Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? The Problem with Forgiveness How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 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Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 1078 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A What Do I Do While Waiting for My Spouse to Be Safe? 5/09/2018 Q&A What Do I Say to Family Members That Would Like Me to File for Divorce? 5/07/2018 Q&A How Do I Deal with a Lack of Safety in Recovery? 5/07/2018 Q&A How Can I Set Safe Boundaries in Our Recovery? 5/07/2018 Q&A Is It Safe for Us to Move? 5/02/2018 Q&A Short of a Polygraph, Can I Trust That He's Telling Me the Truth? 5/02/2018 Q&A Is My Wife Addicted to Lying? 4/25/2018 Q&A Do You Think My Mate Is Being Honest with Me? 4/25/2018 Q&A What Should I Do When My Mate Is Ranting at Me? 4/18/2018 Q&A How Can I Reach Full Disclosure While Protecting Myself from Intrusive Thoughts? 4/18/2018 Q&A What Should I Focus On? 4/05/2018 Q&A How Do I Go on without Full Disclosure? 4/05/2018 Q&A How Can We Protect Ourselves from Relapse? 4/05/2018 Q&A What Are Your Recommendations for My Situation? 4/05/2018 Q&A What Do You Recommend for the Habitual Liar? 4/05/2018 Q&A How Can I Prevent Relapse and Be Safe for My Wife? 3/23/2018 Q&A What Should I Do If My Unfaithful Spouse Won't Share the Whole Story? 3/23/2018 Q&A What Actions Are Necessary from the Unfaithful during Recovery? 3/23/2018 Q&A How Do We Protect Our Young Children during Recovery? 3/23/2018 Q&A How Do You Truly Regain Trust? 3/23/2018 Q&A What Things Do the Betrayed Need to Consider When Deciding Whether or Not to Reconcile? 3/23/2018 Q&A What Should I Do If My Mate Isn't Trying to Recover? 3/23/2018 Q&A Should I Be Concerned about My Unfaithful Mate's Intrusive Thoughts? 3/12/2018 Q&A Is It Beneficial to Allow Your Mate to Read Your Journal? 3/12/2018 Q&A Could His Behaviors towards His Co-Workers Explain His Disconnection with Me? 3/12/2018 Q&A Is My Husband Safe? 2/28/2018 Communication Killers: How to Remedy Stonewalling 2/28/2018 How to Not Make Things Worse: Stonewalling 2/21/2018 Q&A What Do I Do with Intense Thoughts during Sexual Interactions? 2/14/2018 Q&A Is It Acceptable Behavior for My Husband to Have a Female Friend? 2/14/2018 Q&A How Do I Deal with On-Going D-Days? 2/14/2018 Q&A How to We Navigate Recovery with a History of Abuse? 2/14/2018 Q&A Is a Separation Unreasonable after Multiple Relapses? 2/14/2018 Practical Tools for Betrayed Spouses 2/14/2018 Q&A How Can We Maintain Safety While Navigating Discovery? 2/07/2018 Q&A How Can I Keep Myself Safe in This Situation? 1/31/2018 Q&A My Spouse Wants a Revenge Affair, What Do I Do? 1/31/2018 Q&A How Does My Mate Turn Their Life Around? 1/31/2018 Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Quit Criticizing My Attempts to Become Independent? 1/23/2018 Q&A Is My Mate Safe for Reconciliation? 1/23/2018 Q&A What Boundaries Need to Be in Place When Traveling? 1/23/2018 Q&A Are We Generating a Pattern of 'Pretend Normal'? 1/23/2018 Q&A Who Do We Tell about the Affair? 1/23/2018 Q&A Is There Anything I Can Personally Do to Discourage a Persistent AP? 1/22/2018 Forgiving Infidelity: What Forgiveness Is NOT 1/18/2018 Q&A Should I Give My Mate Another Chance? 1/10/2018 Q&A How Much Disclosure Is Considered 'Full Disclosure'? 1/10/2018 Q&A What Do You Do When the Affair Partner Won't Let Go? 1/10/2018 Q&A If Relapse Continues, Does the Effort by the Betrayed Even Matter? 1/08/2018 Q&A What Can Affair Recovery Do Tell Help a Compulsive Liar? 1/08/2018 Pages« first‹ previous…5678910111213…next ›last »
