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Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision How to Survive Infidelity 5060 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Is It Possible That My Partner Is a Sex Addict? 2/20/2019 Q&A Is It Healthy to Feel Nothing Toward the Affair Partner? 2/20/2019 Q&A How Do I Get to a Place of Safety and Intimacy with My Mate? 2/20/2019 Q&A Is My Spouse a Good Person in Spite of the Infidelity? 2/20/2019 Q&A Will the Lies Ever Stop? 2/20/2019 Q&A Is My Mate Still in Limerence? 2/20/2019 Q&A How Can I Stop the Lingering Intrusive Thoughts? 2/20/2019 Why People Cheat: Justifications of the Unfaithful (Part 3) 2/20/2019 Rodney and Angela Mentor Video 2/14/2019 Q&A How Do We Find the Right Therapist? 2/13/2019 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Anger Management? 2/13/2019 Q&A Should a Spouse with Sexual Addiction Refrain from Masturbation during Recovery? 2/13/2019 Q&A How Do We Recover When My Spouse Has Trouble Talking about the Affair and Internal Feelings? 2/13/2019 Q&A How Do We Recover When We Have a Hard Time Communicating? 2/13/2019 Q&A How Can We Become More Transparent with Each Other? 2/13/2019 Q&A How Do I Wrap My Mind around My Mate’s Sexual Addiction? 2/13/2019 Q&A Would We Benefit from Sleeping in Separate Rooms? 2/13/2019 Q&A Am I a Hypocrite for Staying? 2/13/2019 Q&A What Steps Do You Take to Find the Right Accountability Partner? 2/13/2019 Q&A Will My Partner Ever Treat Me as Well as the Affair Partner? 2/13/2019 Q&A Why Am I Supposed to Accept the Label 'Unfaithful'? 2/13/2019 Q&A Why Is the Timeline of the Affair so Important to Me? 2/13/2019 Q&A How do We Handle the Affair Partners Immature Actions? 2/06/2019 Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Get Help? 2/06/2019 Q&A How Can My Husband Understand My Desire for Him and Wanting Him to Desire Me? 2/06/2019 Q&A Am I Being Controlling in Our Recovery? 2/06/2019 Q&A How Can I Get My Mate to Create Safety? 2/06/2019 Q&A How Do I Deal with My Betrayed Spouse's Ambivalence? 2/06/2019 Q&A How Do We Get to a Safe Place with Details I Can't Remember? 2/06/2019 Q&A How Safe It Is for Me to Keep Racking up the Memories of All Accounts? 2/06/2019 Q&A How Do I Convey That I Still Loved My Spouse during My Affair? 2/06/2019 Q&A Why Is My Wayward Spouse Having Trouble Facing This? 2/06/2019 Q&A Am I Interpreting Free Will Wrong? 2/06/2019 Q&A How Do I Come Back from a Relapse? 2/06/2019 Q&A Is My Mate Really Trying to Recover? 2/06/2019 Q&A How Do We Deal with Feelings of Abandonment When We Chose Not to Be Intimate? 2/06/2019 Q&A How Do I Deal with My Mates Ambivalence? 2/06/2019 Q&A How Do We Overcome Fantasies during Intimacy? 2/06/2019 Q&A Should I Stay with My Wayward Spouse? 2/06/2019 Q&A Can I Every Truly Be Safe for My Spouse? 1/30/2019 Q&A Should I Tell the Affair Partner about an STD? 1/30/2019 Q&A Where Is God in All of This? 1/30/2019 Q&A Are You Familiar with the Enneagram of Personality? 1/30/2019 Q&A Why Did This Happen When I Did Everything Right? 1/30/2019 Q&A Can I Get over an Affair Partner I Work With? 1/30/2019 Q&A How Can I Find Better Accountability and Create Safety? 1/30/2019 Q&A Can You Truly Love Someone Else If You Don't Love Yourself First? 1/30/2019 Q&A How Do I Know If My Husband Is a Sex Addict? 1/30/2019 Q&A How Do We Handle Closure with the Affair Partner? 1/30/2019 Q&A Why Does My Husband Use Distraction and Blame to Get Himself out of Owning What He’s Done? 1/30/2019 Pages« first‹ previous…373839404142434445…next ›last »