All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? The Power of Small Groups Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Does Time Heal All Wounds? 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How Can You Help? 8/14/2019 Q&A Is It Wrong for Me to Accept My Husband's Comfort? 8/14/2019 Q&A Is It Healthy for the Betrayed to Know Intimate Details about the Affair Partner? 8/14/2019 Pages« first‹ previous…282930313233343536…next ›last »