Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors How to Survive Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened The Power of Small Groups The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) The Problem with Forgiveness How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair 1081 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Likely is my Mate to Cheat Again? 7/07/2015 Q&A How can I Pretend to be Happy When I'm Not? 7/07/2015 Q&A What do you Suggest I do Now? 7/07/2015 Q&A Does my Spouse Really Want to Save the Marriage? 6/26/2015 Q&A How Can I Encourage my Spouse to Get Help? 6/26/2015 Q&A How do I Respond to Ambivalence? 6/26/2015 Q&A Should I be Leading our Recovery? 6/23/2015 Q&A Is it Infidelity if we were Separated? 6/23/2015 Q&A Should I Start Over While I Still Can? 6/16/2015 Q&A What Boundaries are Needed to Keep my Family Safe? 6/09/2015 Q&A How Risky is a F.O.B.A.D.? 6/09/2015 Q&A How do I Deal with my Spouse's Ambivalence? 6/02/2015 Q&A Is There Hope for us to Move Forward After this Degree of Infidelity? 6/02/2015 Q&A How Does Trickle Truth Affect my Recovery Timeline? 6/02/2015 Q&A How can I be Certain my Spouse has Disclosed Everything? 6/02/2015 Q&A Should I Separate my Finances? 6/02/2015 Q&A Where is the Line Between Honesty and Pretend Normal? 6/02/2015 Q&A Is it Normal to Have Turmoil so Soon After EMS Weekend? 6/02/2015 Q&A Can Someone go from Years of Unfaithfulness to Faithful at the Flip of a Switch? 6/02/2015 Q&A Why is my Husband Resisting Change? 6/02/2015 Q&A How do we Handle a Persistent Affair Partner? 6/02/2015 Q&A How do I get him to be more interested in recovery?” 5/29/2015 Q&A When Can the Betrayed Spouse Move on? 5/19/2015 Q&A Should I Separate From my Unfaithful Spouse? 5/19/2015 Q&A How Can I Set Boundaries While my Spouse is Having an Affair? 5/12/2015 Q&A Should I Publicly Expose my Spouse's Affair Partner? 5/12/2015 Q&A Why do They Continue to Lie? 5/12/2015 Q&A My Spouse Works With Their Affair Partner. Will They Relapse? 5/04/2015 Q&A Does my Husband Have a Problem he Can't Break? 4/28/2015 Q&A What Does Godly Sorrow vs. Worldly Sorrow Look Like? 4/28/2015 Q&A Do They Have Lingering Feelings for the Affair Partner? 4/28/2015 Q&A How do I Decide to Stay or Go? 4/24/2015 Q&A Do you Think he Might be Lying Again? 4/24/2015 Q&A Why is it Not a Good Idea to Contact the AP? 4/24/2015 Q&A How Can I Trust Him if I Can't See Him? 4/24/2015 Q&A How Can I Deal with the Affair Partner Having Been in my House? 4/21/2015 Q&A Should I Reciprocate Transparency With my Phone? 4/21/2015 Q&A How Can I Help my Husband Forgive Himself for Leaving his Affair Partner? 4/21/2015 Q&A Does Giving my Wife Full Disclosure in Therapy Make me Less of a Man? 4/21/2015 Q&A How Long do I Wait for my Wife to End her Affair? 4/21/2015 Q&A How do I Obtain Closure When the AP is his Ex-Wife? 4/21/2015 Q&A How Does a Betrayed Spouse Deal with Lying by Omission? 4/15/2015 Q&A My Husband's AP May be Pregnant with his Child. What do I do? 4/15/2015 Q&A What do I do With a New Discovery About my Husband's Behavior? 4/15/2015 Q&A (HFH) Rick, What was Your Personal Experience With Relapse? 4/15/2015 Q&A Am I Overreacting to Setbacks, and is it Too Soon to Move Home? 4/15/2015 Q&A What's Your Advice on Moving? 3/31/2015 Q&A Stuck!? 3/31/2015 Q&A What are Your Views on the Affair Partner? 3/31/2015 Q&A How Can I Stop This Obsession? 3/31/2015 Pages« first‹ previous…141516171819202122next ›last »
