The Role of Empathy
Empathy is often misunderstood yet always necessary in recovery. Learn to understand the function of empathy and how it can change your marriage.
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268 Resources
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Video Q&A How Can I Change My Perception of My Mate? 3/23/2018
Video Q&A What Actions Are Necessary from the Unfaithful during Recovery? 3/23/2018
Video Q&A What Things Do the Betrayed Need to Consider When Deciding Whether or Not to Reconcile? 3/23/2018
Video Q&A How Am I Supposed to Change My Perspective of My Mate? 3/05/2018
Video Q&A How Do We Heal When My Spouse Has No Empathy for Me? 2/28/2018
Video Q&A How Can Family and Friends Support Us during Recovery? 2/28/2018
Text How to Not Make Things Worse: Stonewalling 2/21/2018
Video Q&A How Do I Show My Mate Grace? 1/08/2018
Video Q&A How Can He Not Get It? 12/20/2017
Video Q&A Why Would the Unfaithful Shame the Betrayed? 11/22/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Show Empathy for My Spouse? 11/15/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Get past 'Why' and 'How Could You Do This' Questions? 11/01/2017
Video Q&A How Does an Unfaithful Spouse Cope with Continued Shaming from the Betrayed Spouse? 11/01/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Convey the Importance of Remorse and Grief from My Mate? 10/25/2017
Video Expert Q&A Preview: Will Mate Ever Understand What They Have Done? 10/05/2017
Video Q&A What Does Healing Look Like for a Betrayed Husband? 8/02/2017
Video Q&A When Do We Stop Looking for Details and Move Forward? 8/02/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Help My Partner with Their Flooding? 7/26/2017
Video Q&A How Do We Cope with Differing Marriage Histories? 7/19/2017
Video Q&A What Do You Mean by 'My Mate Is Never My Problem. My Mate Only Reveals the Problem in Me'? 7/19/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Get My Wife to See Me in a More Positive Light? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A What Is a Reasonable Expectation When I Share a Wound with My Mate? 7/05/2017
Video Q&A Is It Beneficial to Read My Mates Journaling during Hope for Healing? 7/05/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Explain What the Word 'Safe' Means to Me? 7/05/2017
Video Q&A Am I Crazy for Not Wanting My Husband to Be around His Affair Partner? 6/28/2017
Video Q&A Should We Divorce Because We Can't Respect Each Other's Feelings? 6/21/2017
Video Q&A Is There Hope for Change? 6/21/2017
Video Q&A What Should We Discuss When We Check-In with Each Other? 6/07/2017
Video Q&A Letting Go: Explain the Task of Rewriting History 5/26/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Help My Wife Overcome Her Shame? 5/26/2017
Video Q&A Should We Move to Get Away from the Affair Partner? 5/10/2017
Video Q&A How Long Is Long Enough? 5/03/2017
Video Expert Q&A Preview: How Can I Give My Wife Hope after Betraying Her So Deeply? 5/03/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Hear His Heart? 5/03/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Express Hurt and Anger but Not Shame My Spouse? 5/03/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Possibly Turn around the Tone and Momentum? 5/03/2017
Video Q&A He Blames His Addiction on My Lack of Connection and I Blame My Lack of Connection on His Addiction. 4/25/2017
Video Q&A Am I Being Passive Agressive? 4/12/2017
Video Q&A How Will My Spouse See That I Never Loved My Affair Partner? 4/12/2017
Video Q&A What does He Need to Do to Get It? 4/05/2017
Video Q&A How do I deal with his lack of empathy? 4/05/2017
Video Q&A Is Reconciliation Possible with a Covert Narcissist? 4/05/2017
Video Q&A Is Reconciliation Possible with a Covert Narcissist? 4/05/2017
Video Q&A What Should I Do about His Behavior towards Me? 3/22/2017
Video Q&A Have We Traded One Self Centered Lifestyle for Another? 3/08/2017
Video Q&A When Do Unfaithful Women Typically Begin to Show Empathy? 3/08/2017
Video Q&A How can we Help Her Heal from Her Past Actions? 2/08/2017
Video Q&A How can we Achieve Transparency Without me Policing my Husband? 2/08/2017
Video Q&A How can Our Marriage Heal When Mental Illness Prevents Rational Affair Related Conversations? 2/08/2017
Video Q&A Can you Help me Understand Men and Intimacy Avoidance? 2/08/2017