Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) How Could You? 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Healing After An Affair 1075 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Create a Safe Boundary for Myself While Showing Him Grace and Not Reject His Desire to Open up to Me and Reconnect? 6/16/2021 Q&A Are There Any Tips on How to Handle Someone Who Is Not Displaying Remorse, Is Full Of Anger and Pain, And Deeply Depressed? 6/16/2021 Q&A I Want Proof That His Affair Partner Has Been Contacted and Told That It Is 100% Over and He Will Never Contact Her Again. How Do I Go About This? 6/16/2021 Q&A How Do I Love Her through Her Controlling Issues While Still Maintaining My Sanity? 5/25/2021 Q&A Is It Wrong to Expect My Husband to Stop Contact with an Affair Partner Who Is Close to the Family and My Best Friend? 5/12/2021 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts about a Post Infidelity Contract? 4/29/2021 Q&A How on Earth Do I Enforce Boundaries during This Time without Pushing Her Back to the Affair Partner? 4/29/2021 Q&A How Do I Cast Down My Thoughts of Beating Up My Wife’s Affair Partner? 4/29/2021 Q&A Is It Better to Ignore Him When He Is Trying to Reach Out and Connect or Should I Respond in Kind to Try to Maintain the Peace? 4/29/2021 Q&A How Does the Addition of Domestic Violence Influence Affair Recovery? 4/29/2021 Q&A Is He ‘Cured’ and Am I Now Safe? 4/13/2021 Travel Plan: How to Create One and Why They're Worthwhile 3/31/2021 Q&A How Do I Balance Guarding My Heart with Building Intimacy in EMS Online When My Mate Is Still Engaging His Affair Partner? 3/25/2021 Q&A How Do We Safely and Respectfully Navigate Reconciliation, and Re-Integration to the Home, While Separated? 3/22/2021 Q&A What Does the Betrayed Spouse Do When the Betrayer Just Won’t End the Affair and Shows Signs of Limerence? 3/09/2021 Q&A Is It Alright for Me Not to Confront My Husband about Breaching the Contract? 3/09/2021 Q&A What More Can I Do to Become Safe for Her and Rebuild Our Relationship? 2/11/2021 Q&A Am I Wrong to Demand Him to Quit His Job for My Own Healing? 2/11/2021 Q&A How Can I Remain Supportive and Loving While Also Protecting Myself? 1/28/2021 Q&A Am I Wrong for Wanting to Know My Husband's Yellow-Light Behaviors? 1/25/2021 Q&A How Can I Get My Husband to Understand the Importance of Boundaries? 1/20/2021 Q&A Is It Appropriate to Abstain from Sex until Safety and Emotional Intimacy Have Been Established? 1/20/2021 Q&A How Can I Get My Wife to Stop Seeing Her Affair Partner? 1/14/2021 Q&A How Can I Help My Wife Feel Safe Again? 1/14/2021 Q&A How Do I Deal with Constant Relapse? 1/14/2021 Q&A Should I Even Consider Staying or Working on the Marriage? 1/07/2021 Q&A Should He Leave His Job? 11/18/2020 Q&A How Do I Discern If or When It's Safe to Trust Him Again? 11/12/2020 Q&A What Should I Do as the Wayward Spouse When My Spouse Has a Breakdown? 11/12/2020 Q&A How Do We Safely Co-Parent with the Affair Partner When a Child Is Born as a Result of the Affair? 11/12/2020 Q&A How Does One Determine What Not to Share with Their Spouse While Remaining Open and Honest? 10/22/2020 Q&A Am I Wrong to Ask Her to Stop Social Media Use? 10/22/2020 Q&A What Does Moving Forward a Year Later Look Like? 10/22/2020 Q&A Should My Husband Find Another Job to Protect Himself from Relapse? 9/24/2020 Q&A What Factors Are Important When Deciding If the Wayward Spouse Needs to Leave a Job to Distance from the Affair Partner? 9/03/2020 Q&A My Wife Is Considering a Revenge Affair. What Should I Do? 9/03/2020 Q&A When Is It Appropriate to Communicate to My Spouse That Their Behavior Is Not Acceptable? 9/02/2020 Q&A Am I Overreacting or Is My Husband Not Taking Responsibility? 8/27/2020 Q&A My Husband Became a Bitter Person, What Should I Do? 8/27/2020 Q&A Is My Husband's Behavior Abusive? 8/18/2020 Q&A How Am I Supposed to Address This Barrier More Than I Already Have? 8/18/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle My Wayward Wife's Friendships? 8/13/2020 Q&A What Would You Advise Regarding My Living Situation? 8/13/2020 Q&A How Should We React to Insensitivity? 8/06/2020 Q&A How Can I Feel Safe Again? 7/30/2020 Q&A How Do I Create Safety for Myself When My Vulnerability Was Abused? 7/28/2020 Q&A How Do I Help My Betrayed Spouse Get past the Anger? 7/28/2020 Q&A How Can I Feel Safe When There Is No Empathy? 7/16/2020 Q&A Should We Separate If My Mate Is Still Unsafe? 7/16/2020 Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust with Someone Who Is Constantly Keeping Secrets and Lying? 7/09/2020 Pages« first‹ previous123456789…next ›last »
