How to Forgive Everyone’s recovery looks different, but one consistent factor that must occur is forgiveness. Read the articles in this section to understand the process of forgiveness and to find tools for moving forward. Must Reads more less Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity How do you respond to blackmail? Part II Recovery Timeline The 2 Stages of Pain The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? How to Survive Infidelity Rebuilding Trust After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse The Problem with Forgiveness We Started Well, but... How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected 157 Resources : How to Forgive Type Title Posted As a Betrayed or Unfaithful Spouse, You Must Heal Yourself 1/21/2020 The Gift of Forgiveness 12/6/2019 How Does the Unfaithful Spouse Deal with Unforgiveness and Resentment toward the Betrayed? 11/19/2019 Are You Forgivable? Part 3: Stupid Apologies 11/13/2019 Are You Forgivable? Part 2: 7 Myths Undermining Forgiveness 11/6/2019 Are You Forgivable? Part 1: Self Assessment 10/30/2019 Forgiveness: A Letter to My Younger Self 9/18/2019 Why the Unfaithful Spouse Must Forgive Themselves 8/13/2019 This Is What Happens When the Unfaithful Spouse Doesn't Forgive Themselves 8/8/2019 Lies We Believe About Our Spouse 7/24/2019 Infidelity and Forgiveness: If You Forgive Your Unfaithful Spouse, Do You Have to Reconcile 6/27/2019 Q&A How Do I Handle the Injustice of It All? 6/5/2019 Q&A Is There a Difference between Just Getting over What Happened and Forgiveness? 5/21/2019 Is It Possible to Forgive Your Spouse Too Early after Infidelity? 5/9/2019 Q&A Does Forgiveness Give My Mate a Free Pass? 3/27/2019 Q&A How Do I Forgive the Unforgivable? 3/27/2019 Q&A Why Am I so Concerned About the Affair Partner? 3/20/2019 The Problem with Forgiveness 3/6/2019 Acceptance 2/11/2019 Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 1/30/2019 12345678> next
