Q&A Recovery Library Thousands of questions answered by infidelity expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW and other experts from one trusted source. Gain insights from professionals who not only have specialized in treating infidelity for decades but also have healed from infidelity personally. Must Reads more less Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity How to Survive Infidelity Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) The Power of Small Groups Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal The Problem with Forgiveness 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 3986 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Deal With My Spouse Saying, "Why Don't You Just Divorce Me?"? 11/04/2015 Q&A Mentor Couples - What to Do If We Can't Find One? 11/04/2015 Q&A I Was Unfaithful, but I Didn't Know My Spouse Was Also Unfaithful Until After EMS Weekend... What Do We Do? 11/04/2015 What’s the Most Effective Role for Me? 10/27/2015 Should We Continue the Course and Risk Hurting the Other Couples? 10/27/2015 Expert Q&A Preview: How Can We Stay Out of Our Old Ruts? 10/27/2015 Q&A Why Is Infidelity So Traumatic? 10/27/2015 How Can My Unfaithful Wife Take Initiative In Recovery? 10/27/2015 How Can the Betrayer Get Past Guilt When Spouse Gives Constant Criticism? 10/27/2015 Q&A How Long Does My No-sex Agreement With My Unfaithful Wife Need to Last? 10/27/2015 Q&A How Do We Get Through the Anniversary Date? 10/20/2015 Q&A How Can Sex Be Special Again? 10/20/2015 Q&A Why Does Our Fresh Start Seem Stale? 10/20/2015 Q&A Did My ADHD Create Vulnerability for My Spouse? 10/20/2015 Q&A Can We Let the Country Music Association Know the Pain They Will Cause? 10/20/2015 Q&A How Do I Communicate the Importance of My Spouse's Recovery? 10/20/2015 Q&A When Will I Receive the Love I'm Sending? 10/20/2015 Q&A What Consequences Should Follow Broken Boundaries? 10/20/2015 Q&A Is it Safe For Me to Stay? 10/20/2015 Q&A How Can We Heal When Nothing is Being Addressed? 10/06/2015 Q&A What Do I Do With the Pain? 10/06/2015 Q&A Why Even Justify This? 10/06/2015 Q&A How Do I Deal With His Failure and My Detachment? 10/06/2015 Q&A Betrayal Begins With You? 10/06/2015 Q&A Are My Questions Unfair? 9/28/2015 Q&A How Important is a Normal Routine in Recovery? 9/28/2015 Q&A Normal People do Not do This! 9/22/2015 Q&A How do I Handle my Triggers? 9/22/2015 Q&A How do you Know if Someone is a Sex Addict? 9/22/2015 Q&A Why His Ex? 9/22/2015 Q&A How do I Transform my Pain? 9/22/2015 Q&A Who Can I Talk to? 9/22/2015 Q&A What About Emotional and Verbal Abuse in Recovery? 9/22/2015 Q&A I Love Her, Why Did I Cheat on Her? 9/22/2015 Q&A Is This a Deal Breaker? 9/22/2015 Q&A How can I Feel Safe when my Mate's Affair was with their Ex? 9/17/2015 Q&A Why did he Marry me when he was with her? 9/17/2015 Q&A Why Wouldn't he End it? 9/17/2015 Q&A I Want him to Want me... Will the Feelings Return? 9/17/2015 Q&A Is it Possible to Recover if your Spouse is Still Deceitful? 9/17/2015 Q&A Is it More Difficult for Men to Recover from Betrayal? 9/17/2015 Q&A Can I Survive my Husband's Limerance? 9/17/2015 Q&A What Boundaries should I Set Before my Mate Comes Home? 9/17/2015 Q&A Do People Really Get Past the Trauma and Triggers? 9/17/2015 Q&A What 12-Step Group Should I Attend? 9/17/2015 Q&A How can I Enjoy my Spouse Rather than Please them? 9/17/2015 Q&A Is the Uneasiness Normal? 9/01/2015 Q&A Why Doesn't he Talk About it? 9/01/2015 Q&A What's Bare Minimum Relapse Prevention? 9/01/2015 Q&A Why Doesn't he Want it? 9/01/2015 Pages« first‹ previous…707172737475767778…next ›last »