All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Rebuilding Trust After An Affair The Power of Small Groups Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 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Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 5004 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Should I Continue Forward or Wait until He Wants to Recommit to Us? 5/26/2017 Q&A Should I Continue to Verify My Spouse's Honesty? 5/26/2017 Q&A How Important Is It for My Husband to Choose Me versus Need Me? 5/26/2017 Q&A How Will I Know If He Truly Is Happy? 5/26/2017 Q&A How Do I Stay in the Process of Forgiveness? 5/26/2017 Q&A How Long Should I Wait for My Spouse to Overcome Ambivalence and Make a Decision? 5/26/2017 Q&A How Do I Help My Wife Overcome Her Shame? 5/26/2017 Q&A Is My Wife Safe? 5/26/2017 Q&A Would a Separation Be Appropriate or Beneficial for Me to Get Healing? 5/26/2017 Q&A Can You Speak to Ambivalence on Behalf of the Betrayed Spouse? 5/26/2017 Q&A Can My Deceitful and Unfaithful Spouse Really Change? 5/24/2017 Q&A What Do We Do during This Limbo? 5/24/2017 Q&A How Can I Encourage My Spouse to Engage in Healing Conversations? 5/24/2017 Q&A Am I Dealing with Accusatory Suffering? 5/24/2017 Q&A How Do I Deal with This Level of Detail? 5/24/2017 Q&A How Can I Share My Intrusive Thoughts without Him Feeling Shame? 5/24/2017 Q&A Is It Possible to Fall in Love Again with Your Mate after They Were Unfaithful? 5/24/2017 Q&A What Do You Recommend for Our Counseling Situation? 5/24/2017 Q&A What's Important to Process After His Infidelity? 5/24/2017 Q&A What Does His Excuse for the Affairs Truly Mean? 5/24/2017 Q&A What Do You Do When Ambivalence and Limerance Don't Cover It? 5/24/2017 What if my Spouse Doesn’t Remember All the Details? Q&A Video Excerpt from Recovery Library 5/24/2017 Q&A How Can I Handle Intrusive Thoughts during Sex When I Can't Look at My Mate? 5/17/2017 Q&A My Spouse Is Stuck. How Can I Help Her Heal?” 5/17/2017 Q&A How Can I Help My Mate with Emotional Flooding When We're Sexual? 5/17/2017 Q&A Is It Okay for My Mate to Have Contact with My Affair Partner? 5/17/2017 Q&A Why Do I Feel Like I've Regressed to Where I Was 10 Years Ago? 5/17/2017 Q&A How Can We Handle the Embarrassment of People Knowing What My Spouse Did? 5/17/2017 Q&A Should I Have the Same Anger towards My Affair Partner That My Spouse Has? 5/17/2017 Q&A What Do You Mean By, "People with a Strong Moral Compass Are More Likely to Have an Affair"? 5/17/2017 Q&A Where Was My Husband's Self Respect during the Affair? 5/17/2017 Q&A Is It Normal for the Wayward Spouse to Admit Things at D-Day and Then Retract Them? 5/17/2017 Q&A Is It Common for a Couple Not See a Happy past and Want to Give Up? 5/17/2017 Q&A How Do We Move Forward If I Don't Remember 100% of the Affair Details? 5/17/2017 Q&A If He Didn't Love His Affair Partner, Why Was He Planning Their Anniversary? 5/10/2017 Q&A Is It Necessary to Confess My One Night Stand to My Unfaithful Spouse? 5/10/2017 Q&A When Does a Betrayed Spouse Find Sexual Desire for Their Mate Again? 5/10/2017 Q&A Should We Move to Get Away from the Affair Partner? 5/10/2017 Q&A Is It Possible for Someone to Have a Long Term Affair without Emotional Attachment? 5/10/2017 Q&A How Do I Manage Family Introductions with the Child Born from an Affair? 5/10/2017 Q&A How Can I Share My Hurt without Her Feeling Shame? 5/10/2017 Q&A Should I Be Worried about My Spouse Communicating with My Affair Partner's Spouse? 5/10/2017 Q&A After Discovering My Affair My Mate Began a New Relationship. How Does This Work with EMS Online? 5/10/2017 Q&A My Son Discovered My Spouse's Secret App. Now What? 5/10/2017 Q&A How Do I Begin Share the Affair Details with My Mate? 5/10/2017 Q&A How Do We Combat Triggers for Upcoming Events? 5/10/2017 Q&A Is There Hope If the Affair Partner Still Works with My Mate? 5/03/2017 Q&A What Keeps Someone from Cheating? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Long Is Long Enough? 5/03/2017 Q&A Is It Normal for Someone Not to Be Ambivalent? 5/03/2017 Pages« first‹ previous…606162636465666768…next ›last »