Free Resources These full articles will give you an example of what to expect from the full version of the Recovery Library. The rest of the categories on the left contain small previews of resources from the full Recovery Library. Must Reads more less Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse The Problem with Forgiveness Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery How to Survive Infidelity Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 The Power of Small Groups Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 313 Resources Type Title Posted Sharing with Others 12/10/2025 Can this Marriage be Saved? 12/10/2025 Betrayal Trauma 12/10/2025 The Affair Recovery Podcast 12/10/2025 Affair Recovery Steps: How to Live Without Fear After Infidelity 11/25/2025 Matt Monteverde's Alumni Story 11/12/2025 Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 10/29/2025 Intrusive Thoughts After the Affair: How to Manage Flooding 10/22/2025 Six Types of Affairs: Emotional Affair 10/15/2025 Overcoming Anxiety Caused by an Affair 10/08/2025 Overcoming the Barriers to Recommitment 10/01/2025 How Do You Deal With Anger After Infidelity? 9/24/2025 Surviving Infidelity: Three Types of Reconciliation 9/17/2025 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 9/03/2025 Are Silence, Avoidance and Frustration Killing Your Recovery? 8/27/2025 Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 8/20/2025 Embracing Intimacy After Infidelity Part 1: How to Reengage 8/13/2025 Rewriting the Story You Tell 7/30/2025 When Should You Stop Talking About the Affair? 7/23/2025 Moving from Self-Hatred to Self-Compassion 7/09/2025 Will I Ever Feel Chosen? 7/02/2025 Forgiving Yourself: A Healing Necessity for Both Spouses 6/25/2025 Movies & Infidelity: Why Hollywood Seems Obsessed with Sex & Secrets 6/18/2025 The Crucial Role of Disclosure in Healing (Survey) 6/11/2025 The Number One Question and How to Answer It 6/04/2025 The Brain’s Hidden Wound of Betrayal Trauma 5/28/2025 Who I Should (and Shouldn't) Tell About the Affair 5/21/2025 How Do I Know I Am Not “Plan B?” 5/14/2025 Grappling with Disappointment from an Affair 5/07/2025 Do’s & Don’ts of Emotional Flooding 4/30/2025 Deciding to Stay: Practical Ways to Rebuild Safety 4/23/2025 The True Definition of Love and Its Role In Surviving An Affair 4/16/2025 The Myth of Greener Grass in Marriage 4/09/2025 Lies We Believe About Our Spouse 4/02/2025 Ending An Affair: Throw Away the Key 3/26/2025 Revenge: Responding to an Affair 3/19/2025 Nine Signs of an Emotional Affair 3/12/2025 Wanting to Be Wanted 3/05/2025 Am I Who They Want? 2/25/2025 Why Did They Choose the Affair Partner? 2/19/2025 Why the Wayward Spouse Doesn’t Want to Talk About the Affair 2/12/2025 What Are Some Practical Steps to Take to Forgive My Spouse? 2/04/2025 How To Survive an Affair: How Much Should I Share with My Spouse? 1/29/2025 Is My Mate Truly Committed to Recovery? 1/22/2025 Destructive Patterns in Communication 1/15/2025 Emotions Running Wild? Why You Lose Control After Infidelity 1/08/2025 Recovery Tips to Face the New Year 1/01/2025 Parenting Through Infidelity: A Father/Daughter Perspective 12/26/2024 Tips for Surviving the Holidays 12/18/2024 How to Prevent Relapse After Infidelity 12/11/2024 Pages1234567next ›last »
