Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) How do you respond to blackmail? Part II 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse We Started Well, but... Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The 2 Stages of Pain Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How to Survive Infidelity Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Why Did My Spouse Cheat? The Problem with Forgiveness Recovery Timeline The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? 1021 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Do You Think My Mate Is Being Honest with Me? 4/25/2018 Q&A What Should I Do When My Mate Is Ranting at Me? 4/18/2018 Q&A How Can I Reach Full Disclosure While Protecting Myself from Intrusive Thoughts? 4/18/2018 Q&A What Should I Focus On? 4/05/2018 Q&A How Do I Go on without Full Disclosure? 4/05/2018 Q&A How Can We Protect Ourselves from Relapse? 4/05/2018 Q&A What Are Your Recommendations for My Situation? 4/05/2018 Q&A What Do You Recommend for the Habitual Liar? 4/05/2018 Q&A How Can I Prevent Relapse and Be Safe for My Wife? 3/23/2018 Q&A What Should I Do If My Unfaithful Spouse Won't Share the Whole Story? 3/23/2018 Q&A What Actions Are Necessary from the Unfaithful during Recovery? 3/23/2018 Q&A How Do We Protect Our Young Children during Recovery? 3/23/2018 Q&A How Do You Truly Regain Trust? 3/23/2018 Q&A What Things Do the Betrayed Need to Consider When Deciding Whether or Not to Reconcile? 3/23/2018 Q&A What Should I Do If My Mate Isn't Trying to Recover? 3/23/2018 Q&A Should I Be Concerned about My Unfaithful Mate's Intrusive Thoughts? 3/12/2018 Q&A Is It Beneficial to Allow Your Mate to Read Your Journal? 3/12/2018 Q&A Could His Behaviors towards His Co-Workers Explain His Disconnection with Me? 3/12/2018 Q&A Is My Husband Safe? 2/28/2018 Communication Killers: How to Remedy Stonewalling 2/28/2018 How to Not Make Things Worse: Stonewalling 2/21/2018 Q&A What Do I Do with Intense Thoughts during Sexual Interactions? 2/14/2018 Q&A Is It Acceptable Behavior for My Husband to Have a Female Friend? 2/14/2018 Q&A How Do I Deal with On-Going D-Days? 2/14/2018 Q&A How to We Navigate Recovery with a History of Abuse? 2/14/2018 Q&A Is a Separation Unreasonable after Multiple Relapses? 2/14/2018 Practical Tools for Betrayed Spouses 2/14/2018 Q&A How Can We Maintain Safety While Navigating Discovery? 2/07/2018 Q&A How Can I Keep Myself Safe in This Situation? 1/31/2018 Q&A My Spouse Wants a Revenge Affair, What Do I Do? 1/31/2018 Q&A How Does My Mate Turn Their Life Around? 1/31/2018 Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Quit Criticizing My Attempts to Become Independent? 1/23/2018 Q&A Is My Mate Safe for Reconciliation? 1/23/2018 Q&A What Boundaries Need to Be in Place When Traveling? 1/23/2018 Q&A Are We Generating a Pattern of 'Pretend Normal'? 1/23/2018 Q&A Who Do We Tell about the Affair? 1/23/2018 Q&A Is There Anything I Can Personally Do to Discourage a Persistent AP? 1/22/2018 Forgiving Infidelity: What Forgiveness Is NOT 1/18/2018 Q&A Should I Give My Mate Another Chance? 1/10/2018 Q&A How Much Disclosure Is Considered 'Full Disclosure'? 1/10/2018 Q&A What Do You Do When the Affair Partner Won't Let Go? 1/10/2018 Q&A If Relapse Continues, Does the Effort by the Betrayed Even Matter? 1/08/2018 Q&A What Can Affair Recovery Do Tell Help a Compulsive Liar? 1/08/2018 Q&A Should I Just Suck It Up? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Do I Surrender Control? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Do You End an Affair with an Unstable Affair Partner? 12/20/2017 Q&A Am I Asking for Too Much in Regards to Safety in Recovery? 12/20/2017 Q&A Is It Time to Move On? 12/20/2017 Q&A What Can I Do to Heal from the Massive Anxiety I Am Now Facing? 12/20/2017 Q&A Where Does Self-Love Fit in to the Process of Recovery? 12/20/2017 Pages« first‹ previous…456789101112…next ›last »