All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How to Survive Infidelity Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons The Power of Small Groups Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Does Time Heal All Wounds? 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A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery The Problem with Forgiveness 5004 Resources Type Title Posted Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 8/23/2018 Q&A What Are Good Guidelines for Workplace Friendships with Members of the Opposite Sex? 8/22/2018 Q&A How Do I Deal with Working with My Spouse's Affair Partner? 8/22/2018 Q&A Why Won't My Mate See the Affair for What It Was? 8/22/2018 Q&A Where Is the Humility and Empathy? 8/22/2018 Q&A Do You Know If There Is a Connection between OCD and Sexual Addiction? 8/22/2018 Q&A Are Marriages More Likely to Dissolve During the First 6 Weeks of Discovery? 8/22/2018 Q&A What Keeps My Betrayed Spouse from Acknowledging Her Lack of Safety in Our Relationship? 8/22/2018 Q&A How Can I Prove to My Mate I'm Telling the Truth? 8/22/2018 Q&A What Do I Do When My Mate Stonewalls for Days? 8/22/2018 Q&A How Can I Help My Spouse Accept How Long My Affair Lasted? 8/22/2018 Q&A Was My Husband in Love with His Affair Partner? 8/22/2018 Q&A Is It Possible That My Wayward Spouse to Become More Ambivalent? 8/22/2018 Q&A What Does It Look like for the Wayward Spouse to Help the Injured Spouse through Recovery? 8/22/2018 Q&A What Can I Do with My Unmet Needs? 8/15/2018 Q&A How Do We Protect Our Children During Recovery? 8/15/2018 Q&A What Is the Next Step for Us? 8/15/2018 Q&A Will My Husband Ever 'Get It'? 8/15/2018 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Communicating with the Affair Partners Spouse? 8/15/2018 Q&A Am I Wrong in My Understanding That This Is Financial Infidelity? 8/15/2018 Q&A Am I Making Too Much of the Words My Mate Uses? 8/15/2018 Q&A How Can I Encourage My Spouse to Pursue Healing? 8/15/2018 Q&A Will My Spouse Ever Grow Up? 8/15/2018 Q&A Can You Help Me Explain My Shame to My Mate? 8/15/2018 Q&A Do You Think Privacy Has a Place in a Marriage? 8/15/2018 Q&A Can Our Marriage Be Restored? 8/15/2018 Ending an Affair: Close the Door 8/15/2018 Q&A How Can I Let Go of the Hurt from What My Spouse Shared with the Affair Partner? 8/08/2018 Q&A How Do We Rebuild from the Rubble at This Point? 8/08/2018 Q&A How Can Anyone Justify Abandoning the Kids? 8/08/2018 Q&A Can You Help Me Explain My Trauma to My Husband? 8/08/2018 Q&A Can You Further Explain Compartmentalization? 8/08/2018 Q&A How Do I Move On? 8/08/2018 Q&A How Can We Heal Our Marriage and Create Safety with Family Members? 8/08/2018 Q&A Is It Worth Doing the EMS Weekend after You've Already Done the Online Version? 8/08/2018 Q&A Do I Need to Do All These Steps? 8/08/2018 Q&A Do I Let Her Go? 8/08/2018 Q&A How Do I Overcome This Vicious Cycle? 8/08/2018 Q&A Is There Hope for Us? 8/08/2018 Q&A Are Things beyond Repair? 8/08/2018 Q&A What Will Happen to My Wayward Spouse If She Never Pursues Healing? 8/08/2018 Q&A How Can I Communicate That It Was Shame That Caused Me to Hide? 8/08/2018 Q&A Why Can’t I Let Go of the Past? 8/08/2018 Q&A Will There Be Mentor Stories with Dynamics Similar to Ours? 8/08/2018 Q&A Is a Marriage Devoid of Sexual Intimacy Doomed? 8/08/2018 Q&A How Are You Supposed to 'Enjoy' Your Mate When There Is so Much Anger and Pain? 8/08/2018 Q&A Why Is My Wayward Spouse Still Curious about the Affair Partner? 8/08/2018 Q&A What Are Some Acceptable 'High Risk' Green Light Behaviors You Can Recommend for Couples? 8/08/2018 Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision 8/08/2018 Q&A Should I Cut Ties with Friends That Played a Role in My Mates Affair? 8/01/2018 Pages« first‹ previous…434445464748495051…next ›last »