All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) The Power of Small Groups Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse The Problem with Forgiveness Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 How to Survive Infidelity Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 5033 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on My Situation? 1/02/2020 Q&A How Do I Deal with My Feelings and My PTSD? 1/02/2020 Q&A How Does Pregnancy with the Affair Partner Affect the Healing Process? 1/02/2020 Q&A Does Working on the Marriage First Give the Wayward Spouse More Strength and Motivation to End the Affair? 1/02/2020 Q&A How Can We Achieve Closure and Develop a New Healthy Parenting Relationship? 1/02/2020 Q&A Will the Hope for Healing Course Be Effective for My Husband? 1/02/2020 Q&A Why Does the Affair Partner Want to Meet Me? 1/02/2020 Q&A How Can I Get My Wayward Spouse to Understand That This Is a Big Deal? 12/19/2019 Q&A How Do I Explain That Some Space Could Be a Good Thing? 12/19/2019 Q&A Should I Continue Trying to Convince My Wayward Spouse to Seek Counseling? 12/19/2019 Q&A How Do We Differentiate between What Secrets Are Safe to Keep and Which Should Be Shared? 12/19/2019 Q&A Why Would My Husband Lie about His Desire for Me? 12/16/2019 Q&A How Can We Create Safety During Military Deployment? 12/16/2019 Q&A How Do I Handle My Spouse Still Trying to Contact the Affair Partner? 12/16/2019 Q&A Could You Please Explain Dissociation and How It Can Cause and Affect People in Affairs? 12/16/2019 Q&A How Can I Fix the Problem of Trickle Truth? 12/16/2019 Q&A My Husband Is Having a Hard Time Recommitting. What Can I Do? 12/16/2019 How Do I Forget the Affair Partner? 12/11/2019 Q&A Is My Childhood Trauma Influencing My Life? 12/05/2019 Q&A How Can I Gain a Better Perspective on What I've Done? 12/05/2019 Q&A How Can I Overcome the Intrusive Thoughts during the Holidays? 12/05/2019 Q&A Is It Normal to Feel Numb after so Much Trickle Truth? 12/05/2019 Q&A What Do You Suggest for Renewing Wedding Vows? 12/05/2019 Q&A What Does Consensual Sex Look like in Marriage? 12/05/2019 Q&A Am I Wasting My Time on Someone That Clearly Doesn't Want to Be with Me? 12/05/2019 Q&A How Can I Begin to Trust with All of the Trickle Truth Happening? 12/05/2019 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 3 12/04/2019 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 2 11/26/2019 Q&A What Keeps an Emotional Affair from Becoming Sexual? 11/22/2019 Q&A Is It Wrong for Me to Give My Mate an Ultimatum? 11/22/2019 Q&A What Suggestions Do You Have for Rebuilding My Self-Image? 11/22/2019 Q&A How Do We Handle Our Children? 11/22/2019 Q&A What Do I Do Now That There Is a Child with the Affair Partner? 11/22/2019 Q&A Could You Elaborate on ‘Affairing Down’? 11/22/2019 Q&A How Do I Know Who My Mate Really Is? 11/22/2019 Q&A Will His Rehabilitation Set Our Recovery Back? 11/22/2019 Q&A When Do I Determine Enough Is Enough? 11/22/2019 Q&A (HH) What Is Your Opinion on Attending My Mates Therapy Sessions? 11/22/2019 Q&A How Do I Deal with Seeing the Affair Partner on a Regular Basis? 11/22/2019 Q&A How Do I Ever Get Those Holidays, That Used to Be Our Holidays, Back? 11/22/2019 Q&A Could You Talk a Little Bit about Emotional Self-Regulation? 11/22/2019 Q&A How Can I Get Past Being Stuck? 11/22/2019 Q&A How Can I Ever Desire My Mate When I Can't Forget What Happened? 11/22/2019 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand Why My Mate Won't Make Amends? 11/22/2019 Q&A Is Compatibility More Important Than Love for a Successful Marriage? 11/22/2019 Q&A Why Is My Spouse Causing This Pain Instead of Showing Empathy? 11/21/2019 Q&A Is It Possible to Extend Too Much Grace and Mercy? 11/21/2019 Q&A Do You Have Advice for Safely Reaching Full Disclosure without a Polygraph? 11/21/2019 Q&A At What Point Do the Thoughts, Feelings, and Mental Pictures Go Away? 11/21/2019 Q&A Does This Ever Completely Go Away? 11/21/2019 Pages« first‹ previous…252627282930313233…next ›last »
