Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? How to Survive Infidelity How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? The Problem with Forgiveness Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) How Could You? 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A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Rebuilding Trust After An Affair 1075 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Should I Let Go or is This Normal Behavior? 9/07/2016 Q&A Could My Mate Not Have the Emotional Capacity to Recover? 9/07/2016 Q&A Is There Any Hope for Healing in My Mate? 9/07/2016 Q&A What are Reasonable Expectations and Words for My Unfaithful Mate? 9/07/2016 Q&A What Can We Do to Make Them Leave Their AP? 9/07/2016 Q&A Why is My Mate Not Making Healing and Recovery a Priority? 9/07/2016 Q&A How Can I Forgive Without Reconciliation? 9/07/2016 Q&A How Do I Face This Challenge With My Father-in-Law? 8/30/2016 Q&A How Can I Move Past My Fear? 8/24/2016 Q&A Why Does My Mate's Disclosure Not Make Sense? 8/24/2016 Q&A How Can I Convince My Mate to Be Tested for STD's? 8/24/2016 Q&A Is it My Mate or the Affair Partner Lying? 8/24/2016 Q&A Is it Fantasy or Love? 8/09/2016 Q&A What Can I Do About My Thoughts Toward Others? 8/09/2016 Q&A How Do I Get Him to Give me Full Disclosure? 8/09/2016 Q&A What Should I Do if My Mate Isn't Taking Responsibility? 8/09/2016 Q&A What Are Reasonable Expectations for My Unfaithful Spouse? 8/03/2016 Q&A Is it Too Risky to Work With a Former Limerant Affair Partner? 8/03/2016 Q&A If the Infidelity Continues, is it Time for Divorce? 8/03/2016 Q&A With this Level of Drip Feeding Truth, Will I Regain Feelings for My Spouse? 8/03/2016 Q&A Should I Hear My Mate's Feelings for the Affair Partner 8/03/2016 Q&A Is Cheating Only Possible When He's Drunk? 8/03/2016 Q&A How Do I Respond to the Continual Relapse? 8/03/2016 Q&A The Affair Partner Moved Nearby, How Do I Escape My Bondage? 8/03/2016 Q&A Should I Disclose the Additional Affair Details I Discovered? 8/03/2016 Q&A Any Considerations for Me to Determine Safety in the Relationship? 8/03/2016 Q&A What Do I Do While My Spouse Disconnects From the Affair Partner? 8/03/2016 Q&A What Will Help My Unfaithful Spouse 'Get it'? 8/03/2016 Q&A How Can I Trust that My Sex Addicted Mate is Keeping His Mind Clear? 8/03/2016 Q&A What's the Harm in Separating During EMS Online? 7/26/2016 Q&A How Long Should I Resist Divorce? 7/26/2016 Q&A How Do I Handle the Affair Partner Being a Family Member? 7/26/2016 Q&A How Do I Respond to My Mate Not Making Me Feel Safe After an Affair? 7/26/2016 Q&A If the Affair Partner Attempts to Maintain a Relationship With my Mate, Should I Inform Their Spouse? 7/26/2016 Q&A How Did the Conversations Transition? 7/26/2016 Expert Q and A Submission: Should we consider separating? 7/20/2016 Q&A Do Some Only Cheat While Drunk? 7/19/2016 Q&A What if My Mate Isn't Committed to the EMSO Contract? 7/19/2016 Q&A How do We Reconcile Plans of Sobriety With Safety in the Marriage? 7/19/2016 Q&A How Can We Move Forward While There is Still Lying to My Face? 7/13/2016 Q&A What Should I Do About My Mate's Following This Unhealthy Site? 7/13/2016 Q&A How do I Translate Knowledge Into Action? 7/12/2016 Q&A Am I To Believe He No Longer Struggles? 7/12/2016 Q&A Do We Talk About the Affair or Marriage? 7/12/2016 Q&A Did I Extend Too Much Trust Too Soon? 7/12/2016 Q&A Do Revenge Affairs Help the Unfaithful 'Get it'? 7/01/2016 Q&A How Can I Assure My Betrayed Mate of My Good Intentions? 7/01/2016 Q&A What is Realistic in Terms of Time Spent Talking About it? 7/01/2016 Q&A Isn't this Behavior a Red Flag for the Future? 6/28/2016 Q&A How can I Ensure My Mate's Safety With Me? 6/28/2016 Pages« first‹ previous…121314151617181920…next ›last »