Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less The 2 Stages of Pain Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected Recovery Timeline How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted We Started Well, but... How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Why Did My Spouse Cheat? How to Survive Infidelity Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 The Problem with Forgiveness Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How do you respond to blackmail? Part II Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? 1023 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Is This a Non-Negotiable? 6/21/2016 Q&A Is This an Unsafe Person? 6/21/2016 Q&A How Far to Rock Bottom? 6/21/2016 Q&A Infidelity or Betrayal? 6/21/2016 Q&A Can There be Repentance While in an Affair? 6/21/2016 Q&A Can You Give Me Guidance With My Assignment? 6/14/2016 Q&A Is it Possible to Move Forward With These Details? 6/14/2016 Q&A How Do I Convince My Mate That I'm Sincere? 6/14/2016 Q&A What About Financial Safety? 6/14/2016 Q&A Is Counseling Necessary? 6/14/2016 Q&A How Can I Communicate His Lack of Consistency? 6/14/2016 Q&A How Do You Begin Recovery? 6/06/2016 Q&A How do We Handle the First Weeks After Discovery? 6/06/2016 Q&A What Do You Suggest I Do? 6/03/2016 Q&A What Do I Do Without Honesty? 6/03/2016 Q&A Is Waiting for Remorse a Fool's Errand? 6/03/2016 Q&A In What Ways Can I Transform the Pain? 6/03/2016 Q&A What's the Right Thing to Do Here? 6/03/2016 Q&A Should I Leave and Work on Me? 6/03/2016 Q&A Am I Making a Federal Case Out of a Misdemeanor? 6/03/2016 Q&A What Direction Should I Take? 6/03/2016 Q&A Should I Expose Them? 6/03/2016 Q&A Am I Avoiding the Pain? 5/26/2016 Q&A What Can I Do About My Friends? 5/26/2016 Q&A Can an Addict Love Unconditionally? 5/26/2016 Q&A How Can We Talk When My Buttons Are Pushed? 5/17/2016 Q&A Should I Bail Out? 5/17/2016 Q&A How Could a Polygraph be a Threat if there is Nothing to Hide? 5/17/2016 Q&A Are Simultaneous Affairs a Red Flag for Addiction? 5/17/2016 Q&A How Can I Believe My Spouse Now? 5/17/2016 Q&A Does Safety Take Practice? 5/17/2016 Q&A How Can I Feel Her Love When She Does This? 5/10/2016 Q&A I Need Confirmation. Should I Leave Him? 5/10/2016 Q&A Any Advice to Help With the Flooding? 5/10/2016 Q&A Should We Achieve Full Disclosure Now or Wait? 5/10/2016 Q&A Suggestions for a Stalker? 5/10/2016 Q&A Am I Addicted to Limerance? 5/03/2016 Q&A Will This Method of Disclosure Cause me More Harm? 5/03/2016 Q&A How Can I Believe in Myself and the Honest Attempts of my Spouse? 5/03/2016 Q&A What do you Suggest for Counseling and EMS Online? 5/03/2016 Q&A Are the Unfaithful Triggered by Contact? 4/28/2016 Q&A How Long Should I Wait for My Spouse to Return? 4/28/2016 Q&A What Will the Future Hold in This Scenario? 4/28/2016 Q&A How Can I Feel Safety in an Unsafe Environment? 4/28/2016 Q&A What Should I Be Looking for From My Spouse to Feel Safe? 4/28/2016 Q&A Is My Newfound Independence Bad for Reconciliation? 4/28/2016 Q&A At What Point is Reconciliation Not Possible? 4/26/2016 Q&A What Else Can We do For Support? 4/26/2016 Q&A How Can We Get Past This Issue? 4/13/2016 Q&A Can You Help With the Unfaithful's Lack of Empathy? 4/13/2016 Pages« first‹ previous…121314151617181920next ›last »