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Healing After An Affair Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 1261 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Can I Move Forward If I'm Concerned about Honesty? 8/06/2019 Q&A Do You Have Advice for My Situation? 8/06/2019 Q&A Would You Please Help Me Understand? 8/06/2019 Q&A What Does Recovery Look like If the Wayward Spouse Isn't Grieved about the Affair? 8/02/2019 Q&A Do You Think Its Good to Focus on the Friendship Aspect of the Marriage during Recovery? 8/02/2019 Q&A Does It Make Sense to Continue Our Relationship? 8/02/2019 Q&A Has Something Gone Wrong in My Husband's Recovery? 7/24/2019 Q&A How Can I Be Transparent in a Way That Doesn't Hurt My Mate? 7/24/2019 Q&A How Much Time Is Reasonable to Talk per Day or Even per Week to Process a 10 Year Affair? 7/24/2019 Q&A Do You Have Suggestions for Understanding and Expressing My Emotions? 7/24/2019 Q&A How Do I Break out of My Codependency? 7/10/2019 Q&A Is There Hope When the Wayward Refuses to Break Contact? 7/10/2019 Q&A How Can I Get My Spouse to Understand What I Need? 7/10/2019 Q&A How Can I Implement Boundaries More Effectively? 7/10/2019 Q&A How Can I Communicate Concerns without Creating Conflict? 7/03/2019 Q&A Do You Have Any Words of Wisdom for Me? 7/03/2019 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts about My Behavior? 7/03/2019 Q&A How Do I Own My Part in the Marriage Dynamic If I’m Not Aware of It? 6/26/2019 Q&A How Can I Encourage the Wayward Spouse to Pursue Healing? 6/26/2019 Expectations of Empathy: A Betrayed Spouse’s Journey 6/26/2019 Q&A How Can I Communicate to My Spouse That I Am Not Excusing My Affair Partner’s Part in the Affair? 6/19/2019 Q&A How Do I Feel Safe If My Spouse Isn't as Committed to Recovery as I Am? 6/19/2019 Q&A How Can I Make It Clear That I'm Choosing by Mate over the Affair Partner? 6/19/2019 Q&A How Do I Keep from Getting Resentful? 6/19/2019 Q&A Am I Being Enabling? 6/11/2019 Q&A Is It Better to Wait for Healing in the Marriage to Resume Intimacy? 6/11/2019 Q&A How Can I Communicate That I'm Choosing My Mate? 6/05/2019 Q&A What Does True Healing Look Like? 6/05/2019 Q&A Is My Behavior a Reason for My Mate to Not Follow Boundaries? 6/05/2019 Q&A How Can We Find Others Like Us to Help Us Heal? 5/21/2019 Q&A What Do You Mean By ‘My Mate Is Not My Problem My Mate Only Reveals the Problem in Me’? 5/21/2019 Q&A How Can We Overcome Our Setbacks? 5/21/2019 Q&A How Do I Shift the Focus off My Mistakes and onto Healing? 5/21/2019 Q&A How Do I Move Forward If My Mate Won't Admit What Happened? 5/15/2019 Q&A What Is the Difference between Constricting Your Emotions and Controlling Your Emotions? 5/15/2019 Andy and Laura Mentor Video 5/14/2019 Q&A Can You Recommend a Timeline? 5/08/2019 Q&A How Do I Properly Grieve the Losses? 5/08/2019 Q&A What Boundaries Would You Recommend upon Reconciliation? 5/08/2019 Q&A Is It Okay for the Wayward Spouse to Journal about the Affair Partner? 4/30/2019 Q&A Why Isn't My Wayward Spouse Pursuing Me? 4/30/2019 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand My Recovery Timeline? 4/30/2019 Q&A Am I Being to Harsh with My Wayward Husband? 4/30/2019 Q&A Why Did My Mate Grow Distant Again? 4/17/2019 Q&A Could the Marriage Have Gotten Better Even While My Mate Is Acting Out? 4/17/2019 Q&A What Boundaries Should We Set for Transparency? 4/17/2019 Q&A What Does the Betrayed Mean When They Say They Need the Wayward to Help Them Heal? 4/12/2019 Q&A Are My Expectations Reasonable? 4/10/2019 Q&A What Should I Do? 4/10/2019 Q&A Is It Safe to Stay with Someone Who Hasn't Fully Disclosed the Affair? 4/10/2019 Pages« first‹ previous…8910111213141516…next ›last »
