All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? The Problem with Forgiveness Rebuilding Trust After An Affair The Power of Small Groups Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity How to Survive Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 5055 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Will Marriage Therapy Work If the Unfaithful Spouse Doesn't Have to Discuss What Happened? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Know If a Counselor Is a Good Fit? 7/12/2017 Q&A What Is a Reasonable Expectation When I Share a Wound with My Mate? 7/05/2017 Q&A Why Has New Information Been Such a Major Setback for Me? 7/05/2017 Q&A Is It Beneficial to Read My Mates Journaling during Hope for Healing? 7/05/2017 Q&A Since I Cheated on Her, Will My Mate Ever See Me as Committed? 7/05/2017 Q&A How Can I Explain What the Word 'Safe' Means to Me? 7/05/2017 Q&A Is It Possible for Him to Change Enough Where I Feel Can Safe in the Future? 7/05/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle My Fear of Contact with the Affair Partner? 7/05/2017 Q&A Is It Common for People to Rationalize Behaviors Other Than Intercourse as 'Okay'? 7/05/2017 Q&A How Can the Church Support Couples after Infidelity? 7/05/2017 Q&A How Do I Move past Him Not Telling Me He Loves Me? 7/05/2017 Q&A How Do I Know If This Is Progress or Pretend Normal? 6/28/2017 Q&A Is This Level of Anger Normal When Recovering from an Affair? 6/28/2017 Q&A How Can We Help Our Son's Struggles in This Aftermath of Infidelity? 6/28/2017 Q&A Why Am I So Troubled by the Sexual Aspect of the Affair? 6/28/2017 Q&A Am I Crazy for Not Wanting My Husband to Be around His Affair Partner? 6/28/2017 Expert Q&A Preview: What Is Hysterical Bonding and What Does It Mean for a Relationship in Recovery? 6/28/2017 Q&A Am I Wrong to Feel I Can’t Get Past His Infidelity? 6/28/2017 Q&A How Do I Come to Terms With the Unending Lies? 6/28/2017 Q&A Will My Fantasy Dreams End? 6/28/2017 Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? 6/28/2017 Q&A What Do I Do Now to Cope and Heal from His past History? 6/21/2017 Q&A Once a Person Cheats, Are They More Likely to Cheat Again? 6/21/2017 Q&A What Is a D-Day Anniversary Like for the Unfaithful? 6/21/2017 Q&A He Says I'm 50% Responsible for His Affair. Is That a Sign of Denial? 6/21/2017 Q&A Should We Divorce Because We Can't Respect Each Other's Feelings? 6/21/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle My Bitterness and Anger Coming Back after Giving Birth? 6/21/2017 Q&A How Do We Move Safely from Here in the Presence of a Restraining Order? 6/21/2017 Q&A Why Do the Betrayed Have to Be a Part of the Unfaithful’s Detox? 6/21/2017 Q&A Should We Make Amends by Contacting Former Affair Partners and Spouses? 6/21/2017 Q&A What Does Consent to Sex Look Like in Marriage? 6/21/2017 Q&A How Often Do the Betrayed Spouses of the Unfaithful Partners Get Together? 6/21/2017 Q&A Aren’t Betrayal and Love Incompatible? 6/21/2017 Q&A How Can I Heal from the Dishonor of His Sharing My Secrets with Her? 6/21/2017 Q&A Is There Hope for Change? 6/21/2017 Q&A What Can We Expect from EMS Online? 6/07/2017 Q&A How Do I Know If My Mate Is Really Changing? 6/07/2017 Q&A Why Does He Say He Wants to Save the Marriage? 6/07/2017 Q&A What Should We Discuss When We Check-In with Each Other? 6/07/2017 Q&A How Do I Help Her with the Anniversary? 6/07/2017 Q&A Is This All Part of the Process or Is It Something Else? 6/07/2017 Q&A Should We Throw in the Towel before Things Get Worse? 6/07/2017 Q&A Forgiveness and Infidelity 6/07/2017 Q&A What Happens When I Don't Want to Have Sex as Often as My Mate? 6/07/2017 Q&A How Do We Handle Recovery When We Are Both the Betrayed and the Unfaithful? 6/07/2017 Q&A Letting Go: Explain the Task of Rewriting History 5/26/2017 Q&A What Does a Betrayed Spouse Do When the Unfaithful Spouse Leaves? 5/26/2017 Q&A How Do I Heal without the Details of My Wife's Affair? 5/26/2017 Q&A How Should I Handle the Anniversary Dates of the Affair? 5/26/2017 Pages« first‹ previous…606162636465666768…next ›last »