Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it The Power of Small Groups Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons How to Survive Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 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Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 1078 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A What Boundaries Can We Set around This Relationship? 9/26/2018 Q&A Why Is My Mate Reacting This Way? 9/26/2018 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Contacting the Affair Partner on Behalf of Your Spouse? 9/26/2018 Q&A How Can I Protect Myself from My Mates Unsafe Behaviors? 9/20/2018 Q&A How Can I Approach My Mates Fears in a Healthy Way? 9/20/2018 Q&A What Type of Boundaries Can I Set for My Wife Who Has Had an Affair with Co-Worker? 9/20/2018 Q&A Is It Safe for Us to Reconcile? 9/12/2018 Q&A Why Won't My Mate Create a Safe Space for Me to Heal? 9/12/2018 Q&A Is It Dangerous to Examine Photos and Messages from the Affair Partner? 9/12/2018 Q&A Should We Separate If My Mate Refuses to Break Contact with the Affair Partner? 9/12/2018 Q&A Could This Lack of Safety Be Reason to End Our Relationship? 9/12/2018 Q&A What Should I Do about Physical Abuse? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Can We Move Forward in Healing with the Fear That I May Remember More Information about My Affair? 9/12/2018 Q&A Is There Hope for Recovery in This Type of Situation? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Long Should I Wait for Consistent Honesty? 8/29/2018 Q&A How Do I Handle My Mate's Lying? 8/29/2018 Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Create Safety in Our Recovery? 8/29/2018 Q&A How Do I Get beyond This? 8/29/2018 Q&A How Do I Deal with My Feelings towards the Affair Partner? 8/29/2018 Q&A Will Our Marriage Get Better? 8/29/2018 Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 2 8/29/2018 Q&A How Do I Deal with Working with My Spouse's Affair Partner? 8/22/2018 Q&A What Keeps My Betrayed Spouse from Acknowledging Her Lack of Safety in Our Relationship? 8/22/2018 Q&A How Can I Prove to My Mate I'm Telling the Truth? 8/22/2018 Q&A How Do We Protect Our Children During Recovery? 8/15/2018 Q&A Do You Think Privacy Has a Place in a Marriage? 8/15/2018 Q&A How Can We Heal Our Marriage and Create Safety with Family Members? 8/08/2018 Q&A Should I Cut Ties with Friends That Played a Role in My Mates Affair? 8/01/2018 Q&A Should I Be Concerned about My Mates Behavior Patterns? 8/01/2018 Q&A How Do We Cut Ties with People That Enable Destructive Patterns? 7/16/2018 Q&A How Do I Know If My Mate Truly Is Safe? 7/16/2018 Q&A What Do I Do about My Mean Unfaithful Spouse? 7/16/2018 Q&A How Can We Create Safety in Our Situation? 7/11/2018 Q&A Do You Think It Is Important to Confess Infidelity to Parents? 7/06/2018 Q&A Is This Another Form of Justification and Blame Shifting? 6/27/2018 Q&A How Long Should I Wait for My Mate to Come out of Limerence? 6/27/2018 Q&A How Can We Protect Our Safety Protocol While Traveling? 6/15/2018 Q&A Are There Boundaries That Need to Be Followed as an Accountability Partner? 6/15/2018 Looking for Safety: Harboring Hope 6/12/2018 Q&A Do You Have Additional Resources for Overcoming Gaslighting? 6/08/2018 Q&A How Am I Supposed to Interact with the Family Members That Helped Hide My Mates Affair? 6/08/2018 Q&A How Should I Handle My Husbands Relapse? 6/07/2018 Q&A Can Someone with Self-Awareness and Boundaries Still Relapse? 6/06/2018 Q&A My Betrayed Spouse Wants Me to Contact the Affair Partner. What Should I Do? 6/06/2018 Q&A My Mate Doesn't Believe I've Disclosed Everything, What Should I Do? 5/23/2018 Q&A What Should I Do If My Mates Recovery Isn't Consistent? 5/16/2018 Q&A What Do I Do about My Mother-In-Law? 5/16/2018 Q&A Should I Put My Running Shoes on and Get out Now? 5/09/2018 Q&A How Do I Communicate That If He Doesn't Get Help That It's Over? 5/09/2018 Q&A Is This a Sign of My Husband's Lack of Commitment? 5/09/2018 Pages« first‹ previous…456789101112…next ›last »
