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Video Q&A What Can We Do When My Husband’s Only True Confidant Is a Serious Trigger for Me? 3/16/2020
Video Q&A Can a Couple Survive Multiple Sexual Infidelities Including One Embroiled in Legal Issues? 3/16/2020
Video Q&A Do Serious Health Issues Impact a Spouses Decision to Have an Affair? 3/16/2020
Video Q&A How Can I Be Authentic and Safe with My Emotions during Recovery? 3/16/2020
Video Q&A Is It Possible to Have Significantly Recovered at This Point in Healing? 3/16/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Find Balance between Healing Myself and Healing Our Relationship? 3/16/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Address My Spouse's Flirtatious Behaviors? 3/16/2020
Video Q&A When My Husband Turns My Anger around on Me Is That Gaslighting? 3/12/2020
Video Q&A What Behaviors Constitute Relapse? 3/10/2020
Video Q&A What Do I Do When My Wayward Spouse See's the Affair as My Fault? 3/10/2020
Video Q&A What Things Are Considered a Life Squeeze in the Cycle of Failure Exercise? 3/10/2020
Video Q&A Are Walls Instead of Boundaries Necessary for a Season? 3/10/2020
Video Q&A Is Sending an Apology Letter the Right Thing to Do? 3/10/2020
Video Q&A Is Depression Normal Eight Months out from Discovery? 3/03/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Become Safe for Someone Who Is Unsafe for Me? 3/03/2020
Video Q&A How Do You Define Healing for the Betrayed Spouse? 3/03/2020
Video Q&A Can a Couple Really Benefit from Doing This Work Every Week without the Wayward Spouse Initiating and Participating in Disclosure Attempts? 3/03/2020
Video Q&A Is It Possible That She Believed Her Emotional Affair Was Not Infidelity? 3/03/2020
Video Q&A Is There Hope of Healing without Relapse along the Way? 2/20/2020
Video Q&A How Do We Handle My Husband's Newfound, Seemingly Irresistible, Fetish? 2/20/2020
Video Q&A Does It Matter If Someone Forced His Hand on Their Breast or It His Did It on His Own? 2/20/2020
Video Q&A Is My Husband a Sex Addict? 2/20/2020
Video Q&A Why Doesn’t It Seem He Wants a Healthy Wife and Be Safe for Her? 2/20/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Help My Mate Understand That He Has Always Been Enough for Me? 2/20/2020
Video Q&A Why Is My Mate Giving Minimal Effort to Recovery? 2/20/2020
Video Q&A How Could Sex Mean Something with Me When My Mate Still Wanted It with Someone Else? 2/20/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Know When to Avoid Reminders and When to Push through Them? 2/20/2020
Video Q&A How Do We Manage Recovery from Both My Affair My Mates Addiction? 2/20/2020
Video Q&A How Can We Reach Honesty without Creating Triggers? 2/20/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Move Forward in Forgiving Myself? 2/20/2020
Video Q&A What Methods Do You Recommend for Restoring Trust? 2/14/2020
Video Q&A Are My Feelings a Step Backward? 2/14/2020
Video Q&A Is This Gaslighting? If So, How Do I Respond? 2/14/2020
Video Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to Overcome the Triggers? 2/14/2020
Video Q&A What Advice Would You Give around Our Recovery Efforts? 2/14/2020
Video Q&A What Might Be the Reasons for My Ex-Wife's Relational Pattern? 2/14/2020
Video Q&A How Do I View D-Day as the Date He Chose Me Rather Than the Day He Was Leaving Me? 2/14/2020
Video Q&A Have I Done Enough on My Part to Try and Heal ‘Us’? 2/14/2020
Video Q&A How Can We Prevent Relapse in This Work Situation? 2/14/2020
Video Q&A Can I Heal If My Husband Is Not Completely Safe? 2/14/2020
Video Q&A What Is the True Meaning of ‘Being Safe’ for the Injured Spouse? 2/14/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Set Effective Boundaries as Someone Who Is Conflict Avoidant? 2/14/2020
Video Q&A Is It Time to Let Go and Move On? 2/14/2020
Video Q&A What Should I Do about My Wayward Spouse's Regression during Recovery? 2/14/2020
Video Q&A How Do We Keep the Affair Partner from Pursuing My Spouse? 2/14/2020
Video Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Finding Community during Recovery? 2/14/2020
Video Q&A Why Shouldn't the Betrayed Spouse Confront the Affair Partner? 2/14/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Handle the Fact That My Husband’s ‘Safe Place’ for Porn and Masturbation Has Primarily Been at Work? 2/14/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Get over My Husband's past Behavior? 2/14/2020
Video Q&A What Should I Do? 2/14/2020

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