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Thousands of questions answered by infidelity expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW and other experts from one trusted source. Gain insights from professionals who not only have specialized in treating infidelity for decades but also have healed from infidelity personally.
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Video Q&A How Long Do I Wait for the Wayward Spouse to Be Emotionally Available? 9/18/2019
Video Q&A Am I Controlling My Spouse or Is This the Appropriate Way to Set Boundaries? 9/18/2019
Video Expert Q&A Preview: How Do I Let Go of My Regrets? 9/18/2019
Video Q&A At What Point Do You Give up on Your Spouse? 9/13/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Show Grace without Being Taken Advantage Of? 9/13/2019
Video Q&A What Would You Recommend for Spouses Who Lose Their Mate to Suicide during Recovery? 9/13/2019
Video Q&A Can I Ever Get Passed Sharing My Daughter with the Affair Partner? 9/13/2019
Video Q&A What Can I Do to Keep These Triggers from Impacting Me so Much? 9/13/2019
Video Q&A Are There Differences in Recovery Based on When Discovery Happens? 9/13/2019
Video Q&A Is It Possible to Recover Hope for Something New? 9/13/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Stay Safe When My Mate Is Still Ambivalent? 9/13/2019
Video Q&A Can Minimizing Childhood Trauma Affect the Ability to Take Responsibility and Show Empathy during Recovery? 9/13/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Heal from the Intrusive Thoughts That Came as Result of Recording and Listening to My Mates Conversations with the Affair Partner? 9/13/2019
Video Q&A Should I Have the Wayward Spouse Break off the Affair in Front of Me? 9/13/2019
Video Q&A Does He Need a Consequence to Fully Recommit? 9/13/2019
Video Q&A How Long Will It Take for My Husband to Retrain His Thinking? 9/13/2019
Video Q&A How Can I Overcome My Negative Feelings Towards Family Members? 9/13/2019
Video Q&A How Can We Create Safety and Follow-Through with Boundaries? 9/13/2019
Video Q&A What Do You Do When the Infidelity Involves Family Members? 9/13/2019
Video Q&A What Do His Boundary Violations Mean? 9/13/2019
Video Q&A Is There Something Wrong with Me Because I Still Love in Spite of All This? 9/13/2019
Video Q&A Can You Explain the Benefits of an In-House Separation? 9/13/2019
Video Q&A Should the Betrayed Spouse Inform the Affair Partners Spouse of the Affair? 9/11/2019
Video Q&A What Boundaries Are Appropriate in Recovery? 9/11/2019
Video Q&A Do You Have Any Advice for the Spouse of Someone Who's Been Autonomous for Nearly 20 Years in Addition to Being Passive Aggressive? 9/11/2019
Video Q&A Why Is My Spouse Having a Difficult Time with Empathy When I'm Hurting? 9/11/2019
Video Q&A Why Is My Wayward Spouse Having Such a Difficult Time Letting Go of the Affair Partner? 9/11/2019
Video Q&A How Do We Get Our Strong Emotional Connection Back? 9/11/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Know If I'm Making the Right Choice? 9/11/2019
Video Q&A Should We Stop the Trickle Effect of Disclosure? 9/04/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Heal When I Am Always in Fight or Flight Mode? 9/04/2019
Video Q&A How Can I Accept What My Mate Is Telling Me? 9/04/2019
Video Q&A Why Can't My Spouse See How They Could've Prevented Their Affair? 9/04/2019
Video Q&A How Long Will It Take for Feelings for the Affair Partner to Disappear? 9/04/2019
Video Q&A Are the Gottmans Encouraging Infidelity? 9/04/2019
Video Q&A How Can I Address the Anger and Defensiveness Coming from the Wayward Spouse? 9/04/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Protect My Children through All of This? 8/28/2019
Video Q&A What Do I Do about My Husband's Covert Narcissism? 8/28/2019
Video Q&A What Is a Normal Reaction from the Wayward When Discovering Infidelity? 8/28/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband’s Continued Obsessive Thoughts about the Affair Partner? 8/28/2019
Video Q&A How Could My Wife Feel so Connected with the Affair Partner and Not Think the Sex Was Better with Them? 8/28/2019
Video Q&A Why Do I Do about My Thoughts during Sex? 8/28/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Get past My Own Shame and Guilt? 8/28/2019
Video Q&A Is It Possible That My Spouse Is an Addict? 8/28/2019
Video Q&A How Is This Not about Me? 8/28/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Know When to Stand up and Say Enough Is Enough? 8/28/2019
Video Q&A How Much Does Childhood Abandonment Affect Recovery from Infidelity? 8/28/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Get past My Husband's Recreated Fantasy about a High School Girlfriend? 8/28/2019
Video Q&A Would This Level of Detail Hurt Our Recovery Process? 8/28/2019
Video Q&A Is Her Disgust about the Affair a Sign That the Limerence Is Disappearing? 8/28/2019

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