All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? The Power of Small Groups Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it The Problem with Forgiveness How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain How to Survive Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 5033 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A What Suggestions Do You Have for Managing My Emotions during Recovery? 4/30/2020 Q&A What Can I Do to Help My Husband from Continuously Shutting Down? 4/30/2020 Q&A Where Is the Empathy for Me? 4/30/2020 Q&A Do I Stay Separated or Divorce If This Never Changes? 4/28/2020 Q&A I Am Trying to Be Safe for My Wife, but How Can I Feel Safe from Her? 4/28/2020 Q&A Will I Ever Feel Special Again? 4/28/2020 Q&A What Are Your Suggestions When It’s Hard to Trust? 4/28/2020 Q&A How Can I Ever Feel Comfortable Being in a Place with My Husband without Searching for Women Whom I Know Fit His Sexual Criteria? 4/28/2020 Q&A Will This Ever Get Better and How Can I Help Myself to Recover This Part of My Marriage? 4/28/2020 Q&A How Do I Make the Hard Decision to Stay or Move on after All These Years? 4/28/2020 Q&A Why Am I Having an Emotional Reaction When My Spouse Shows Interest in Things Besides Recovery? 4/28/2020 Q&A Is It Time for Me to Find My Own Counselor and Begin to Exit This Relationship? 4/28/2020 Q&A How Can I Work to Create an Environment Where My Wayward Spouse Feels Safe? 4/28/2020 Q&A How Do I Maintain Recovery During Times of Crisis? 4/28/2020 Q&A Is It Really Possible for a Man to Fall Back in Love with His Wife If He Was in Love with His Affair Partner? 4/28/2020 Q&A Can I Trust This as Real Change or Just Further Manipulation? 4/28/2020 Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Understand My Concerns? 4/28/2020 Q&A Will We Ever Be Able to Restore Trust in Our Marriage? 4/28/2020 Q&A How Do I Take a Step Forward and Where Do I Go from Here? 4/16/2020 Q&A What Strategies Can I Use for Patience during Recovery? 4/16/2020 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Helping Us Break Contact with the Affair Partner? 4/16/2020 Q&A Are There Questions That Would Make the Empathy Exercise More Productive and Healing? 4/16/2020 Q&A Is It Possible for Something like This to Not Change Us? 4/16/2020 Q&A Can I Truly Be the Changed Person I Feel I Am Now? 4/16/2020 Q&A Should We Continue EMS Online If My Spouse Continues to Blame Me for the Affair? 4/09/2020 Q&A How Do I Know Limerance Isn’t What My Husband Feels for Me? 4/09/2020 Q&A Why Do Wayward Spouses Want to Stay in the Marriage? 4/09/2020 Q&A What Was My Husband Telling Himself When He Told Me All These Lies? 4/09/2020 Q&A How Can We Get Our Needs Met during Recovery? 4/02/2020 Q&A How Do You Deal with Someone Who Lacks Self Awareness? 4/02/2020 Q&A Is It Time for a Separation? 4/02/2020 Q&A What Kind of Affair Did My Husband Have and What Does It Mean for Recovery? 4/02/2020 Hope During the COVID-19 Crisis ...and our favorite memes 3/30/2020 Q&A Has Sexual Imprinting Led to My Affair? 3/26/2020 Q&A How Do We Stop This Exhausting, Vicious, Cycle? 3/26/2020 Q&A How Can We Reclaim This Intimate Part of Our Sexuality? 3/26/2020 Q&A Can You Help Me Reframe My Thinking? 3/19/2020 Q&A How Do We Move Forward When My Spouse Is Still in Contact with the Affair Partner? 3/19/2020 Q&A Is My Husband Normal, Sick, or Was He Temporarily Insane? 3/19/2020 Q&A What Can I Do to Support My Mate in Breaking Contact with the Affair Partner? 3/19/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle My Mate Wanting Me to Hate the Affair Partner? 3/19/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle Being in the Friend Zone with My Wife? 3/16/2020 Q&A How Long Does It Take for the Wayward Spouse to See Clearly? 3/16/2020 Q&A Can I Get My Motivation Back? 3/16/2020 Q&A Is There Any Way to Help My Wayward Spouse? 3/16/2020 Q&A How Is Recovery Different If the Porn Addiction Is Same Sex? 3/16/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle My Fear around My Ex-Wife's Possible Relationship? 3/16/2020 Q&A How Do I Counter the Serious Assault on My Self Esteem? 3/16/2020 Q&A Is It Okay to Have Sex with My Mate under These Circumstances? 3/16/2020 Q&A What Do I Do If My Husband Won't Get Help? 3/16/2020 Pages« first‹ previous…222324252627282930…next ›last »
