How to Forgive Everyone’s recovery looks different, but one consistent factor that must occur is forgiveness. Read the articles in this section to understand the process of forgiveness and to find tools for moving forward. Must Reads more less Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted How to Survive Infidelity Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Why Did My Spouse Cheat? Recovery Timeline Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) The Problem with Forgiveness We Started Well, but... How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected The 2 Stages of Pain Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse How do you respond to blackmail? Part II Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 163 Resources : How to Forgive Type Title Posted Practical Suggestions for Forgiveness 7/22/2020 Forgiving Infidelity: The Gift of Forgiveness 7/15/2020 The True Definition of Love and Its Role In Surviving An Affair 5/20/2020 "I Was Living in Denial" - An Interview With a Betrayed Male Spouse 5/5/2020 Q&A How Do I Move Forward in Forgiving Myself? 2/20/2020 How Does the Unfaithful Spouse Have a Healthy Relationship with Themselves? 2/13/2020 Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to See the Time during the Affair as Something Other Than Tainted or Fake? 2/11/2020 How to Deal with Contempt after Infidelity 2/6/2020 Q&A How Do I Get past the Things I Think He Might Have Said to Her? 1/31/2020 As a Betrayed or Unfaithful Spouse, You Must Heal Yourself 1/21/2020 The Gift of Forgiveness 12/6/2019 How Does the Unfaithful Spouse Deal with Unforgiveness and Resentment toward the Betrayed? 11/19/2019 Are You Forgivable? Part 3: Stupid Apologies 11/13/2019 Are You Forgivable? Part 2: 7 Myths Undermining Forgiveness 11/6/2019 Are You Forgivable? Part 1: Self Assessment 10/30/2019 Forgiveness: A Letter to My Younger Self 9/18/2019 Why the Unfaithful Spouse Must Forgive Themselves 8/13/2019 This Is What Happens When the Unfaithful Spouse Doesn't Forgive Themselves 8/8/2019 Q&A Can We Ever Get past This If I Know That I Don't Want to Forgive My Mate? 8/6/2019 Lies We Believe About Our Spouse 7/24/2019 123456789> next
