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Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 364 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Do You Have Suggestions for Overcoming Comparison Thoughts? 11/05/2019 Q&A Is This Level of Detail Healthy for Recovery? 10/23/2019 Q&A How Do I Overcome This Sexual Trigger? 10/23/2019 Q&A Do My Sexual Dreams Indicate a Deeper Underlying Problem? 10/16/2019 Q&A How Do I Get the Affair Partner out of My Head? 9/26/2019 Q&A How Do I Overcome This Overwhelming Trigger? 9/26/2019 Q&A What Can I Do to Keep These Triggers from Impacting Me so Much? 9/13/2019 Q&A How Do I Heal from the Intrusive Thoughts That Came as Result of Recording and Listening to My Mates Conversations with the Affair Partner? 9/13/2019 Q&A Why Do I Do about My Thoughts during Sex? 8/28/2019 Q&A How Do I Get past My Own Shame and Guilt? 8/28/2019 Q&A Would This Level of Detail Hurt Our Recovery Process? 8/28/2019 Q&A How Do I Handle My Thoughts and Questions? 8/20/2019 Q&A What Recommendations Do You Have for Overcoming the Sexual Part of the Affair? 8/20/2019 Q&A Should We Disclose the Affair and Resulting Triggers to Family Members? 8/20/2019 Q&A Is It Normal to Feel Heartbroken on the D-Day Anniversary? 8/20/2019 Q&A Is It Healthy for the Betrayed to Know Intimate Details about the Affair Partner? 8/14/2019 Q&A How Can We Overcome the Pain of Anniversary Dates? 8/14/2019 Q&A What Do You Recommend for Changing My Thought Pattern around Intrusive Thoughts? 8/14/2019 Q&A How Do I Quit Thinking about My Husband's Affair? 8/06/2019 Q&A Should We Be Concerned about the Content of Our Dreams during Recovery? 8/02/2019 Q&A Why Can't I Get past My Triggers? 7/24/2019 Q&A How Do I Manage the Thoughts of Comparison? 7/03/2019 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts about My Behavior? 7/03/2019 Q&A How Do I Overcome My Resistance to Re-Engaging Sexually with My Mate? 6/26/2019 Q&A Why Do I Keep Having Nightmares about the Affair Partners? 6/11/2019 Q&A How Do I Manage Myself? 6/11/2019 Q&A How Can We Better Handle Triggers during Sex? 6/05/2019 Q&A What Should I Do to Treat My PTSD? 5/15/2019 Q&A How Do I Overcome the Thoughts of Comparison? 5/15/2019 Q&A How Can I Stop Comparing Myself to the Affair Partner? 5/08/2019 Q&A Is It Typical to Still Be in So Much Anguish This Far down the Road? 5/08/2019 Q&A How Can I Be Passionate with My Spouse Again? 4/10/2019 Q&A How Do I Overcome the Reoccurring Reminders? 4/10/2019 Q&A Will I Ever Feel Okay in My Own Skin Again? 4/03/2019 Q&A How Can I Visit Certain Places without Being Triggered? 3/27/2019 Q&A What Do You Do If Your Partner Is a Trigger? 3/20/2019 Q&A How Long Will the Triggers Continue? 3/20/2019 Q&A Why Am I so Concerned About the Affair Partner? 3/20/2019 Q&A How Can I Overcome Triggers during Sex? 3/13/2019 The Problem with Forgiveness 3/06/2019 Q&A How Can My Mate Help Me Overcome the Loss? 3/04/2019 Q&A How Does a Betrayed Spouse Get past the Hurtful Words Said by the Wayward Spouse? 3/04/2019 Q&A How Do I Handle My New Fears as a Result of the Infidelity? 2/20/2019 Q&A How Can I Stop the Lingering Intrusive Thoughts? 2/20/2019 Q&A How Safe It Is for Me to Keep Racking up the Memories of All Accounts? 2/06/2019 Q&A How Do We Overcome Fantasies during Intimacy? 2/06/2019 Q&A How Do We Handle a Fetish That Causes Triggers? 1/23/2019 Q&A How Do I Change My Thinking? 1/23/2019 Q&A What Boundaries Should We Set around Our Emotions? 1/22/2019 Q&A How Do I Help My Mates Triggers? 1/16/2019 Pages« first‹ previous12345678next ›last »
