All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? The Problem with Forgiveness Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted How to Survive Infidelity Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? The Power of Small Groups Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 5017 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Does Forgiveness Give My Mate a Free Pass? 3/27/2019 Q&A How Do We Reclaim What Was Lost in the Affair? 3/27/2019 Q&A How Can I Visit Certain Places without Being Triggered? 3/27/2019 Q&A How Do I Forgive the Unforgivable? 3/27/2019 Q&A Should I Be Concerned about My Mates Recovery Journey? 3/27/2019 Q&A What Steps Should I Take after Relapse? 3/20/2019 Q&A How Can Healing Progress if the Affair Partner Is Still Present in My Mate’s Head? 3/20/2019 Q&A How Do I Know If I Can Trust My Own Judgement? 3/20/2019 Q&A How to We Share Our Story with Our Children? 3/20/2019 Q&A What Do You Do If Your Partner Is a Trigger? 3/20/2019 Q&A How Long Will the Triggers Continue? 3/20/2019 Q&A Why Am I so Concerned About the Affair Partner? 3/20/2019 Q&A How Can We Create Safety in the Workplace? 3/20/2019 Q&A Why Is ‘Affair Partner’ the Term We Are Encouraged to Use? 3/20/2019 Q&A Is This Blame Shifting? 3/20/2019 Q&A How Do You Enforce Boundaries? 3/13/2019 Q&A Is an Obsession with Beauty Part of a Deeper Problem? 3/13/2019 Q&A Should I Set Boundaries with Friends during Recovery? 3/13/2019 Q&A What Should I Do about the Double Betrayal? 3/13/2019 Q&A Am I Asking for Too Much? 3/13/2019 Q&A Is It Possible to Reconcile without Love? 3/13/2019 Q&A Is It Possible They Never Had Sex? 3/13/2019 Q&A What Should I Do? 3/13/2019 Q&A Should I Try to Make Amends for My Part in the Failed Recovery? 3/13/2019 Q&A What Are the Best Steps I Need to Take for a Separation? 3/13/2019 Q&A How Do I Open My Heart Again? 3/13/2019 Q&A How Much Blame Can We Assign to the Affair Partner? 3/13/2019 Q&A How Do I Help My Children Heal after the Separation? 3/13/2019 Q&A How Can I Overcome Triggers during Sex? 3/13/2019 Q&A Is It Time for an Ultimatum? 3/06/2019 Q&A Does It Make Sense to Attend the EMS Weekend, after We Complete EMS Online? 3/06/2019 Q&A Why Is My Resentment Growing? 3/06/2019 Q&A What Help Do You Recommend for Us? 3/06/2019 Q&A If My Spouse Relapses during EMS Online, Should We Start Over? 3/06/2019 Q&A Is There Hope for Us? 3/06/2019 Q&A Do You Have Advice for Dealing with Mental Health Issues as Well as the Affair? 3/06/2019 Q&A How Do I Help My Spouse? 3/06/2019 Q&A How Can I Believe That My Mate Really Loved Me during Their Affair? 3/06/2019 The Problem with Forgiveness 3/06/2019 Q&A How Do We Continue Moving Forward? 3/04/2019 Q&A How Do I Set Safe Boundaries in Our Recovery? 3/04/2019 Q&A Am I Being Unreasonable with Accountability? 3/04/2019 Q&A Why Am I Having Such a Hard Time Letting Go of My Marriage? 3/04/2019 Q&A How Can My Mate Help Me Overcome the Loss? 3/04/2019 Q&A What Should My Mates Recovery Look Like? 3/04/2019 Q&A How Does a Betrayed Spouse Get past the Hurtful Words Said by the Wayward Spouse? 3/04/2019 Q&A How Do I Heal? 2/22/2019 Q&A How Can I Cleanse My Body and Heart? 2/22/2019 Q&A Do You Have Suggestions for My Situation? 2/22/2019 Q&A How Do I Know If He Is Truly Repentant? 2/22/2019 Pages« first‹ previous…353637383940414243…next ›last »