How to Forgive
Everyone’s recovery looks different, but one consistent factor that must occur is forgiveness. Read the articles in this section to understand the process of forgiveness and to find tools for moving forward.
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158 Resources
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Video Q&A How Do I Move past the Feelings of Rage I Have Towards the Affair Partner? 7/11/2018
Video Q&A What Does Forgiveness Look like after Multiple Relapses? 6/07/2018
Video Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust and Become Vulnerable Again? 6/06/2018
Video Q&A Will My Formerly Wayward Spouse Ever Feel Special to Me Again? 5/09/2018
Video Q&A How Do I Learn to Love My Spouse Again? 5/07/2018
Video Q&A What's Wrong with Me? 4/05/2018
Video Q&A How Do I Move past What My Mate Said to the Affair Partner? 4/05/2018
Video Q&A Do You Have Suggestions for Handling the Transgressions That Occur before D-Day and After? 3/28/2018
Video Q&A How Do I Let Go of the Need to Make My Husband Pay for What He Did? 3/28/2018
Text Forgiving Infidelity: What Forgiveness Is NOT 1/18/2018
Video Q&A How Do I, as the Betrayed, Learn to Love My Mate Again? 1/10/2018
Video Q&A Should I Give My Mate Another Chance? 1/10/2018
Video Q&A My Mate's Family Also Betrayed Me, How Do We Reconcile? 1/08/2018
Video Q&A How Do I Handle Forgiveness When the AP Is a Family Member? 12/20/2017
Video Q&A Do You Think I Am Wise to Pursue Forgiveness? 12/06/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Know If I’ve Forgiven? 12/06/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Forgive the Affair Partner? 11/22/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Forgive the AP Who Was Also a Close Friend? 10/25/2017
Text Do You Struggle with Forgiveness? 10/17/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Show Her We Can Recover from This? 10/10/2017
Video Q&A Why Does It Seem That It Is Getting Harder to Overcome the Betrayal? 10/05/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Show Acceptance and What Does It Look Like? 9/20/2017
Video Q&A How Will I Know I Have Forgiven Both My Husband and the AP? 8/16/2017
Video Q&A Why Can't I Get over the Affair Even Though My Husband Is Doing All the Work to Rebuild? 8/10/2017
Video Q&A Should There Be Closure with the Affair Partner? 7/19/2017
Video Q&A Is It Okay to Let the Affair Partner Know That I Forgive Her? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A How Can We Overcome past Promises of Leaving after Betrayal? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Handle My Bitterness and Anger Coming Back after Giving Birth? 6/21/2017
Video Q&A How Do We Move Safely from Here in the Presence of a Restraining Order? 6/21/2017
Video Q&A Should We Make Amends by Contacting Former Affair Partners and Spouses? 6/21/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Heal from the Dishonor of His Sharing My Secrets with Her? 6/21/2017
Video Q&A Forgiveness and Infidelity 6/07/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Stay in the Process of Forgiveness? 5/26/2017
Video Q&A Can You Speak to Ambivalence on Behalf of the Betrayed Spouse? 5/26/2017
Video Q&A Am I Dealing with Accusatory Suffering? 5/24/2017
Video Q&A When Does a Betrayed Spouse Find Sexual Desire for Their Mate Again? 5/10/2017
Video Q&A Should We Move to Get Away from the Affair Partner? 5/10/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Achieve Forgiveness? 5/03/2017
Video Q&A How Common are Affairs? 4/12/2017
Video Q&A Will Contacting the Affair Partner Help Me Forgive? 3/15/2017
Video Q&A How Will I Know When I've Completely Forgiven Him? 3/08/2017
Video Expert Q&A Preview: Am I Looking at Forgiveness Wrong? 2/28/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Get My Husband to Stop Focusing on My Past So He Will Work on His Addiction? 2/22/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Combat My Feelings toward the Unremorseful Affair Partner? 2/22/2017
Video Q&A Can my Christian Witness be Valid Without Conveying Forgiveness? 12/20/2016
Video Q&A Is Forgiveness my Issue? 12/20/2016
Video Q&A How can I Get Over What Bill W. Founder of AA, did to His Wife? 11/30/2016
Video Q&A How Can We Get Past Our Difference of Opinion With Reconciliation and Forgiveness? 11/23/2016
Video Q&A How Can I Handle Being Triggered by the Affair Partner? 11/23/2016
Video Q&A How Can I Combat My Bitterness Towards My Wife and Her Affair Partner? 11/23/2016

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