All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse How to Survive Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? The Power of Small Groups Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Rebuilding Trust After An Affair 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery The Problem with Forgiveness 5004 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Can I Protect Myself from My Mates Unsafe Behaviors? 9/20/2018 Q&A Is It Wrong That My Depression Has Lasted so Long? 9/20/2018 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand? 9/20/2018 Q&A Why Is My Mate Encouraging a Revenge Affair? 9/20/2018 Q&A How Can I Approach My Mates Fears in a Healthy Way? 9/20/2018 Q&A How Can I Differentiate Fact from Fiction? 9/20/2018 Q&A How Do I Move Forward? 9/20/2018 Q&A How Does Alcohol Addiction Affect Recovery? 9/20/2018 Q&A Does My Marriage Have a Chance of Making It? 9/20/2018 Q&A What Type of Boundaries Can I Set for My Wife Who Has Had an Affair with Co-Worker? 9/20/2018 Q&A Is It Wrong to Tell My Spouse That I’ve Given Her a Gift by Staying? 9/20/2018 Q&A How Do I Recover from the Devastation I Feel Regarding His Infidelities? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Do We Handle My Husband Feeling Controlled? 9/12/2018 Q&A Is It Safe for Us to Reconcile? 9/12/2018 Q&A Why Won't My Mate Create a Safe Space for Me to Heal? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Do I State Expectations without Being Codependent? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Do We Get Closure? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Can I Overcome My Barriers to Intimacy? 9/12/2018 Q&A Is It Dangerous to Examine Photos and Messages from the Affair Partner? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Can I Effectively Encourage My Spouse to Receive Individual Expert Help? 9/12/2018 Q&A What Does Desire for Reconciliation Look Like? 9/12/2018 Q&A Should We Separate If My Mate Refuses to Break Contact with the Affair Partner? 9/12/2018 Q&A Is Re-Connection Possible for Us? 9/12/2018 Q&A Could This Lack of Safety Be Reason to End Our Relationship? 9/12/2018 Q&A What Should I Do about Physical Abuse? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Can We Move Forward in Healing with the Fear That I May Remember More Information about My Affair? 9/12/2018 Q&A Could Marriage Be Beneficial to Our Recovery Process? 9/12/2018 Q&A Will My Desire for My Mate Return? 9/12/2018 Q&A Is There Hope for Recovery in This Type of Situation? 9/12/2018 Q&A Am I Still Deluded? 9/12/2018 Q&A Can You Explain How Abandonment and Abuse Affects Child Development? 9/12/2018 Q&A Can You Offer Insight into Getting Un-Stuck? 9/12/2018 Q&A Why Did the Affair Partner Try to Tear Our Family Apart? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Do I Combat Visual Triggers? 9/12/2018 Ending an Affair: Letting Go and Moving On 9/12/2018 Q&A How Can We Stop Nightmares about the Affair? 8/29/2018 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Ending the Affair? 8/29/2018 Q&A How Long Should I Wait for Consistent Honesty? 8/29/2018 Q&A Can You Explain Pleasing vs. Enjoying? 8/29/2018 Q&A How Can I Get past the Deceit and Betrayal? 8/29/2018 Q&A Do You Have Advice for Handling Addiction along with Infidelity? 8/29/2018 Q&A How Can I Handle my Mate’s Questions about the Affair? 8/29/2018 Q&A How Can I Stop the Intrusive Thoughts? 8/29/2018 Q&A How Do I Handle My Mate's Lying? 8/29/2018 Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Create Safety in Our Recovery? 8/29/2018 Q&A How Do I Get beyond This? 8/29/2018 Q&A How Do I Deal with My Feelings towards the Affair Partner? 8/29/2018 Q&A Why Is the Affair Partner so Hateful? 8/29/2018 Q&A Will Our Marriage Get Better? 8/29/2018 Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 2 8/29/2018 Pages« first‹ previous…424344454647484950…next ›last »
