Him and Still Do? 1/23/2019 Q&A How Can the Wayward Spouse Process Grief? 1/23/2019 Q&A Is It Okay to Ask for 90 Days of Abstinence? 1/23/2019 Q&A How Do I Begin to Heal If My Mate Isn't Putting in Effort? 1/23/2019 Q&A Why Has Our Recovery Journey Been so Different? 1/23/2019 Q&A Should I Disclose to the Affair Partner's Spouse? 1/23/2019 Q&A Is My Mate Doing Enough to Heal and Be Safe? 1/23/2019 Q&A How Do I Apply Boundaries and Reconcile? 1/23/2019 Q&A How Can I Make Disclosure Safe? 1/23/2019 Q&A Will Our Recovery Process Be Different from General Infidelity? 1/23/2019 Q&A How Do We Handle a Fetish That Causes Triggers? 1/23/2019 Q&A How Do We Get to Full Disclosure? 1/23/2019 Q&A Are Affairs Early in Marriage More Damaging? 1/23/2019 Q&A When Is Enough Enough? 1/23/2019 Q&A Should I Reconcile with the Affair Partner Who Was a Close Friend? 1/23/2019 Q&A How Do I Change My Thinking? 1/23/2019 Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Fall in Love with Me Again? 1/22/2019 Q&A How Can I Trust My Mate with Discovery? 1/22/2019 Q&A Is My Betrayed Wife's Behavior Normal? 1/22/2019 Pages« first‹ previous…373839404142434445…next ›last »