All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? The Power of Small Groups The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal The Problem with Forgiveness Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery How to Survive Infidelity Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 5004 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Is It Ok to Withdraw My Commitment to Being Completely Emotionally Honest? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Can I Rekindle the Love for My Mate If They Won't Cooperate? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Do I Move Forward after Betrayal and Divorce? 5/03/2017 Q&A If I Learn There Were More People Than I Initially Thought, Does My Healing Process Begin Again? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Do I Get Rid of My Shame? 5/03/2017 Expert Q&A Preview: How Can I Give My Wife Hope after Betraying Her So Deeply? 5/03/2017 Expert Q&A Preview: Why Did I Do This and How Do I Get out of This Pit? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Do I Achieve Forgiveness? 5/03/2017 Q&A Now That Harboring Hope Is over Do We Tell Our Family or Friends about the Infidelity? 5/03/2017 Q&A What Can I Do to Help Reduce the Frequency of Intrusive Imagery? 5/03/2017 Q&A Is It Possible to Build a New Marriage without Physical Intimacy? 5/03/2017 Q&A Could You Explain What Serial Affairs Means Exactly? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle Triggers When the Affair Partner Is Entangled into Many Aspects of Our Lives? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Do I Get to the Point Where I Can Give the Marriage the Chance to Rekindle the Love? 5/03/2017 Q&A Is There a Point in Staying Married since My Husband Is Visiting His Affair Partner and Their Child? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Can I Work towards Healing If I Don't Feel We Are at Ground Zero? 5/03/2017 Q&A What's Your Advice for Me Now That My Husband Is Working with His Affair Partner Again? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Can I Learn to Cope and Handle the Hurt? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Can She Be So Kind Now after the Way She Treated Me Just a Year Ago? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Can I Hear His Heart? 5/03/2017 Q&A What Do I Do with This Anger and Loss of Trust We Had Worked Hard to Gain? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Can I Express Hurt and Anger but Not Shame My Spouse? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Can I Possibly Turn around the Tone and Momentum? 5/03/2017 Q&A Should We Discuss My Faults in the Marriage Now or Wait until He Takes Responsibility for His Infidelities? 5/03/2017 Q&A Where Do I Go from Here? 5/03/2017 Q&A Is It Me or My Trauma That's Holding Us Back? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Can I Feel I'm in an Ideal Marriage If I Can't Expect Sex to Be Ideal? 4/25/2017 Q&A Can Our Sexual Relationship Heal or Should I Change My Expectations? 4/25/2017 Q&A What Should I Do Now That I'm Finished with EMS Online? 4/25/2017 Q&A Is an EMS Course an Option with the Affair Partner Still in the Picture? 4/25/2017 Q&A Should My Wife Offer Amends and/or Disclosure to Her Ex Husband? 4/25/2017 Q&A How Can I Trust Someone Who Has Manipulated Me So Much? 4/25/2017 Q&A Why Do You Say Oral Sex Is 'Always about Sex'? 4/25/2017 Q&A Should I Be Worried That She's Not Sharing Her Intrusive Thoughts with Me? 4/25/2017 Q&A Is Our Church Safe? 4/25/2017 Q&A Is He Relapsing? 4/25/2017 Q&A Should We Change Churches? 4/25/2017 Q&A He Blames His Addiction on My Lack of Connection and I Blame My Lack of Connection on His Addiction. 4/25/2017 Q&A When Is It Safe to End a Separation and Come Back Together? 4/25/2017 Q&A When Will I Stop Being Angry and Start Grieving? 4/25/2017 Q&A How Can We Figure out What the Affair Was About? 4/25/2017 Q&A How Can I Be Assertive without Being Aggressive about His Recovery? 4/25/2017 Q&A How Do We Get through This without Being Together? 4/25/2017 Q&A Why Was He a Different Person in His Affairs? Why Can't He Be More Like That with Me? 4/25/2017 Q&A Is It Healthy for Me to Withdraw My Commitment for Complete Honesty? 4/25/2017 Q&A Should I Be Worried That He Hasn't Completed His 4th Step in 18 Months of Recovery? 4/25/2017 Q&A What Is Shaming? 4/25/2017 Q&A What Are Possibilities If My Spouse Isn't Comfortable with Group Work? 4/25/2017 Q&A Is There Hope for This to Get Better? 4/12/2017 Q&A Is This Normal Limerence or Is He a Love Addict? 4/12/2017 Pages« first‹ previous…616263646566676869…next ›last »