For The Hurt Spouse

There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse.

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Video icon Q&A When Is It Appropriate to Tell Adult Children about Their Mother's Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle the Mixed Messages I'm Receiving from My Ex-fiancé?
Video icon Q&A Am I Expecting Too Much Too Soon, How Long Does It Take to Start to See That Coming Back?
Video icon Q&A Is There Anything I Can Do to Help Him Work through His Struggles - Which in Turn Will Help Our Marriage?
Video icon Q&A How Does the Betrayed Spouse Productively Handle Contempt and Disgust?
Video icon Q&A Why Does My Wife Not See the Effort and Work It Takes for Me, as the Betrayed, to Stay in the Marriage?
Video icon Q&A What Am I Supposed to Do as the Hurt Spouse Trying to Heal from My Husband’s Hurtful Behavior While Now Navigating My Past?
Video icon Q&A What Does the Betrayed Spouse Do When the Betrayer Just Won’t End the Affair and Shows Signs of Limerence?
Video icon Q&A Am I Being Unrealistic for Wanting to Have a More Loving, Satisfying, Sex Life after Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A Is It Alright for Me Not to Confront My Husband about Breaching the Contract?
Video icon Q&A Why Do I Want to Indulge in Thoughts of the Other Women?
Video icon Q&A What Is My Husband's Addiction?
Video icon Q&A What Is She Ambivalent about If There Was No Emotional Attachment to the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A What Might Be a Better Way to Deal with My Pain?
Video icon Q&A What Steps Can I Take to Learn to Trust Again?
Video icon Q&A Is His Inability to Recall Details of the Affair Normal?
Video icon Q&A Is My Spouse's Attitude Preventing Limerence from Fading?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stop Feeling Shame over My Husband's Thoughts?
Video icon Q&A Can I Ever Feel Love Again for Her If I'm Feeling Trapped in This Marriage?
Video icon Q&A Why Does He Keep Reaching Out to Me If He Is Still in the Affair?
Video icon Q&A Should I Ask about All the Media and Locations They Shared?
Video icon Q&A Why Am I So Afraid to Be Happy?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Forgive Myself for the Ways I Reacted as the Betrayed?
Video icon Q&A Will I Ever Love and Desire My Husband Again?
Video icon Q&A Why Is My Ex-Husband Now Playing the Victim?
Video icon Q&A Could My Husband Be Done with Recovery?
Video icon Q&A How I Can Move Forward and Get past the Feeling That I Don’t Have the Full Story?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Move Forward When He’s Still Holding on to Resentment Towards Me and I’m the Betrayed?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stop Feeling like My Husband Needs to Own up to the Affair to People in His Life?
Video icon Q&A Am I Wrong to Demand Him to Quit His Job for My Own Healing?
Video icon Q&A When Will I Stop Asking Questions?
Video icon Q&A Is It Normal for an Unfaithful Spouse Get Upset Whenever Asked to Talk about the Inappropriate Behavior?
Video icon Q&A Am I Wrong for Wanting to Know My Husband's Yellow-Light Behaviors?
Video icon Q&A Can I Trust That He Is Being Honest?
Video icon Q&A Why Can't I Forgive One of the Multiple Affairs?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stop Seeking the ‘20% Guy’?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Get My Husband to Understand the Importance of Boundaries?
Video icon Q&A Is It Appropriate to Abstain from Sex until Safety and Emotional Intimacy Have Been Established?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Heal When I'm Sharing My Wife with a Coworker?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Regain Sexual Attraction to My Husband?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Salvage My Spiritual Relationship?
Video icon Q&A What Should I Do with the Evidence?
Video icon Q&A Why Did the Wayward Spouse Want to Reconcile, but Is Now in a Relationship with His Affair Partner Post-Divorce?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle This Lapse in Motherhood When I’ve Been Needed?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get to the Point That I Feel Good about the Way That I Look?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stay in a Marriage with My Husband Who Won't Open up with Me?
Video icon Q&A Can We Heal Even When He Still Can’t Give Me a Full Account of His Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Get My Wife to Stop Seeing Her Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Why Do I Still Feel like Its My Fault She Had a Affair? Is This Normal for Betrayed Men?
Video icon Q&A As a Betrayed Spouse, How Do I Work through My Humiliation?