The Role of Empathy
Empathy is often misunderstood yet always necessary in recovery. Learn to understand the function of empathy and how it can change your marriage.
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268 Resources
Type Title Posted
Video Q&A Which Should We Work on First? 7/12/2016
Video Q&A Do Revenge Affairs Help the Unfaithful 'Get it'? 7/01/2016
Video Q&A Can Addicts Rid Themselves of Being Self Centered? 7/01/2016
Video Q&A When Can I Expect for Him to Have a Response? 7/01/2016
Video Q&A What is Realistic in Terms of Time Spent Talking About it? 7/01/2016
Video Q&A Advice for 'Getting it'? 6/21/2016
Video Q&A Can You Give Me Guidance With My Assignment? 6/14/2016
Video Q&A How Do I Convince My Mate That I'm Sincere? 6/14/2016
Video Q&A What's the Darkness Like? 6/14/2016
Video Q&A How do We Handle the First Weeks After Discovery? 6/06/2016
Audio Q&A Is Waiting for Remorse a Fool's Errand? 6/03/2016
Video Q&A What Can I Do About My Friends? 5/26/2016
Video Q&A Can an Addict Love Unconditionally? 5/26/2016
Video Q&A Any Advice to Help With the Flooding? 5/10/2016
Video Q&A How Can the Betrayed Make Sense from 30+ Years of Deceit? 5/03/2016
Video Q&A Is There a Way I Can Engage My Disconnected Betrayed Spouse? 4/26/2016
Video Q&A What Does Healthy Empathy Look Like? 4/13/2016
Video Q&A Can You Help With the Unfaithful's Lack of Empathy? 4/13/2016
Video Q&A Is a Sexless Marriage My New Reality? 4/13/2016
Video Q&A Can You Help Me Feel Empathy? 4/13/2016
Audio Q&A (HH) Can I and Should I Believe Him? 3/24/2016
Audio Q&A (HH) What Feelings Do the Unfaithful Experience? 3/24/2016
Video Q&A How Do I Overcome Not Putting My Wife First? 3/21/2016
Video Q&A Can She Do More for Me? 3/15/2016
Video Q&A What Recovery Work Should the Unfaithful Do? 3/08/2016
Video Q&A Can You Help Simplify our Complicated Idea of Love? 3/01/2016
Video Q&A Any Practical Advice for Our Cycle? 2/23/2016
Video Q&A Please Tell Me, What Else Can I Do? 2/16/2016
Video Q&A Should we Discuss Her Resentments Toward me? 2/09/2016
Video Q&A What if I Never Get the Apology My Heart Desire? 2/02/2016
Video Q&A Why Doesn't He Cry? 2/02/2016
Video Q&A How Can I Manage the Relationships With My In-Laws? 1/26/2016
Video Q&A Is Their Friendship Okay? 1/26/2016
Video Q&A How Can I Handle Her Flooding? 1/26/2016
Audio Q&A I Don't Know Whether to Stay or Go 12/23/2015
Video Q&A How Can We Communicate When He Isn't Getting It? 12/08/2015
Video Q&A Why Will He Still Not Talk About It? 12/01/2015
Video Q&A What Are the Best Ways to Show Love in the First 18 Months of Recovery? 11/04/2015
Video Expert Q&A Preview: How Can We Have More Productive Conversations? 11/04/2015
Video Q&A How Do I Deal With My Spouse Saying, "Why Don't You Just Divorce Me?"? 11/04/2015
Video What’s the Most Effective Role for Me? 10/27/2015
Video Q&A How Do We Get Through the Anniversary Date? 10/20/2015
Video Q&A Why Does Our Fresh Start Seem Stale? 10/20/2015
Video Q&A When Will I Receive the Love I'm Sending? 10/20/2015
Video Q&A How Can We Heal When Nothing is Being Addressed? 10/06/2015
Audio Q&A What's The Difference Between Healthy Emotion and Emotional Flooding? 10/01/2015
Audio Q&A Can One Reconnect While Not Being Truly Intimate? 10/01/2015
Video Q&A I Love Her, Why Did I Cheat on Her? 9/22/2015
Video Q&A Why Doesn't he Talk About it? 9/01/2015
Audio Q&A Why are Some Cheaters Sorry and Others aren't? 8/27/2015