For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 How to Survive Infidelity Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The Power of Small Groups Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened How Could You? 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A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse The Problem with Forgiveness Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 1306 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Stop Feeling Shame over My Husband's Thoughts? 3/04/2021 Q&A Can I Ever Feel Love Again for Her If I'm Feeling Trapped in This Marriage? 3/04/2021 Q&A Why Does He Keep Reaching Out to Me If He Is Still in the Affair? 3/04/2021 Q&A Should I Ask about All the Media and Locations They Shared? 3/04/2021 Q&A Why Am I So Afraid to Be Happy? 3/04/2021 Q&A How Do I Forgive Myself for the Ways I Reacted as the Betrayed? 3/04/2021 Q&A Will I Ever Love and Desire My Husband Again? 3/04/2021 Q&A Why Is My Ex-Husband Now Playing the Victim? 3/04/2021 Q&A Could My Husband Be Done with Recovery? 3/04/2021 Q&A How I Can Move Forward and Get past the Feeling That I Don’t Have the Full Story? 2/23/2021 Q&A How Do We Move Forward When He’s Still Holding on to Resentment Towards Me and I’m the Betrayed? 2/23/2021 Q&A How Do I Stop Feeling like My Husband Needs to Own up to the Affair to People in His Life? 2/11/2021 Q&A Am I Wrong to Demand Him to Quit His Job for My Own Healing? 2/11/2021 Q&A When Will I Stop Asking Questions? 1/28/2021 Q&A Is It Normal for an Unfaithful Spouse Get Upset Whenever Asked to Talk about the Inappropriate Behavior? 1/28/2021 Q&A Am I Wrong for Wanting to Know My Husband's Yellow-Light Behaviors? 1/25/2021 Q&A Can I Trust That He Is Being Honest? 1/20/2021 Q&A Why Can't I Forgive One of the Multiple Affairs? 1/20/2021 Q&A How Do I Stop Seeking the ‘20% Guy’? 1/20/2021 Q&A How Can I Get My Husband to Understand the Importance of Boundaries? 1/20/2021 Q&A Is It Appropriate to Abstain from Sex until Safety and Emotional Intimacy Have Been Established? 1/20/2021 Q&A How Can I Heal When I'm Sharing My Wife with a Coworker? 1/20/2021 Q&A How Can I Regain Sexual Attraction to My Husband? 1/20/2021 Q&A How Do I Salvage My Spiritual Relationship? 1/20/2021 Q&A What Should I Do with the Evidence? 1/20/2021 Q&A Why Did the Wayward Spouse Want to Reconcile, but Is Now in a Relationship with His Affair Partner Post-Divorce? 1/20/2021 Q&A How Do I Handle This Lapse in Motherhood When I’ve Been Needed? 1/20/2021 Q&A How Do I Get to the Point That I Feel Good about the Way That I Look? 1/20/2021 Q&A How Do I Stay in a Marriage with My Husband Who Won't Open up with Me? 1/20/2021 Q&A Can We Heal Even When He Still Can’t Give Me a Full Account of His Affair? 1/20/2021 Q&A How Can I Get My Wife to Stop Seeing Her Affair Partner? 1/14/2021 Q&A Why Do I Still Feel like Its My Fault She Had a Affair? Is This Normal for Betrayed Men? 1/14/2021 Q&A As a Betrayed Spouse, How Do I Work through My Humiliation? 1/14/2021 Q&A How Do I Get My Memories Pure and Special Again? 1/14/2021 Q&A How Can I Help My Wife Feel Safe Again? 1/14/2021 Q&A Did He Really Not Consider Me or His Children? 1/14/2021 Q&A How Can I Get These Constant Reminders Out of My Head? 1/14/2021 Q&A How Do I Deal with Constant Relapse? 1/14/2021 Q&A Can You Clarify the Statement, ‘Don't Rebuild Your Old Marriage. You Must Build Something New’? 1/07/2021 Q&A How Do I Handle In-Laws? 1/07/2021 Q&A Should I Even Consider Staying or Working on the Marriage? 1/07/2021 Q&A What Can I Do to Move Forward in My Relationship with My Husband? 1/07/2021 Q&A How Can I Know My Mate Didn't Just Prefer Sex With Someone Else? 12/17/2020 Q&A How Probable It Is That He Can Stop Cheating and Have a Normal Sex Life? 12/17/2020 Q&A As the Betrayed, How Do I Stop Obsessing About the Affair Partner? 12/17/2020 Q&A How Do I Deal With My Husband's Refusal to Consider Accountability? 12/17/2020 Q&A Why Did My Wayward Husband Share Our Children’s Lives with the Affair Partner? 12/17/2020 Q&A I'm the Hurt Partner and I'm Extremely Codependent, Now What? 12/17/2020 Q&A What Do I Do When My Husband's Needs Are a Trigger for Me? 12/17/2020 Q&A Should I Ask Him the Questions I Have About Presents That He Gave to Her? 12/17/2020 Pages« first‹ previous…5678910111213…next ›last »