For The Hurt Spouse
There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse.
Must Reads
How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons
How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity
Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability?
20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse
Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1
1218 Resources
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Video Q&A Is It Ever Just Too Much to Get Past? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A Should I Suggest to My Spouse That He Take Hope for Healing While I’m Taking Harboring Hope or Should He Be the One to Suggest Taking It? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A What Should I Do for My Sanity Now? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A Should I File for Divorce? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A Is There Any Hope for Recovery in Our Situation? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A Do You Recommend Sharing the Discovery Week of Harboring Hope with My Wayward Spouse? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A Was it Really Love? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Get Him to Get It? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A What Do You Do If Your Spouse Refuses to Acknowledge That Emotional Affairs Are Valid? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A Do I Just Wait for Him to Decide? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A Have You Ever Heard of Couples Recreating Sexual Encounters between the Wayward Spouse and Affair Partner on Purpose? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A How Can I Take Control of My Life So That I Can Forgive and Heal? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A Why Is It That My Husband Made the Affair Partners Feel Special but Finds It Hard to Make His Own Wife Feel Special? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A How Can Do We Get past This When She Doesn’t Believe She Had a Physical Affair? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A Do I Stand by My Husband When He Wants Revenge on the Affair Partner? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A Should My Husband Contact His Affair Partner to Get an Answer Regarding Her Pregnancy Status? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A Am I Wrong to Ask Her to Stop Social Media Use? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A What Do You Call This Behavior? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A Would Leaving the Marriage Now That He Is Sick Seem Heartless and Cruel? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A What Do I Do When I Don't Believe Something That He Consistently Says Is True? 10/05/2020
Video Q&A Is It Wrong to Avoid Contact with In-Laws since My Wayward Husband Villainized Me to Them? 9/24/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Move Forward and Continue with Recovery? 9/24/2020
Video Q&A Does Anyone Know the Name of What My Spouse Does to Keep from Answering a Question with the Truth? 9/22/2020
Video Q&A Is Soliciting Prostitutes Always Due to an Addiction? 9/22/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Turn off Rumination without Getting Validation from My Husband? 9/22/2020
Video Q&A How Do You Handle Ambivalence without Being Co-Dependent? 9/22/2020
Video Q&A Is There a Way to Determine the Difference between an Affair Being Motivated by Revenge as Opposed to the Wayward Spouse Justifying an Affair or Are They One in the Same? 9/22/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Begin to Deal with This Being True? 9/22/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Get over the Constant Reminder and Trigger? 9/22/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Find a Happy Medium Where I Can Learn to Be Myself Again, While Still Connecting with Him and Learning to Trust Him Again? 9/22/2020
Video Q&A Is It Common to Loose Feelings for Your Wayward Spouse? 9/22/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Heal from the Damage of the Internet? 9/22/2020
Video Q&A Will I Ever See My Husband as ‘Mine’ Again? 9/03/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Get to the Truth? 9/02/2020
Video Q&A Will the Same Debilitating Pain Continue to Happen over the Years? 9/02/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Give up This Need That Is Always in the Back of My Mind? 9/02/2020
Video Q&A When Is It Appropriate to Communicate to My Spouse That Their Behavior Is Not Acceptable? 9/02/2020
Video Q&A What Guidelines Can I Share for Friends or Family Who Are Trying to Be Supportive? 9/02/2020
Video Q&A How Can Any Person Not Know Why They Have Done Something? 9/02/2020
Video Q&A Is There a Time to Reconcile with Friends Involved in the Affair? 9/02/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Process My Husband's Behavior While We Were Divorced? 9/02/2020
Video Q&A Should I Be Working on Being Strong Enough to Leave? 9/02/2020
Video Q&A Can You Please Give Me Some More Information on a Written Disclosure? 9/02/2020
Video Q&A How Is It Possible to Compartmentalize the Way My Husband Did? 9/02/2020
Video Q&A How Long Do I Put up with My Wife's Ambivalence? 9/02/2020
Video Q&A What Can I Do If I Now Have Too Much Detail? 9/02/2020
Video Q&A How Can We Make the Pictures Disappear? 9/02/2020
Video Q&A How Do We Get past Both Betrayals? 9/02/2020
Video Q&A How Do You Deal with Your Own Parents and Siblings Not Supporting Your Reconciliation? 9/02/2020
Video Q&A Could His Early Experience Have Played a Part in His Affair and His Attitude Toward Sex Now? 9/02/2020