All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery The Power of Small Groups Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it The Problem with Forgiveness Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors How to Survive Infidelity Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 5033 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A What Do I Do Now to Cope and Heal from His past History? 6/21/2017 Q&A Once a Person Cheats, Are They More Likely to Cheat Again? 6/21/2017 Q&A What Is a D-Day Anniversary Like for the Unfaithful? 6/21/2017 Q&A He Says I'm 50% Responsible for His Affair. Is That a Sign of Denial? 6/21/2017 Q&A Should We Divorce Because We Can't Respect Each Other's Feelings? 6/21/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle My Bitterness and Anger Coming Back after Giving Birth? 6/21/2017 Q&A How Do We Move Safely from Here in the Presence of a Restraining Order? 6/21/2017 Q&A Why Do the Betrayed Have to Be a Part of the Unfaithful’s Detox? 6/21/2017 Q&A Should We Make Amends by Contacting Former Affair Partners and Spouses? 6/21/2017 Q&A What Does Consent to Sex Look Like in Marriage? 6/21/2017 Q&A How Often Do the Betrayed Spouses of the Unfaithful Partners Get Together? 6/21/2017 Q&A Aren’t Betrayal and Love Incompatible? 6/21/2017 Q&A How Can I Heal from the Dishonor of His Sharing My Secrets with Her? 6/21/2017 Q&A Is There Hope for Change? 6/21/2017 Q&A What Can We Expect from EMS Online? 6/07/2017 Q&A How Do I Know If My Mate Is Really Changing? 6/07/2017 Q&A Why Does He Say He Wants to Save the Marriage? 6/07/2017 Q&A What Should We Discuss When We Check-In with Each Other? 6/07/2017 Q&A How Do I Help Her with the Anniversary? 6/07/2017 Q&A Is This All Part of the Process or Is It Something Else? 6/07/2017 Q&A Should We Throw in the Towel before Things Get Worse? 6/07/2017 Q&A Forgiveness and Infidelity 6/07/2017 Q&A What Happens When I Don't Want to Have Sex as Often as My Mate? 6/07/2017 Q&A How Do We Handle Recovery When We Are Both the Betrayed and the Unfaithful? 6/07/2017 Q&A Letting Go: Explain the Task of Rewriting History 5/26/2017 Q&A What Does a Betrayed Spouse Do When the Unfaithful Spouse Leaves? 5/26/2017 Q&A How Do I Heal without the Details of My Wife's Affair? 5/26/2017 Q&A How Should I Handle the Anniversary Dates of the Affair? 5/26/2017 Q&A What Do We Tell Our Kids regarding the Infidelities? 5/26/2017 Q&A How Do We Disclose the Separation and Reasons behind It? 5/26/2017 Q&A What Do I Do about My Spouse Refusing to See His Affair Partner Negatively? 5/26/2017 Q&A Should I Continue Forward or Wait until He Wants to Recommit to Us? 5/26/2017 Q&A Should I Continue to Verify My Spouse's Honesty? 5/26/2017 Q&A How Important Is It for My Husband to Choose Me versus Need Me? 5/26/2017 Q&A How Will I Know If He Truly Is Happy? 5/26/2017 Q&A How Do I Stay in the Process of Forgiveness? 5/26/2017 Q&A How Long Should I Wait for My Spouse to Overcome Ambivalence and Make a Decision? 5/26/2017 Q&A How Do I Help My Wife Overcome Her Shame? 5/26/2017 Q&A Is My Wife Safe? 5/26/2017 Q&A Would a Separation Be Appropriate or Beneficial for Me to Get Healing? 5/26/2017 Q&A Can You Speak to Ambivalence on Behalf of the Betrayed Spouse? 5/26/2017 Q&A Can My Deceitful and Unfaithful Spouse Really Change? 5/24/2017 Q&A What Do We Do during This Limbo? 5/24/2017 Q&A How Can I Encourage My Spouse to Engage in Healing Conversations? 5/24/2017 Q&A Am I Dealing with Accusatory Suffering? 5/24/2017 Q&A How Do I Deal with This Level of Detail? 5/24/2017 Q&A How Can I Share My Intrusive Thoughts without Him Feeling Shame? 5/24/2017 Q&A Is It Possible to Fall in Love Again with Your Mate after They Were Unfaithful? 5/24/2017 Q&A What Do You Recommend for Our Counseling Situation? 5/24/2017 Q&A What's Important to Process After His Infidelity? 5/24/2017 Pages« first‹ previous…606162636465666768…next ›last »