All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal How to Survive Infidelity How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted The Power of Small Groups How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision The Problem with Forgiveness Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 5036 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Can I Give My Anger a Healthy Outlet? 10/17/2018 Q&A Should I Be Okay with My Mates Ex-Spouse Staying in Our Home When Family Comes to Visit? 10/17/2018 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand What I'm Dealing With? 10/17/2018 Q&A Do You Have Statistics on Relapse? 10/10/2018 Q&A How Do I Forgive What My Mate Has Done? 10/10/2018 Q&A Should I Be Open to Reconciliation? 10/10/2018 Q&A Why Is Unprotected Sex within an Affair so Alluring? 10/10/2018 Q&A How Can My Husband Protect Himself from Grooming Behaviors? 10/10/2018 Q&A Is This a Controlling Behavior? 10/10/2018 Q&A Can I Ever Expect My Mate's Attraction Towards the Affair Partner to End? 10/10/2018 Q&A Am I Paranoid? 10/10/2018 Q&A Is This a Normal Part of Recovery? 10/10/2018 Q&A Can We Survive as a Couple? 10/10/2018 Q&A Why Do You Believe We Are Not Defined as 'Sinners'? 10/10/2018 Q&A What Can I Do for My Ambivalent Spouse? 10/10/2018 Q&A Should We Disclose the Affairs with Our Children? 9/26/2018 Q&A Should I Disclose My Revenge Affair to My Mate? 9/26/2018 Q&A How Do I Know If My Mate Has a Sexual Addiction? 9/26/2018 Q&A How Can We Find Restoration in Our Intimacy? 9/26/2018 Q&A How Do We Both Deal with My Mates Shame? 9/26/2018 Q&A What Good Can Come from Loving an Addict? 9/26/2018 Q&A How Can We Make Discovery Safe? 9/26/2018 Q&A I Feel Stuck in My Mates Recovery. What Should I Do? 9/26/2018 Q&A Can You Address Narcissism with Infidelity? 9/26/2018 Q&A How Can We Move past This Slump in Recovery? 9/26/2018 Q&A What Boundaries Can We Set around This Relationship? 9/26/2018 Q&A How Do I Stop These Behaviors? 9/26/2018 Q&A Is It Normal to Have Zero Interest in Reconciliation? 9/26/2018 Q&A Why Is My Mate Reacting This Way? 9/26/2018 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Contacting the Affair Partner on Behalf of Your Spouse? 9/26/2018 Q&A Am I Being Too Nice? 9/26/2018 Q&A How Do I Find Hope for Our Relationship When It Feels so Hopeless? 9/20/2018 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Trauma and PTSD? 9/20/2018 Q&A How Can I Help My Mate with Rejection? 9/20/2018 Q&A How Can I Protect Myself from My Mates Unsafe Behaviors? 9/20/2018 Q&A Is It Wrong That My Depression Has Lasted so Long? 9/20/2018 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand? 9/20/2018 Q&A Why Is My Mate Encouraging a Revenge Affair? 9/20/2018 Q&A How Can I Approach My Mates Fears in a Healthy Way? 9/20/2018 Q&A How Can I Differentiate Fact from Fiction? 9/20/2018 Q&A How Do I Move Forward? 9/20/2018 Q&A How Does Alcohol Addiction Affect Recovery? 9/20/2018 Q&A Does My Marriage Have a Chance of Making It? 9/20/2018 Q&A What Type of Boundaries Can I Set for My Wife Who Has Had an Affair with Co-Worker? 9/20/2018 Q&A Is It Wrong to Tell My Spouse That I’ve Given Her a Gift by Staying? 9/20/2018 Q&A How Do I Recover from the Devastation I Feel Regarding His Infidelities? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Do We Handle My Husband Feeling Controlled? 9/12/2018 Q&A Is It Safe for Us to Reconcile? 9/12/2018 Q&A Why Won't My Mate Create a Safe Space for Me to Heal? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Do I State Expectations without Being Codependent? 9/12/2018 Pages« first‹ previous…424344454647484950…next ›last »