Rebuilding Trust In the short run, transparency can take the place of trust until trust is reestablished. Learn the components of trust, how to function in its absence, and what it takes to reconnect. Must Reads more less Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Why Did My Spouse Cheat? How do you respond to blackmail? Part II Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors We Started Well, but... Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Recovery Timeline Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How to Survive Infidelity The Problem with Forgiveness The 2 Stages of Pain 338 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Why Wasn't My Husband Honest with Me? 1/03/2020 Q&A How Do We Rebuild Trust? 1/02/2020 Q&A How Do We Re-Establish Trust? 1/02/2020 Q&A How Do We Differentiate between What Secrets Are Safe to Keep and Which Should Be Shared? 12/19/2019 Q&A How Can I Fix the Problem of Trickle Truth? 12/16/2019 Q&A How Can I Begin to Trust with All of the Trickle Truth Happening? 12/05/2019 Q&A How Do I Know Who My Mate Really Is? 11/22/2019 Q&A Do You Have Advice for Safely Reaching Full Disclosure without a Polygraph? 11/21/2019 Q&A Why Can't My Mate Be Honest? 11/05/2019 Q&A How Can We Move Forward with This Lack of Trust? 10/02/2019 Q&A How Do I Know If My Mate Is Being Honest When Discussing the Affair Partner? 9/26/2019 Q&A How Can I Trust What the Wayward Spouse Is Disclosing to Me? 9/18/2019 Q&A What Do His Boundary Violations Mean? 9/13/2019 Q&A Should We Stop the Trickle Effect of Disclosure? 9/04/2019 Q&A How Can I Accept What My Mate Is Telling Me? 9/04/2019 Q&A How Can I Convince My Spouse That I've Disclosed All of the Details? 8/23/2019 Q&A Is My Spouse Being Truthful with Me? 8/23/2019 Q&A Is My Spouse Showing a Lack of Trustworthiness? 8/23/2019 Q&A How Can I Believe What My Husband Is Saying? 8/20/2019 Q&A How Can We Create Safety When Talking about the Affair? 8/20/2019 Q&A When Is the Right Time to Talk about Trust? 8/14/2019 Q&A Is It Possible for the Wayward Spouse to Not Disclose Fully, yet Find Themselves Fully Recommitted after Discovery? 8/06/2019 Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband's Dishonesty? 7/24/2019 Q&A Am I Wrong for Asking My Husband to Be Transparent? 6/11/2019 Q&A Is It Possible He Is Being Honest? 5/08/2019 Q&A What Boundaries Would You Recommend upon Reconciliation? 5/08/2019 Q&A Is It Safe to Believe My Mate? 5/08/2019 Q&A How Can I Feel Safe from Another Relapse? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Do I Convince My Wife I Love Her and Only Her? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Do I Get My Husband to Tell the Truth? 4/10/2019 Q&A How Do We Set Boundaries When the Affair Partner Has Close Family Ties? 4/10/2019 Q&A How Can We Create Safe Boundaries with Social Media? 4/03/2019 Q&A What Steps Should I Take after Relapse? 3/20/2019 Q&A How Do You Enforce Boundaries? 3/13/2019 Q&A How Do I Open My Heart Again? 3/13/2019 Q&A Will the Lies Ever Stop? 2/20/2019 Q&A How Do We Get to Full Disclosure? 1/23/2019 Q&A Should I Give My Mate a Second Chance? 1/16/2019 Q&A How Can I Regain Trust after so Much Deception? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Can We Overcome This Lack of Transparency? 1/03/2019 Q&A Should I Insist or Let It Go? 12/12/2018 Q&A How Can I Tell If My Spouse Is Being Honest? 12/05/2018 Q&A How Can I Regain Her Trust Again? 11/28/2018 Q&A How Do I Find a Credible Polygrapher in My Area and Should I Use One? 11/26/2018 Q&A What Do You Do If Your Spouse Refuses Full Disclosure? 11/26/2018 Q&A How Can We Create Safety When We Are Apart? 11/21/2018 Q&A How Do I Break My Cycle of Lying? 11/07/2018 Q&A What Do You Do When the Betrayed Spouse Doesn’t Believe Your Story? 11/07/2018 Q&A Can We Ever Have Trust Again after All This? 11/01/2018 Q&A Could We Fail If We Don't Reach Ground Zero? 11/01/2018 Pages« first‹ previous1234567next ›last »