All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision The Power of Small Groups 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? How to Survive Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal The Problem with Forgiveness Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 4984 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Should We Separate If My Mate Refuses to Break Contact with the Affair Partner? 9/12/2018 Q&A Is Re-Connection Possible for Us? 9/12/2018 Q&A Could This Lack of Safety Be Reason to End Our Relationship? 9/12/2018 Q&A What Should I Do about Physical Abuse? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Can We Move Forward in Healing with the Fear That I May Remember More Information about My Affair? 9/12/2018 Q&A Could Marriage Be Beneficial to Our Recovery Process? 9/12/2018 Q&A Will My Desire for My Mate Return? 9/12/2018 Q&A Is There Hope for Recovery in This Type of Situation? 9/12/2018 Q&A Am I Still Deluded? 9/12/2018 Q&A Can You Explain How Abandonment and Abuse Affects Child Development? 9/12/2018 Q&A Can You Offer Insight into Getting Un-Stuck? 9/12/2018 Q&A Why Did the Affair Partner Try to Tear Our Family Apart? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Do I Combat Visual Triggers? 9/12/2018 Ending an Affair: Letting Go and Moving On 9/12/2018 Q&A How Can We Stop Nightmares about the Affair? 8/29/2018 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Ending the Affair? 8/29/2018 Q&A How Long Should I Wait for Consistent Honesty? 8/29/2018 Q&A Can You Explain Pleasing vs. Enjoying? 8/29/2018 Q&A How Can I Get past the Deceit and Betrayal? 8/29/2018 Q&A Do You Have Advice for Handling Addiction along with Infidelity? 8/29/2018 Q&A How Can I Handle my Mate’s Questions about the Affair? 8/29/2018 Q&A How Can I Stop the Intrusive Thoughts? 8/29/2018 Q&A How Do I Handle My Mate's Lying? 8/29/2018 Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Create Safety in Our Recovery? 8/29/2018 Q&A How Do I Get beyond This? 8/29/2018 Q&A How Do I Deal with My Feelings towards the Affair Partner? 8/29/2018 Q&A Why Is the Affair Partner so Hateful? 8/29/2018 Q&A Will Our Marriage Get Better? 8/29/2018 Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 2 8/29/2018 Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 8/23/2018 Q&A What Are Good Guidelines for Workplace Friendships with Members of the Opposite Sex? 8/22/2018 Q&A How Do I Deal with Working with My Spouse's Affair Partner? 8/22/2018 Q&A Why Won't My Mate See the Affair for What It Was? 8/22/2018 Q&A Where Is the Humility and Empathy? 8/22/2018 Q&A Do You Know If There Is a Connection between OCD and Sexual Addiction? 8/22/2018 Q&A Are Marriages More Likely to Dissolve During the First 6 Weeks of Discovery? 8/22/2018 Q&A What Keeps My Betrayed Spouse from Acknowledging Her Lack of Safety in Our Relationship? 8/22/2018 Q&A How Can I Prove to My Mate I'm Telling the Truth? 8/22/2018 Q&A What Do I Do When My Mate Stonewalls for Days? 8/22/2018 Q&A How Can I Help My Spouse Accept How Long My Affair Lasted? 8/22/2018 Q&A Was My Husband in Love with His Affair Partner? 8/22/2018 Q&A Is It Possible That My Wayward Spouse to Become More Ambivalent? 8/22/2018 Q&A What Does It Look like for the Wayward Spouse to Help the Injured Spouse through Recovery? 8/22/2018 Q&A What Can I Do with My Unmet Needs? 8/15/2018 Q&A How Do We Protect Our Children During Recovery? 8/15/2018 Q&A What Is the Next Step for Us? 8/15/2018 Q&A Will My Husband Ever 'Get It'? 8/15/2018 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Communicating with the Affair Partners Spouse? 8/15/2018 Q&A Am I Wrong in My Understanding That This Is Financial Infidelity? 8/15/2018 Q&A Am I Making Too Much of the Words My Mate Uses? 8/15/2018 Pages« first‹ previous…424344454647484950…next ›last »