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Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 1081 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A What Should My Next Step Be? 8/11/2017 Q&A Is It Reasonable for Me to Maintain My Boundaries and File for Divorce? 8/11/2017 Q&A What Am I Doing Wrong Here? 8/10/2017 Q&A Do I Keep Moving towards Him in Hopes He Will Leave It All behind, Once and for All? 8/10/2017 Q&A What Can I Do to Help Me with My Anxiety about the Affair Partner? 8/10/2017 Q&A Is Harboring Hope a Step Backwards for Me and My Marriage? 8/10/2017 Q&A Are We Deluded about His Porn and Alcohol Use? 8/10/2017 Q&A Should I Respond to the Affair Partner's Letter to Me? 8/10/2017 Q&A Is It Time to Let Go? 8/02/2017 Q&A What Resources Do You Suggest for Emotional Trauma? 8/02/2017 Q&A How Do We Handle Emotions towards the Affair Partner? 8/02/2017 Q&A Can He Be Safe for Me If He Continues to Use Porn? 7/26/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle My Wife’s Anger? 7/26/2017 Q&A Should There Be Closure with the Affair Partner? 7/19/2017 Q&A What Sort of Outcomes Do You See in Situations with Anger Like Ours? 7/19/2017 Q&A How Do I Heal When I Feel He’s Lying and Still Entangled with a Coworker? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Can I Ever Feel Safe with This History of Deceit? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Proceed without Acknowledgement That It Was an Affair? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Tell Others about Our Recovery and How Do I Handle Being Triggered While Seeing Clients? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle Running into the Affair Partner Now That the Affair Is Over? 7/12/2017 Q&A What's Your Take on an Unfaithful Wife Who Still Blames the Marriage for the Affair 1 Year from Discovery? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Help My Spouse When He Is Drowning in Shame? 7/12/2017 Q&A Should I Not Bring up the Affair Again? 7/12/2017 Q&A What Do I Do with a Spouse That Blames Me for the Affair? 7/12/2017 Q&A Am I Being Emotionally Abused since His Affair? 7/12/2017 Q&A What Safe Questions Can I Ask to Regain Our Openness but without Causing Me Pain? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Get past the Fears of What He Will Do If I Leave Him? 7/12/2017 Q&A Do We Revert Back to Our Old State Once the Threat Disappears? 7/12/2017 Q&A Is It Okay to Let the Affair Partner Know That I Forgive Her? 7/12/2017 Q&A Is It Therapeutic for People to Know about My Affair? 7/12/2017 Q&A Where Do I Go from Here? 7/12/2017 Q&A Is Asking Questions Abusive? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Support Him When He Struggles to Be Safe for Us? 7/12/2017 Q&A Will Marriage Therapy Work If the Unfaithful Spouse Doesn't Have to Discuss What Happened? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Know If a Counselor Is a Good Fit? 7/12/2017 Q&A What Is a Reasonable Expectation When I Share a Wound with My Mate? 7/05/2017 Q&A Is It Beneficial to Read My Mates Journaling during Hope for Healing? 7/05/2017 Q&A How Can I Explain What the Word 'Safe' Means to Me? 7/05/2017 Q&A Is It Possible for Him to Change Enough Where I Feel Can Safe in the Future? 7/05/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle My Fear of Contact with the Affair Partner? 7/05/2017 Q&A Is This Level of Anger Normal When Recovering from an Affair? 6/28/2017 Q&A He Says I'm 50% Responsible for His Affair. Is That a Sign of Denial? 6/21/2017 Q&A How Do We Move Safely from Here in the Presence of a Restraining Order? 6/21/2017 Q&A Should We Make Amends by Contacting Former Affair Partners and Spouses? 6/21/2017 Q&A What Does Consent to Sex Look Like in Marriage? 6/21/2017 Q&A How Often Do the Betrayed Spouses of the Unfaithful Partners Get Together? 6/21/2017 Q&A What Can We Expect from EMS Online? 6/07/2017 Q&A How Do I Know If My Mate Is Really Changing? 6/07/2017 Q&A Why Does He Say He Wants to Save the Marriage? 6/07/2017 Q&A What Should We Discuss When We Check-In with Each Other? 6/07/2017 Pages« first‹ previous…789101112131415…next ›last »
