All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair The Problem with Forgiveness Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse How to Survive Infidelity Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted The Power of Small Groups 5047 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Can My Unfaithful Husband Be Sexually Satisfied with Me after Being Intimate with a Young Pretty Girl? 3/23/2018 Q&A Can You Help Me Better Understand the Survey? 3/23/2018 Q&A How Do We Protect Our Young Children during Recovery? 3/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Appropriately Describe What Is Happening to My Teenage Children? 3/23/2018 Q&A How Do You Truly Regain Trust? 3/23/2018 Q&A What Things Do the Betrayed Need to Consider When Deciding Whether or Not to Reconcile? 3/23/2018 Q&A Should I Contact the Affair Partners after Discovering My STD? 3/23/2018 Q&A How Does One Reconcile Faith with the Affair And Letting Your Mate Go? 3/23/2018 Q&A Should We Combine the EMS Program with Other Things? (e.g. Couples Therapy or Married for Life) 3/23/2018 Q&A What Does Recovery Look Like If There Is a Pregnancy from the Affair? 3/23/2018 Q&A What Should I Do If My Mate Isn't Trying to Recover? 3/23/2018 Q&A How Should I Handle This Relapse? 3/12/2018 Q&A How Do People Heal from Betrayal? 3/12/2018 Q&A Is It Possible to Use Prostitutes and Not Be Addicted? 3/12/2018 Q&A How Do I Move past What My Mate Said to the Affair Partner? 3/12/2018 Q&A Is There Hope for Us to Ever Be Intimate Again? 3/12/2018 Q&A What Questions Can I Ask That Won't Lead to Intrusive Thoughts? 3/12/2018 Q&A Should I Be Concerned about My Unfaithful Mate's Intrusive Thoughts? 3/12/2018 Q&A Is It Beneficial to Allow Your Mate to Read Your Journal? 3/12/2018 Q&A Could His Behaviors towards His Co-Workers Explain His Disconnection with Me? 3/12/2018 Q&A Could He Really Not Have Feelings for the Affair Partner? 3/12/2018 Q&A What Do You Think about Cognitive Behavioral Therapy? 3/12/2018 Q&A Can Flooding Present Itself Physically? 3/12/2018 Q&A Is It Normal for Sexual Interactions to Change after Discovery? 3/12/2018 Q&A Why Is He Still So Defensive? 3/05/2018 Q&A Will My Mate Forever Grieve Losing the Affair Partner? 3/05/2018 Q&A Am I Deluding Myself? 3/05/2018 Q&A Is There a Purposeful Way We Can Get past This? 3/05/2018 Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to See My Husband the Same Way? 3/05/2018 Q&A What Is a Validation Addiction? 3/05/2018 Q&A Why Can't I Believe My Mate? 3/05/2018 Q&A Is It Okay That I Now Want to End Our Marriage and Move On? 3/05/2018 Q&A What Is the Best Way to Approach Divorce in This Situation? 3/05/2018 Q&A How Am I Supposed to Change My Perspective of My Mate? 3/05/2018 Q&A If My Unfaithful Mate Was Mentally ill, Do I Have the Right to Be Angry with Him? 3/05/2018 Q&A How Do We Overcome Our Sexual Barriers? 2/28/2018 Q&A Is There Any Hope for Us? 2/28/2018 Q&A How Do We Show Commitment without Making False Vows or Promises? 2/28/2018 Q&A How Do I Handle My Guilt for Ending the Marriage? 2/28/2018 Q&A Is Pre-Mature Ejaculation an Indication of Shame from an Ongoing Affair? 2/28/2018 Q&A How Do I Trust That What He Feels for Me Is Real? 2/28/2018 Q&A Is My Husband Safe? 2/28/2018 Q&A How Do We Heal When My Spouse Has No Empathy for Me? 2/28/2018 Q&A How Do I Reclaim What Has Been Lost? 2/28/2018 Q&A Could This Affair Really Be the Best Thing That’s Ever Happened to Us? 2/28/2018 Q&A How Do I Handle My Mate's Intense Emotions? 2/28/2018 Q&A How Can Family and Friends Support Us during Recovery? 2/28/2018 Communication Killers: How to Remedy Stonewalling 2/28/2018 Q&A Is It Possible for a Person to Truly Love Two Different People? 2/21/2018 Q&A Should I Let My Wife Know Her Affair Partner Has Had Another Affair? 2/21/2018 Pages« first‹ previous…505152535455565758…next ›last »