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My Mate Only Reveals the Problem in Me'? 7/19/2017 Q&A How Can I Get My Wife to See Me in a More Positive Light? 7/12/2017 Q&A What Is a Reasonable Expectation When I Share a Wound with My Mate? 7/05/2017 Q&A Is It Beneficial to Read My Mates Journaling during Hope for Healing? 7/05/2017 Q&A How Can I Explain What the Word 'Safe' Means to Me? 7/05/2017 Q&A Am I Crazy for Not Wanting My Husband to Be around His Affair Partner? 6/28/2017 Q&A Should We Divorce Because We Can't Respect Each Other's Feelings? 6/21/2017 Q&A Is There Hope for Change? 6/21/2017 Q&A What Should We Discuss When We Check-In with Each Other? 6/07/2017 Q&A Letting Go: Explain the Task of Rewriting History 5/26/2017 Q&A How Do I Help My Wife Overcome Her Shame? 5/26/2017 Q&A Should We Move to Get Away from the Affair Partner? 5/10/2017 Q&A How Long Is Long Enough? 5/03/2017 Expert Q&A Preview: How Can I Give My Wife Hope after Betraying Her So Deeply? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Can I Hear His Heart? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Can I Express Hurt and Anger but Not Shame My Spouse? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Can I Possibly Turn around the Tone and Momentum? 5/03/2017 Q&A He Blames His Addiction on My Lack of Connection and I Blame My Lack of Connection on His Addiction. 4/25/2017 Q&A Am I Being Passive Agressive? 4/12/2017 Q&A How Will My Spouse See That I Never Loved My Affair Partner? 4/12/2017 Q&A What does He Need to Do to Get It? 4/05/2017 Q&A How do I deal with his lack of empathy? 4/05/2017 Q&A Is Reconciliation Possible with a Covert Narcissist? 4/05/2017 Q&A Is Reconciliation Possible with a Covert Narcissist? 4/05/2017 Q&A What Should I Do about His Behavior towards Me? 3/22/2017 Q&A Have We Traded One Self Centered Lifestyle for Another? 3/08/2017 Q&A When Do Unfaithful Women Typically Begin to Show Empathy? 3/08/2017 Q&A How can we Help Her Heal from Her Past Actions? 2/08/2017 Q&A How can we Achieve Transparency Without me Policing my Husband? 2/08/2017 Pages« first‹ previous123456next ›last »