Safety in Recovery
The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do.
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1047 Resources
Type Title Posted
Video Q&A Where Do I Go from Here? 5/03/2017
Video Q&A Should My Wife Offer Amends and/or Disclosure to Her Ex Husband? 4/25/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Trust Someone Who Has Manipulated Me So Much? 4/25/2017
Video Q&A Is Our Church Safe? 4/25/2017
Video Q&A Is He Relapsing? 4/25/2017
Video Q&A Should We Change Churches? 4/25/2017
Video Q&A He Blames His Addiction on My Lack of Connection and I Blame My Lack of Connection on His Addiction. 4/25/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Be Assertive without Being Aggressive about His Recovery? 4/25/2017
Video Q&A How Do We Get through This without Being Together? 4/25/2017
Video Q&A Is It Healthy for Me to Withdraw My Commitment for Complete Honesty? 4/25/2017
Video Q&A Should I Be Worried That He Hasn't Completed His 4th Step in 18 Months of Recovery? 4/25/2017
Video Q&A What Is Shaming? 4/25/2017
Video Q&A Should I Be Worried about a Person from My Mates Past? 4/12/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Continue to Support Myself and Keep Our Tenuous Truce without Burning Out? 4/12/2017
Video Q&A When Does Anger Become Emotional Abuse? 4/12/2017
Video Q&A Am I Being Passive Agressive? 4/12/2017
Video Q&A Should Communication with Counselors Be Enough for Me to Feel Supported? 4/12/2017
Video Q&A What does He Need to Do to Get It? 4/05/2017
Video Q&A How do I deal with his lack of empathy? 4/05/2017
Video Q&A Is my loneliness an excuse to hold onto our marriage? 4/05/2017
Video Q&A How can I regain trust after this setback? 4/05/2017
Video Q&A How do we handle the details? 4/05/2017
Video Q&A Is it a good idea to move out for a temporary separation? 4/05/2017
Video Q&A How do I get my unfaithful spouse to cooperate? 4/05/2017
Video Q&A What can I do to help my parents understand the level in which I have been hurt? 4/05/2017
Video Q&A Is there hope or should I follow through with divorce? 4/05/2017
Video Q&A How can I regain trust after this setback? 4/05/2017
Video Q&A What does Working Through this in a healthy way look like for me and my children? 4/05/2017
Video Q&A How do I Deal With My Wife’s Ambivalence? 4/05/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Bring up a Situation I'm Uncomfortable With? 3/29/2017
Video Q&A Can you Explain the statement ‘Love Acts in the Best Interest of Another person’? 3/29/2017
Video Q&A Is This as Good as it Gets? 3/29/2017
Video Q&A What Should I Do about His Behavior towards Me? 3/22/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Handle Him Working Long Distance with My Lack of Trust? 3/22/2017
Video Q&A How Can She Help Me Rebuild My Trust in Her? 3/22/2017
Video Q&A Is This a Reasonable Expectation to Ensure Our Son's Safety? 3/22/2017
Video Q&A Can You Expand Your Thoughts on Financial Infidelity? 3/22/2017
Video Q&A Will Contacting the Affair Partner Help Me Forgive? 3/15/2017
Video Q&A Why Would I Stay with Him? 3/15/2017
Video Q&A Can You Share More about the Detox Phase for the Unfaithful Spouse? 3/08/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Request a Polygraph from My Mate? 3/08/2017
Video Q&A When Do You Know It's as Good as It's Going to Get? 3/08/2017
Video Q&A Is His Lack of Transparency Grounds for Divorce? 3/08/2017
Video Q&A What Is a Reasonable Shift of Expectations for My Mate in Recovery? 3/08/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Regain My Confidence as a Mom When the Principals I Teach Didn't Protect Me? 3/08/2017
Video Q&A What Can I Do to Get Him to Move Forward? 3/08/2017
Video Q&A Should This Friendship End? 3/08/2017
Video Q&A Is It Common to Relapse More Than Once? 3/08/2017
Video Q&A Should I Consider Visiting Our Children without My Husband? 3/08/2017
Video Q&A What Do You Advise for Me to Set Safe Boundaries and Expectations? 3/08/2017