All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity How to Survive Infidelity The Power of Small Groups Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal The Problem with Forgiveness How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 5017 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do We Heal from the Affair While Raising a Child Conceived with the Affair Partner? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do We Set Reasonable Boundaries? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Can My Mate Get the AP to Stop Contact? 10/25/2017 Q&A Do I Need to Know? 10/25/2017 Q&A Am I in a Phase? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Can I Be Sure the Type of Sex He Had with His AP Is Not His New Preference? 10/25/2017 Q&A Was His Behavior Typical of Someone in an Affair? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Can I Be Sure That the Feelings Are Gone? 10/25/2017 Q&A What Might It Take for My Heart to Stop Aching and Me to Be Truly 'All In'? 10/25/2017 Q&A What Might It Take for My Heart to Stop Aching and Me to Be Truly 'All In'? 10/25/2017 Q&A Why Can't I Fully Commit to My Wife? 10/25/2017 Q&A Why Can’t I Remember When My Affair Started? 10/25/2017 Q&A What Causes Someone to Cheat? 10/25/2017 Q&A Should I Prepare to Leave or Take Control of Our Healing? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Reflect on How He Got Here? 10/25/2017 Q&A Are the Details of Relationships Prior to Marriage worth Sharing? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Can I Convey the Importance of Remorse and Grief from My Mate? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Can I Feel Not Just Safe, but Free Again? 10/25/2017 Q&A What Can I Do If My Wife Has Totally Lost Trust in Me? 10/25/2017 Understanding Grief in Infidelity 10/24/2017 Do You Struggle with Forgiveness? 10/17/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle Daily Triggers? 10/10/2017 Q&A Is It Normal to Feel Nothing for My Spouse? 10/10/2017 Q&A How Do I Show Her We Can Recover from This? 10/10/2017 Q&A When Do We Address My Mates Contributions to Our Marriage Issues? 10/10/2017 Q&A How Can I Help My Wife Not Feel Like a Victim? 10/10/2017 Q&A Why Won't My Mate Fully Commit to Me? 10/09/2017 Q&A Was the Affair a Result of Childhood Abuse? 10/09/2017 Q&A Why Is My Unfaithful Mate So Selfish? 10/09/2017 Q&A Should I Ask about the Physical Parts of the Affair? 10/09/2017 Q&A When Will My Mate Feel Safe Again? 10/09/2017 Q&A Does Childhood Abuse Predispose People to Infidelity? 10/09/2017 Q&A How Do We Handle Separation during EMS Online? 10/09/2017 Q&A Can Separation Increase the Time It Takes a Couple to Recover? 10/09/2017 Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Begin Their Own Healing? 10/09/2017 Expert Q&A Preview: Will Mate Ever Understand What They Have Done? 10/05/2017 Q&A How Do I Discuss the Affair with My Mate? 10/05/2017 Q&A What Do I Do with My Husband's Lack of Remorse? 10/05/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle People Ignoring the Affair? 10/05/2017 Q&A How Do I Get over the Sexual Things My Husband Would Do with His AP, but Not with Me? 10/05/2017 Q&A How Do We Handle Transparency in Recovery? 10/05/2017 Q&A How Do I Get the Care I Need When He Doesn't Care about Himself? 10/05/2017 Q&A Is It Important That the Unfaithful Mourn the Loss of the Affair/Affair Partner? 10/05/2017 Q&A Is There Any Hope for Us? 10/05/2017 Q&A Can a Man Truly Love Two Women at the Same Time? 10/05/2017 Q&A How Do I Overcome Fear of Relapse? 10/05/2017 Q&A Why Does It Seem That It Is Getting Harder to Overcome the Betrayal? 10/05/2017 Q&A Is My Mates Change of Heart Genuine? 10/05/2017 Q&A What's the Difference between Being Emotionally Attached and Unable to Detach? 10/05/2017 Q&A Does It Ever Feel Okay to Get the Divorce? 10/05/2017 Pages« first‹ previous…555657585960616263…next ›last »