Safety in Recovery
The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do.
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1047 Resources
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Video Q&A How Can I Trust that My Sex Addicted Mate is Keeping His Mind Clear? 8/03/2016
Video Q&A What's the Harm in Separating During EMS Online? 7/26/2016
Video Q&A How Long Should I Resist Divorce? 7/26/2016
Video Q&A How Do I Handle the Affair Partner Being a Family Member? 7/26/2016
Video Q&A How Do I Respond to My Mate Not Making Me Feel Safe After an Affair? 7/26/2016
Video Q&A If the Affair Partner Attempts to Maintain a Relationship With my Mate, Should I Inform Their Spouse? 7/26/2016
Video Q&A How Did the Conversations Transition? 7/26/2016
Text Expert Q and A Submission: Should we consider separating? 7/20/2016
Video Q&A Do Some Only Cheat While Drunk? 7/19/2016
Video Q&A What if My Mate Isn't Committed to the EMSO Contract? 7/19/2016
Video Q&A How do We Reconcile Plans of Sobriety With Safety in the Marriage? 7/19/2016
Video Q&A How Can We Move Forward While There is Still Lying to My Face? 7/13/2016
Video Q&A What Should I Do About My Mate's Following This Unhealthy Site? 7/13/2016
Video Q&A How do I Translate Knowledge Into Action? 7/12/2016
Video Q&A Am I To Believe He No Longer Struggles? 7/12/2016
Video Q&A Do We Talk About the Affair or Marriage? 7/12/2016
Video Q&A Did I Extend Too Much Trust Too Soon? 7/12/2016
Video Q&A Do Revenge Affairs Help the Unfaithful 'Get it'? 7/01/2016
Video Q&A How Can I Assure My Betrayed Mate of My Good Intentions? 7/01/2016
Video Q&A What is Realistic in Terms of Time Spent Talking About it? 7/01/2016
Video Q&A Isn't this Behavior a Red Flag for the Future? 6/28/2016
Video Q&A How can I Ensure My Mate's Safety With Me? 6/28/2016
Video Q&A How do We Prevent Hopelessness for the Unfaithful? 6/28/2016
Video Q&A How Should I Continue From Here? 6/21/2016
Video Q&A Is This a Non-Negotiable? 6/21/2016
Video Q&A Is This an Unsafe Person? 6/21/2016
Video Q&A How Far to Rock Bottom? 6/21/2016
Video Q&A Infidelity or Betrayal? 6/21/2016
Video Q&A Can There be Repentance While in an Affair? 6/21/2016
Video Q&A Can You Give Me Guidance With My Assignment? 6/14/2016
Video Q&A Is it Possible to Move Forward With These Details? 6/14/2016
Video Q&A How Do I Convince My Mate That I'm Sincere? 6/14/2016
Video Q&A What About Financial Safety? 6/14/2016
Video Q&A Is Counseling Necessary? 6/14/2016
Video Q&A How Can I Communicate His Lack of Consistency? 6/14/2016
Video Q&A How Do You Begin Recovery? 6/06/2016
Video Q&A How do We Handle the First Weeks After Discovery? 6/06/2016
Audio Q&A What Do You Suggest I Do? 6/03/2016
Audio Q&A What Do I Do Without Honesty? 6/03/2016
Audio Q&A Is Waiting for Remorse a Fool's Errand? 6/03/2016
Audio Q&A In What Ways Can I Transform the Pain? 6/03/2016
Audio Q&A What's the Right Thing to Do Here? 6/03/2016
Audio Q&A Should I Leave and Work on Me? 6/03/2016
Audio Q&A Am I Making a Federal Case Out of a Misdemeanor? 6/03/2016
Audio Q&A What Direction Should I Take? 6/03/2016
Audio Q&A Should I Expose Them? 6/03/2016
Video Q&A Am I Avoiding the Pain? 5/26/2016
Video Q&A What Can I Do About My Friends? 5/26/2016
Video Q&A Can an Addict Love Unconditionally? 5/26/2016
Video Q&A How Can We Talk When My Buttons Are Pushed? 5/17/2016