All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it How to Survive Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons The Power of Small Groups Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery The Problem with Forgiveness Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair 5033 Resources Type Title Posted Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 10/29/2025 Q&A How Do I Get These Images Out of My Head? 10/22/2025 Q&A How Do We Handle a Vindictive Affair Partner? 10/22/2025 Q&A How Can the Wayward Stay Safe around the Betrayed’s Pain? 10/22/2025 Q&A Can You Provide Some Words of Encouragement? 10/22/2025 Q&A How Do We Handle Intense Intrusive Thoughts When Working High-Demand Jobs? 10/22/2025 Intrusive Thoughts After the Affair: How to Manage Flooding 10/22/2025 Six Types of Affairs: Emotional Affair 10/15/2025 Overcoming Anxiety Caused by an Affair 10/08/2025 Q&A How Do I Heal from the Grief and Sadness? 10/02/2025 Q&A How Can I Move Towards Vulnerability with Someone Capable of This? 10/02/2025 Q&A What Can I Do to Help Myself, and Us, At the One Year Mark? 10/02/2025 Q&A Is It Normal for the Betrayed Partner to Feel Rage? 10/02/2025 Q&A What Exactly Do I Grieve and Do I Have to Grieve Before I Can Forgive? 10/02/2025 Q&A Why Would Someone Put Such a Cherished Relationship at Risk with an Affair? 10/02/2025 Q&A Have Men Been Able to Forgive and Have a Healthy Relationship After Extreme Infidelity? 10/02/2025 Q&A How Could He So Easily Forget the Pain He Caused? 10/02/2025 Q&A What Advice Would You Give to a Couple Who Feels Safe Now and for the Future, but Is Struggling with ‘Getting Right’ with past Infidelities and Traumas? 10/02/2025 Q&A Is There Anything the Wayward Spouse Can Say or Do That Has Been Effective in Helping the Betrayed Spouse Feel Better? 10/02/2025 Overcoming the Barriers to Recommitment 10/01/2025 How Do You Deal With Anger After Infidelity? 9/24/2025 Surviving Infidelity: Three Types of Reconciliation 9/17/2025 Q&A How Do I Move Forward from Here? 9/10/2025 Q&A Why Should I Continue in This Relationship? 9/10/2025 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 9/03/2025 Q&A How Will I Ever Feel Safe with Someone Who Has No Control over Themselves? 8/28/2025 Q&A Does the Wayward Spouse Need Time to Mourn the Loss of the Affair Partner? 8/28/2025 Q&A How Do I Heal from What Happened? 8/28/2025 Q&A Could You Provide Suggestion on How to Predict & Repair Intrusive Thoughts When We Are Engaging in Sex? 8/28/2025 Are Silence, Avoidance and Frustration Killing Your Recovery? 8/27/2025 Q&A What Makes Someone Vulnerable to a Previous Romantic Partner? 8/21/2025 Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 8/20/2025 Embracing Intimacy After Infidelity Part 1: How to Reengage 8/13/2025 Q&A How Do We Address and Heal from My Husband’s past Betrayal in Light of My Recent Infidelity? 8/06/2025 Q&A How Can I Prove to My Betrayed Spouse That I Finally ‘Get It’? 8/06/2025 Q&A How Can the Unfaithful Spouse Love Me and Have an Affair Partner? 8/06/2025 Q&A Am I Asking Too Much in Regards to Relapse Prevention from My Husband? 8/06/2025 Q&A Would You Ever Consider Hosting a ‘Trauma Therapy Specific’ Weekend Intensive? 8/06/2025 Rewriting the Story You Tell 7/30/2025 Q&A How Is Proper Closure with the Affair Partner Done in This Situation? 7/23/2025 Q&A How Do Others Cope with No Answers or Resolutions? 7/23/2025 Q&A After a Polygraph Is Done to Confirm the Couple Is at Ground Zero, What Should Each Partner Expect from the Other Going Forward? 7/23/2025 Q&A How Do You Recommend We Handle Interactions with the Affair Partner? 7/23/2025 Q&A How Does He Not Have Deep Residual Feelings for the Affair Partner? 7/23/2025 Q&A How Do We Dismantle the Wall Hindering My Wayward Spouse from Expressing Sorrow, Remorse, and Empathy? 7/23/2025 When Should You Stop Talking About the Affair? 7/23/2025 Q&A I Want My Mate to Apologize. Is It Okay to Tell Him the Things He Has Done That Have Hurt Me? 7/21/2025 Q&A Are My Requests for Relapse Prevention Measures Unreasonable? 7/21/2025 Q&A How Do I Protect My Own Boundaries While Navigating This Complex Relationship? 7/09/2025 Moving from Self-Hatred to Self-Compassion 7/09/2025 Pages123456789…next ›last »
