Q&A Recovery Library Thousands of questions answered by infidelity expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW and other experts from one trusted source. Gain insights from professionals who not only have specialized in treating infidelity for decades but also have healed from infidelity personally. Must Reads more less Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal The Power of Small Groups Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 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How to Survive Infidelity 3959 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Does the Wayward Spouse Deal with the In-Then-Out Behavior of Their Spouse? 11/24/2020 Q&A How Much Pain Can One Take before They Break? 11/24/2020 Q&A How Do I Proceed with Recovery Work When the Betrayed Doesn't Want to Get Help? 11/24/2020 Q&A What Do I Do When Exercise Is a Trigger? 11/18/2020 Q&A Is This Ultimatum Unreasonable? 11/18/2020 Q&A Could You Help? 11/18/2020 Q&A Should I Ask Him to Hear My Story? 11/18/2020 Q&A Is It Time to Just Formally End My Marriage? 11/18/2020 Q&A What Should I Do with His Lapse in Judgement? 11/18/2020 Q&A Must I Be Completely Finished with the Grieving Task before I Can Move to Forgiveness? 11/18/2020 Q&A Is It Wrong to Ask My Husband to Understand the Affair Partner's Personality Disorder? 11/18/2020 Q&A How Do I Figure Out What to Do? 11/18/2020 Q&A Should He Leave His Job? 11/18/2020 Q&A What Should I Do with an Ambivalent Partner When a Baby Is Involved? 11/18/2020 Q&A Could This Be Sex Addiction and How Is That Different for Recovery? 11/18/2020 Q&A Will It Ever Be Possible to Be Friends with My Affair Partner Again? 11/18/2020 Q&A How Do I Know if My Husband Has Completely Detoxed From the Affair Partner? 11/18/2020 Q&A What Is the Census of Disclosing the Affair to the Affair Partner's Spouse? 11/18/2020 Q&A How Do I Remember Details of the Affair That I Seem to have Repressed? 11/12/2020 Q&A How Do I Address My Overwhelming Fear? 11/12/2020 Q&A How Do I Discern If or When It's Safe to Trust Him Again? 11/12/2020 Q&A What Can I Do about My Defensive Husband That Doesn't Follow through on His Commitments to the Marriage? 11/12/2020 Q&A What Do I Do about a Husband That Does Not Want to Work on Himself? 11/12/2020 Q&A How Do I Move on with My Wayward Husband? 11/12/2020 Q&A How Should the Betrayed Respond When the Wayward Spouse Lashes Out? 11/12/2020 Q&A What Should I Do as the Wayward Spouse When My Spouse Has a Breakdown? 11/12/2020 Q&A How Do We Safely Co-Parent with the Affair Partner When a Child Is Born as a Result of the Affair? 11/12/2020 Q&A How Can He Do All of This Good Recovery Work and Still Lie? 10/29/2020 Q&A Does This Program Offer Someone Who Can Sit with Us through the Disclosure Process? 10/29/2020 Q&A What Do You Do When There Is an outside Child the Same Age as Your Own from the Affair? 10/29/2020 Q&A How Do We Deal with Defensiveness? 10/29/2020 Q&A Is It Appropriate to Ask the Wayward Spouse to Take a Polygraph? 10/29/2020 Q&A How Does He Change His Behavior If He Can Not See Himself Doing It? 10/29/2020 Q&A To Save My Marriage, Do I Have to Agree with Him? 10/29/2020 Q&A Am I Being Too Hard or Unreasonable? 10/22/2020 Q&A What Would Be a Good Plan for Me Going Forward? 10/22/2020 Q&A Is This Approach Sufficient for Healing Our Marriage after His 7-Year Affair? 10/22/2020 Q&A Is It Possible for an Addiction of This Severity to Change So Quickly? 10/22/2020 Q&A How Can I Respect My Husband after What He Has Done to Me and Our Family after Multiple Lies, Betrayal, and Affairs? 10/22/2020 Q&A Is There Anything Else I Should Be Doing? 10/22/2020 Q&A Is a Trauma Bond Repairable? 10/22/2020 Q&A Is It Codependent to Stay in a Marriage for the Happiness of Your Children? 10/22/2020 Q&A Can I Get My Husband to Try? 10/22/2020 Q&A How Do I Move Forward in This Situation When All I Feel Is Anger? 10/22/2020 Q&A Will He Ever Go Back to Being the Man I Used to Know? 10/22/2020 Q&A Is It Ever Just Too Much to Get Past? 10/22/2020 Q&A Should I Suggest to My Spouse That He Take Hope for Healing While I’m Taking Harboring Hope or Should He Be the One to Suggest Taking It? 10/22/2020 Q&A What Should I Do for My Sanity Now? 10/22/2020 Q&A Should I File for Divorce? 10/22/2020 Q&A Is There Any Hope for Recovery in Our Situation? 10/22/2020 Pages« first‹ previous…111213141516171819…next ›last »