The Role of Empathy Empathy is often misunderstood yet always necessary in recovery. Learn to understand the function of empathy and how it can change your marriage. Must Reads more less Recovery Timeline How to Survive Infidelity We Started Well, but... Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Why Did My Spouse Cheat? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons The Problem with Forgiveness Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors How do you respond to blackmail? Part II Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted The 2 Stages of Pain Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 261 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Show My Mate Grace? 1/08/2018 Q&A How Can He Not Get It? 12/20/2017 Q&A Why Would the Unfaithful Shame the Betrayed? 11/22/2017 Q&A How Do I Show Empathy for My Spouse? 11/15/2017 Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Get past 'Why' and 'How Could You Do This' Questions? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Does an Unfaithful Spouse Cope with Continued Shaming from the Betrayed Spouse? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Can I Convey the Importance of Remorse and Grief from My Mate? 10/25/2017 Expert Q&A Preview: Will Mate Ever Understand What They Have Done? 10/05/2017 Q&A What Does Healing Look Like for a Betrayed Husband? 8/02/2017 Q&A When Do We Stop Looking for Details and Move Forward? 8/02/2017 Q&A How Can I Help My Partner with Their Flooding? 7/26/2017 Q&A How Do We Cope with Differing Marriage Histories? 7/19/2017 Q&A What Do You Mean by 'My Mate Is Never My Problem. My Mate Only Reveals the Problem in Me'? 7/19/2017 Q&A How Can I Get My Wife to See Me in a More Positive Light? 7/12/2017 Q&A What Is a Reasonable Expectation When I Share a Wound with My Mate? 7/05/2017 Q&A Is It Beneficial to Read My Mates Journaling during Hope for Healing? 7/05/2017 Q&A How Can I Explain What the Word 'Safe' Means to Me? 7/05/2017 Q&A Am I Crazy for Not Wanting My Husband to Be around His Affair Partner? 6/28/2017 Q&A Should We Divorce Because We Can't Respect Each Other's Feelings? 6/21/2017 Q&A Is There Hope for Change? 6/21/2017 Q&A What Should We Discuss When We Check-In with Each Other? 6/07/2017 Q&A Letting Go: Explain the Task of Rewriting History 5/26/2017 Q&A How Do I Help My Wife Overcome Her Shame? 5/26/2017 Q&A Should We Move to Get Away from the Affair Partner? 5/10/2017 Q&A How Long Is Long Enough? 5/03/2017 Expert Q&A Preview: How Can I Give My Wife Hope after Betraying Her So Deeply? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Can I Hear His Heart? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Can I Express Hurt and Anger but Not Shame My Spouse? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Can I Possibly Turn around the Tone and Momentum? 5/03/2017 Q&A He Blames His Addiction on My Lack of Connection and I Blame My Lack of Connection on His Addiction. 4/25/2017 Q&A Am I Being Passive Agressive? 4/12/2017 Q&A How Will My Spouse See That I Never Loved My Affair Partner? 4/12/2017 Q&A What does He Need to Do to Get It? 4/05/2017 Q&A How do I deal with his lack of empathy? 4/05/2017 Q&A Is Reconciliation Possible with a Covert Narcissist? 4/05/2017 Q&A Is Reconciliation Possible with a Covert Narcissist? 4/05/2017 Q&A What Should I Do about His Behavior towards Me? 3/22/2017 Q&A Have We Traded One Self Centered Lifestyle for Another? 3/08/2017 Q&A When Do Unfaithful Women Typically Begin to Show Empathy? 3/08/2017 Q&A How can we Help Her Heal from Her Past Actions? 2/08/2017 Q&A How can we Achieve Transparency Without me Policing my Husband? 2/08/2017 Q&A How can Our Marriage Heal When Mental Illness Prevents Rational Affair Related Conversations? 2/08/2017 Q&A Can you Help me Understand Men and Intimacy Avoidance? 2/08/2017 Q&A How can I Effectively Set a No Touch Boundary with My Husband? 2/08/2017 Q&A How do I Let go of my Desire to See Him Suffer and Broken? 2/08/2017 Q&A What Should I Do as the Unfaithful When Triggers Arise? 2/02/2017 Q&A How can a Betrayed Spouse Show Compassion for an Unempathetic Unfaithful Spouse? 1/24/2017 Q&A What is it that I'm Sacrificing as the Unfaithful Spouse? 1/24/2017 Q&A How can I Show my Wife I'm Trying to Learn Empathy? 1/11/2017 Q&A After his Affair, he Changed and now does Everything Right. Why do I Feel so Empty? 1/11/2017 Pages« first‹ previous123456next ›last »
