All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted The Power of Small Groups 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal The Problem with Forgiveness How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) How to Survive Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair 5038 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Will I Be Able to Find Joy Again? 1/23/2019 Q&A How Do I Convince My Husband I Did Love Him and Still Do? 1/23/2019 Q&A How Can the Wayward Spouse Process Grief? 1/23/2019 Q&A Is It Okay to Ask for 90 Days of Abstinence? 1/23/2019 Q&A How Do I Begin to Heal If My Mate Isn't Putting in Effort? 1/23/2019 Q&A Why Has Our Recovery Journey Been so Different? 1/23/2019 Q&A Should I Disclose to the Affair Partner's Spouse? 1/23/2019 Q&A Is My Mate Doing Enough to Heal and Be Safe? 1/23/2019 Q&A How Do I Apply Boundaries and Reconcile? 1/23/2019 Q&A How Can I Make Disclosure Safe? 1/23/2019 Q&A Will Our Recovery Process Be Different from General Infidelity? 1/23/2019 Q&A How Do We Handle a Fetish That Causes Triggers? 1/23/2019 Q&A How Do We Get to Full Disclosure? 1/23/2019 Q&A Are Affairs Early in Marriage More Damaging? 1/23/2019 Q&A When Is Enough Enough? 1/23/2019 Q&A Should I Reconcile with the Affair Partner Who Was a Close Friend? 1/23/2019 Q&A How Do I Change My Thinking? 1/23/2019 Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Fall in Love with Me Again? 1/22/2019 Q&A How Can I Trust My Mate with Discovery? 1/22/2019 Q&A Is My Betrayed Wife's Behavior Normal? 1/22/2019 Q&A Should My Wayward Spouse Find a New Career to Create Safety? 1/22/2019 Q&A Did I Make a Mistake in Ending the Marriage? 1/22/2019 Q&A Should We Continue with the After-Care Program for the Rest of Our Lives? 1/22/2019 Q&A What Boundaries Should We Set around Our Emotions? 1/22/2019 Q&A How Do We Move Forward from This? 1/22/2019 Q&A What Does It Mean to Be a Safe Place for the Betrayed's Anger? 1/22/2019 Q&A How Do I Help My Mates Triggers? 1/16/2019 Q&A How Important Is It to Deal with All Betrayals Whether before or after Marriage? 1/16/2019 Q&A How Do I Feel Love Again for the Wayward Spouse? 1/16/2019 Q&A Why Isn't My Mate Pursuing Me? 1/16/2019 Q&A Should We Disclose Details about past Partners? 1/16/2019 Q&A Should I Give My Mate a Second Chance? 1/16/2019 Q&A Do I Save Myself or Save the Marriage? 1/16/2019 A Betrayed Spouse Chimes In - How I Recovered After My Husband's Infidelity 1/16/2019 Q&A How Can We Reconnect While Living Apart? 1/09/2019 Q&A Have We Both Betrayed Each Other? 1/09/2019 Q&A Do You Have Resources to Help with Connection? 1/09/2019 Q&A When Should a Betrayed Spouse Stop Pushing for Answers to Questions? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Do I Forgive Myself for Choosing to Stay? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Do We Manage Safe Boundaries with a Child from the Affair? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Do We End Our Separation? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Do I Deal with Comparison to the Affair Partner? 1/09/2019 Q&A Why Isn't My Wayward Husband Interested in Me Sexually? 1/09/2019 Q&A Why Does the Affair Partner Continue to Attempt Contact? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Do I Balance Processing Everything without Becoming Overwhelmed with It? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Do We Overcome Secondary Issues and Address the Infidelity? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Can I Regain Trust after so Much Deception? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Do We Overcome Same-Sex Infidelity? 1/09/2019 Q&A Why Is the 'Why' Often Never Fully Discovered? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Can We Create Safety When Anonymity Is a Requirement in 12 Step Programs? 1/09/2019 Pages« first‹ previous…383940414243444546…next ›last »