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Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 167 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Forgive Myself for Choosing to Stay? 1/09/2019 Q&A Is This Normal or Is This a Sign of Unforgiveness? 12/12/2018 Q&A How Do We Navigate Forgiveness with outside Parties? 11/07/2018 Q&A How Do We Move past All the Secrets? 10/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Forgive What My Mate Has Done? 10/10/2018 Q&A How Do We Get Closure? 9/12/2018 Q&A What Does Desire for Reconciliation Look Like? 9/12/2018 Q&A Is There Hope for Us? 8/01/2018 Q&A How Can We Move past Resentments and Heal Our Marriage? 7/16/2018 Q&A How Do I Move past the Feelings of Rage I Have Towards the Affair Partner? 7/11/2018 Q&A What Does Forgiveness Look like after Multiple Relapses? 6/07/2018 Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust and Become Vulnerable Again? 6/06/2018 Q&A Will My Formerly Wayward Spouse Ever Feel Special to Me Again? 5/09/2018 Q&A How Do I Learn to Love My Spouse Again? 5/07/2018 Q&A What's Wrong with Me? 4/05/2018 Q&A How Do I Move past What My Mate Said to the Affair Partner? 4/05/2018 Q&A Do You Have Suggestions for Handling the Transgressions That Occur before D-Day and After? 3/28/2018 Q&A How Do I Let Go of the Need to Make My Husband Pay for What He Did? 3/28/2018 Forgiving Infidelity: What Forgiveness Is NOT 1/18/2018 Q&A How Do I, as the Betrayed, Learn to Love My Mate Again? 1/10/2018 Q&A Should I Give My Mate Another Chance? 1/10/2018 Q&A My Mate's Family Also Betrayed Me, How Do We Reconcile? 1/08/2018 Q&A How Do I Handle Forgiveness When the AP Is a Family Member? 12/20/2017 Q&A Do You Think I Am Wise to Pursue Forgiveness? 12/06/2017 Q&A How Do I Know If I’ve Forgiven? 12/06/2017 Q&A How Do I Forgive the Affair Partner? 11/22/2017 Q&A How Do I Forgive the AP Who Was Also a Close Friend? 10/25/2017 Do You Struggle with Forgiveness? 10/17/2017 Q&A How Do I Show Her We Can Recover from This? 10/10/2017 Q&A Why Does It Seem That It Is Getting Harder to Overcome the Betrayal? 10/05/2017 Q&A How Do I Show Acceptance and What Does It Look Like? 9/20/2017 Q&A How Will I Know I Have Forgiven Both My Husband and the AP? 8/16/2017 Q&A Why Can't I Get over the Affair Even Though My Husband Is Doing All the Work to Rebuild? 8/10/2017 Q&A Should There Be Closure with the Affair Partner? 7/19/2017 Q&A Is It Okay to Let the Affair Partner Know That I Forgive Her? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Can We Overcome past Promises of Leaving after Betrayal? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle My Bitterness and Anger Coming Back after Giving Birth? 6/21/2017 Q&A How Do We Move Safely from Here in the Presence of a Restraining Order? 6/21/2017 Q&A Should We Make Amends by Contacting Former Affair Partners and Spouses? 6/21/2017 Q&A How Can I Heal from the Dishonor of His Sharing My Secrets with Her? 6/21/2017 Q&A Forgiveness and Infidelity 6/07/2017 Q&A How Do I Stay in the Process of Forgiveness? 5/26/2017 Q&A Can You Speak to Ambivalence on Behalf of the Betrayed Spouse? 5/26/2017 Q&A Am I Dealing with Accusatory Suffering? 5/24/2017 Q&A When Does a Betrayed Spouse Find Sexual Desire for Their Mate Again? 5/10/2017 Q&A Should We Move to Get Away from the Affair Partner? 5/10/2017 Q&A How Do I Achieve Forgiveness? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Common are Affairs? 4/12/2017 Q&A Will Contacting the Affair Partner Help Me Forgive? 3/15/2017 Q&A How Will I Know When I've Completely Forgiven Him? 3/08/2017 Pages« first‹ previous1234next ›last »
