For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it How to Survive Infidelity Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 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Healing After An Affair Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision 1278 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Can My Honor Be Restored at My Unfaithful Spouse's Workplace? 5/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Get to a Place Where I'm Not so Jaded? 5/23/2018 Q&A Could He Be Telling the Truth? 5/18/2018 Q&A Will My Formerly Wayward Spouse Ever Feel Special to Me Again? 5/09/2018 Q&A Is His Betrayal Too Much to Overcome, or Is There Really Hope? 5/09/2018 Q&A How Will I Know When the Time Is Right to Date Again? 5/07/2018 Q&A How Do I Learn to Love My Spouse Again? 5/07/2018 Q&A Will My Wife Ever Stop Blaming Me for Her Affair? 5/07/2018 Q&A How Do I Heal from All of the Secrets My Husband Kept from Me? 4/25/2018 Q&A When Will I Begin to Love My Mate Again? 4/18/2018 Q&A How Do You Make Life Changing Decisions a Few Months after D-Day? 4/11/2018 Q&A How Do I Cope When I Feel Inferior to the Affair Partner? 4/11/2018 Q&A Why Can't I Get past the Feeling That He Enjoyed the Sex with the Affair Partner? 4/05/2018 Q&A How Do I Work on the Marriage with an Unfaithful Wife That Won't Do Recovery Work? 4/05/2018 Q&A How Do I Deal with His Inability to Face What This Did to Us? 4/05/2018 Q&A How Can I Use Harboring Hope to Recover from Infidelity in Two Marriages? 4/05/2018 Q&A What's Wrong with Me? 4/05/2018 Q&A What Do You Recommend for the Habitual Liar? 4/05/2018 Q&A Why Save the Marriage Instead of Starting New Elsewhere? 3/23/2018 Q&A What Should I Do If My Unfaithful Spouse Won't Share the Whole Story? 3/23/2018 Q&A Does It Matter If My Husband Never Told the Truth about the Affair? 3/23/2018 Q&A How Can My Unfaithful Husband Be Sexually Satisfied with Me after Being Intimate with a Young Pretty Girl? 3/23/2018 Q&A How Do You Truly Regain Trust? 3/23/2018 Q&A What Things Do the Betrayed Need to Consider When Deciding Whether or Not to Reconcile? 3/23/2018 Q&A How Does One Reconcile Faith with the Affair And Letting Your Mate Go? 3/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Move past What My Mate Said to the Affair Partner? 3/12/2018 Q&A Could His Behaviors towards His Co-Workers Explain His Disconnection with Me? 3/12/2018 Q&A Could He Really Not Have Feelings for the Affair Partner? 3/12/2018 Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to See My Husband the Same Way? 3/05/2018 Q&A Is It Okay That I Now Want to End Our Marriage and Move On? 3/05/2018 Q&A What Is the Best Way to Approach Divorce in This Situation? 3/05/2018 Q&A If My Unfaithful Mate Was Mentally ill, Do I Have the Right to Be Angry with Him? 3/05/2018 Q&A How Do We Heal When My Spouse Has No Empathy for Me? 2/28/2018 Q&A How Do I Reclaim What Has Been Lost? 2/28/2018 Communication Killers: How to Remedy Stonewalling 2/28/2018 How to Not Make Things Worse: Stonewalling 2/21/2018 Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to Go Places Where My Husband Has Taken His AP for Secret Sexual or Relational Contact? 2/14/2018 Q&A How Could He Be so Loving and Romantic Toward the AP? 2/14/2018 Q&A What Does Accepting My Sex and Validation Addicted Spouse's Infidelity Look Like? 2/14/2018 Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband’s Addiction to Saving Her? 2/14/2018 Q&A How Do I Support My Mate without Crossing the Line of Being Co-Dependent? 2/14/2018 Q&A How Do I Deal with On-Going D-Days? 2/14/2018 Q&A When Will I Feel like a Person of Value Again? 2/14/2018 Q&A How Do I Deal with My Husbands Fantasy Attraction? 2/14/2018 Q&A What Happens When the Unfaithful Shows No Effort? 2/14/2018 Q&A Why Was I so Interchangeable and Replaceable? 2/14/2018 Practical Tools for Betrayed Spouses 2/14/2018 Q&A Is There Something I Should Have Done, or Should Do Now? 2/07/2018 Q&A How Do I Get to a Place Where I Can Sexually Re-Engage with My Mate? 2/07/2018 Q&A Is There Hope for Recovery If My Mate Doesn’t See the Truth? 2/07/2018 Pages« first‹ previous…151617181920212223…next ›last »
