All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? The Power of Small Groups Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened The Problem with Forgiveness Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 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Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision 4838 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Should Intimacy Look for a Couple after Infidelity? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Heal When I Feel He’s Lying and Still Entangled with a Coworker? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Can I Ever Feel Safe with This History of Deceit? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Proceed without Acknowledgement That It Was an Affair? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Tell Others about Our Recovery and How Do I Handle Being Triggered While Seeing Clients? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle Running into the Affair Partner Now That the Affair Is Over? 7/12/2017 Q&A What's Your Take on an Unfaithful Wife Who Still Blames the Marriage for the Affair 1 Year from Discovery? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Help My Spouse When He Is Drowning in Shame? 7/12/2017 Q&A Should I Not Bring up the Affair Again? 7/12/2017 Q&A What Do I Do with a Spouse That Blames Me for the Affair? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle Comparison with the Affair Partner and Changing My Mindset of My Self-Worth? 7/12/2017 Q&A Are We Doomed to a Sexless Marriage after the Affair? 7/12/2017 Q&A Am I Being Emotionally Abused since His Affair? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Is Healing from a Long-Term Affair Different Than Healing from a Short-Term Affair or One Night Stand? 7/12/2017 Q&A Can You Give Specific Suggestions to Handle the Locations of the Acting out with the Affair Partner? 7/12/2017 Q&A What Safe Questions Can I Ask to Regain Our Openness but without Causing Me Pain? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Get past the Fears of What He Will Do If I Leave Him? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Get past My Negative Self Image? 7/12/2017 Q&A Do We Revert Back to Our Old State Once the Threat Disappears? 7/12/2017 Q&A He Wants to Do the Bootcamp but I Don't. What Do We Do? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Can I Get My Wife to See Me in a More Positive Light? 7/12/2017 Q&A Is It Okay to Let the Affair Partner Know That I Forgive Her? 7/12/2017 Q&A Is It Therapeutic for People to Know about My Affair? 7/12/2017 Q&A Where Do I Go from Here? 7/12/2017 Q&A Is Asking Questions Abusive? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Support Him When He Struggles to Be Safe for Us? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Can We Overcome past Promises of Leaving after Betrayal? 7/12/2017 Q&A Why Am I Struggling with the Length of the Affair? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do We Handle Weddings? 7/12/2017 Q&A Will Marriage Therapy Work If the Unfaithful Spouse Doesn't Have to Discuss What Happened? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Know If a Counselor Is a Good Fit? 7/12/2017 Q&A What Is a Reasonable Expectation When I Share a Wound with My Mate? 7/05/2017 Q&A Why Has New Information Been Such a Major Setback for Me? 7/05/2017 Q&A Is It Beneficial to Read My Mates Journaling during Hope for Healing? 7/05/2017 Q&A Since I Cheated on Her, Will My Mate Ever See Me as Committed? 7/05/2017 Q&A How Can I Explain What the Word 'Safe' Means to Me? 7/05/2017 Q&A Is It Possible for Him to Change Enough Where I Feel Can Safe in the Future? 7/05/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle My Fear of Contact with the Affair Partner? 7/05/2017 Q&A Is It Common for People to Rationalize Behaviors Other Than Intercourse as 'Okay'? 7/05/2017 Q&A How Can the Church Support Couples after Infidelity? 7/05/2017 Q&A How Do I Move past Him Not Telling Me He Loves Me? 7/05/2017 Q&A How Do I Know If This Is Progress or Pretend Normal? 6/28/2017 Q&A Is This Level of Anger Normal When Recovering from an Affair? 6/28/2017 Q&A How Can We Help Our Son's Struggles in This Aftermath of Infidelity? 6/28/2017 Q&A Why Am I So Troubled by the Sexual Aspect of the Affair? 6/28/2017 Q&A Am I Crazy for Not Wanting My Husband to Be around His Affair Partner? 6/28/2017 Expert Q&A Preview: What Is Hysterical Bonding and What Does It Mean for a Relationship in Recovery? 6/28/2017 Q&A Am I Wrong to Feel I Can’t Get Past His Infidelity? 6/28/2017 Q&A How Do I Come to Terms With the Unending Lies? 6/28/2017 Q&A Will My Fantasy Dreams End? 6/28/2017 Pages« first‹ previous…555657585960616263…next ›last »