For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse The Problem with Forgiveness Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How to Survive Infidelity How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? The Power of Small Groups 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 1278 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Stay in a Marriage with My Husband Who Won't Open up with Me? 1/20/2021 Q&A Can We Heal Even When He Still Can’t Give Me a Full Account of His Affair? 1/20/2021 Q&A How Can I Get My Wife to Stop Seeing Her Affair Partner? 1/14/2021 Q&A Why Do I Still Feel like Its My Fault She Had a Affair? Is This Normal for Betrayed Men? 1/14/2021 Q&A As a Betrayed Spouse, How Do I Work through My Humiliation? 1/14/2021 Q&A How Do I Get My Memories Pure and Special Again? 1/14/2021 Q&A How Can I Help My Wife Feel Safe Again? 1/14/2021 Q&A Did He Really Not Consider Me or His Children? 1/14/2021 Q&A How Can I Get These Constant Reminders Out of My Head? 1/14/2021 Q&A How Do I Deal with Constant Relapse? 1/14/2021 Q&A Can You Clarify the Statement, ‘Don't Rebuild Your Old Marriage. You Must Build Something New’? 1/07/2021 Q&A How Do I Handle In-Laws? 1/07/2021 Q&A Should I Even Consider Staying or Working on the Marriage? 1/07/2021 Q&A What Can I Do to Move Forward in My Relationship with My Husband? 1/07/2021 Q&A How Can I Know My Mate Didn't Just Prefer Sex With Someone Else? 12/17/2020 Q&A How Probable It Is That He Can Stop Cheating and Have a Normal Sex Life? 12/17/2020 Q&A As the Betrayed, How Do I Stop Obsessing About the Affair Partner? 12/17/2020 Q&A How Do I Deal With My Husband's Refusal to Consider Accountability? 12/17/2020 Q&A Why Did My Wayward Husband Share Our Children’s Lives with the Affair Partner? 12/17/2020 Q&A I'm the Hurt Partner and I'm Extremely Codependent, Now What? 12/17/2020 Q&A What Do I Do When My Husband's Needs Are a Trigger for Me? 12/17/2020 Q&A Should I Ask Him the Questions I Have About Presents That He Gave to Her? 12/17/2020 Q&A Would Her Medication Have Created the Same Brain Chemicals as Limerence? 12/17/2020 Q&A Is My Wife's On-Going Ambivalence Towards Our Relationship the Best That I Can Hope For? 12/17/2020 Q&A How Do I Move Forward with My Husband If There Is No Disclosure? 12/17/2020 The Anorexic Marriage: A Void of Intimacy 12/02/2020 Q&A How Much Pain Can One Take before They Break? 11/24/2020 Q&A What Do I Do When Exercise Is a Trigger? 11/18/2020 Q&A Is This Ultimatum Unreasonable? 11/18/2020 Q&A Could You Help? 11/18/2020 Q&A Should I Ask Him to Hear My Story? 11/18/2020 Q&A Is It Time to Just Formally End My Marriage? 11/18/2020 Q&A What Should I Do with His Lapse in Judgement? 11/18/2020 Q&A Must I Be Completely Finished with the Grieving Task before I Can Move to Forgiveness? 11/18/2020 Q&A Is It Wrong to Ask My Husband to Understand the Affair Partner's Personality Disorder? 11/18/2020 Q&A How Do I Figure Out What to Do? 11/18/2020 Q&A Should He Leave His Job? 11/18/2020 Q&A What Should I Do with an Ambivalent Partner When a Baby Is Involved? 11/18/2020 Q&A How Do I Know if My Husband Has Completely Detoxed From the Affair Partner? 11/18/2020 Q&A What Is the Census of Disclosing the Affair to the Affair Partner's Spouse? 11/18/2020 Q&A How Do I Address My Overwhelming Fear? 11/12/2020 Q&A How Do I Discern If or When It's Safe to Trust Him Again? 11/12/2020 Q&A What Can I Do about My Defensive Husband That Doesn't Follow through on His Commitments to the Marriage? 11/12/2020 Q&A What Do I Do about a Husband That Does Not Want to Work on Himself? 11/12/2020 Q&A How Do I Move on with My Wayward Husband? 11/12/2020 Q&A How Should the Betrayed Respond When the Wayward Spouse Lashes Out? 11/12/2020 Searching for Truth: Snooping Won’t Help 11/11/2020 Q&A How Can He Do All of This Good Recovery Work and Still Lie? 10/29/2020 Q&A Is It Appropriate to Ask the Wayward Spouse to Take a Polygraph? 10/29/2020 Q&A How Does He Change His Behavior If He Can Not See Himself Doing It? 10/29/2020 Pages« first‹ previous…5678910111213…next ›last »