All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors How to Survive Infidelity Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it The Problem with Forgiveness Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The Power of Small Groups Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 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Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 5036 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Can I Show My Spouse the Benefits of Small Groups? 8/30/2016 Q&A What's Causing This and How do We Fix it? 8/30/2016 Q&A What Does True Grief Look Like for a Betrayed Spouse? 8/24/2016 Q&A How Can I Move Past My Fear? 8/24/2016 Q&A How Can We Move Past My Reaction to Triggering Images? 8/24/2016 Q&A What Can We do to Reconnect and Gain Happiness? 8/24/2016 Q&A When Does it Become Harmful to Want to Be Wanted? 8/24/2016 Q&A I Want Permission to Leave. 8/24/2016 Q&A Why Does My Mate's Disclosure Not Make Sense? 8/24/2016 Q&A What Can I Do Now That I Feel it's No Longer a Real Marriage? 8/24/2016 Q&A What Does This Verse from Proverbs Mean for Me? 8/24/2016 Q&A How Do We Create a New Pattern and Move Past the Shame? 8/24/2016 Q&A What Should I Transform My Pain Into? 8/24/2016 Q&A How Can I Convince My Mate to Be Tested for STD's? 8/24/2016 Q&A My Mate has Changed Drastically for the Better. Is This Real? 8/24/2016 Q&A How Much Recovery is Needed Before Energy is Put Towards 'Us'? 8/24/2016 Q&A Is it My Mate or the Affair Partner Lying? 8/24/2016 Q&A How Can I Settle These Questions in My Mind? 8/24/2016 Overcoming Trauma after Infidelity at EMS Weekend, Interviewing an Expert 8/24/2016 Q&A Is it Fantasy or Love? 8/09/2016 Q&A Where is the True Empathy? 8/09/2016 Q&A What Can I Do About My Thoughts Toward Others? 8/09/2016 Q&A Is it Too Much to Ask for More Sex? 8/09/2016 Q&A How Do I Get Him to Give me Full Disclosure? 8/09/2016 Q&A What Should I Do if My Mate Isn't Taking Responsibility? 8/09/2016 Q&A What are the Differences Between Healing From Long and Short Term Affairs 8/03/2016 Q&A Does My Spouse Need Intensive Therapy? 8/03/2016 Q&A What Are Reasonable Expectations for My Unfaithful Spouse? 8/03/2016 Q&A Can Marriages Survive Mismatched Personalities and Sexual Differences? 8/03/2016 Q&A Is it Too Risky to Work With a Former Limerant Affair Partner? 8/03/2016 Q&A What are Reasonable Expectations for Knowing the 'Why'? 8/03/2016 Q&A Is a Deeper Understanding Necessary for Truly Forgiving? 8/03/2016 Q&A If the Infidelity Continues, is it Time for Divorce? 8/03/2016 Q&A With this Level of Drip Feeding Truth, Will I Regain Feelings for My Spouse? 8/03/2016 Q&A Should I Hear My Mate's Feelings for the Affair Partner 8/03/2016 Q&A When Will the Loving Feelings Return? 8/03/2016 Q&A Is Cheating Only Possible When He's Drunk? 8/03/2016 Q&A How Do I Respond to the Continual Relapse? 8/03/2016 Q&A Is My Ambivalent Spouse Thinking About Me While Separated? 8/03/2016 Q&A The Affair Partner Moved Nearby, How Do I Escape My Bondage? 8/03/2016 Q&A Should I Disclose the Additional Affair Details I Discovered? 8/03/2016 Q&A Does He Want Me or Are the Words Empty? 8/03/2016 Q&A Can He Really Not Remember What Happened? 8/03/2016 Q&A Any Considerations for Me to Determine Safety in the Relationship? 8/03/2016 Q&A How Do I Live in Limbo With an Ambivalent Unfaithful Spouse? 8/03/2016 Q&A What Do I Do While My Spouse Disconnects From the Affair Partner? 8/03/2016 Q&A What Will Help My Unfaithful Spouse 'Get it'? 8/03/2016 Q&A How Can I Trust that My Sex Addicted Mate is Keeping His Mind Clear? 8/03/2016 Q&A What's the Harm in Separating During EMS Online? 7/26/2016 Q&A How Long Should I Resist Divorce? 7/26/2016 Pages« first‹ previous…707172737475767778…next ›last »