Safety in Recovery
The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do.
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Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1)
Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It?
1038 Resources
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Video Q&A What Boundaries Need to Be in Place When Traveling? 1/23/2018
Video Q&A Are We Generating a Pattern of 'Pretend Normal'? 1/23/2018
Video Q&A Who Do We Tell about the Affair? 1/23/2018
Video Q&A Is There Anything I Can Personally Do to Discourage a Persistent AP? 1/22/2018
Text Forgiving Infidelity: What Forgiveness Is NOT 1/18/2018
Video Q&A Should I Give My Mate Another Chance? 1/10/2018
Video Q&A How Much Disclosure Is Considered 'Full Disclosure'? 1/10/2018
Video Q&A What Do You Do When the Affair Partner Won't Let Go? 1/10/2018
Video Q&A If Relapse Continues, Does the Effort by the Betrayed Even Matter? 1/08/2018
Video Q&A What Can Affair Recovery Do Tell Help a Compulsive Liar? 1/08/2018
Video Q&A Should I Just Suck It Up? 12/20/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Surrender Control? 12/20/2017
Video Q&A How Do You End an Affair with an Unstable Affair Partner? 12/20/2017
Video Q&A Am I Asking for Too Much in Regards to Safety in Recovery? 12/20/2017
Video Q&A Is It Time to Move On? 12/20/2017
Video Q&A What Can I Do to Heal from the Massive Anxiety I Am Now Facing? 12/20/2017
Video Q&A Where Does Self-Love Fit in to the Process of Recovery? 12/20/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Communicate My Need for Safety in Recovery? 12/06/2017
Video Q&A How Should I Handle Working with My Affair Partner? 12/06/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Communicate the Importance of Being Real and Authentic? 12/06/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Proceed When My Spouse Isn't Safe? 11/28/2017
Video Q&A When We're Being Sexual, How Can I Get the Affair Partner out of My Head? 11/28/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Know This Hasn't Happened Before? How Can I Know It Won't Happen Again? 11/28/2017
Video Q&A Why Would the Unfaithful Shame the Betrayed? 11/22/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Set Better Boundaries with My In-Laws? 11/22/2017
Video Q&A What Should I Do If Things Are Getting Worse Rather Than Better? 11/15/2017
Video Q&A Is My Spouse Really Trying to Disconnect from the Affair Partner? 11/15/2017
Video Q&A How Do We Break the Barrier between Us When the Unfaithful Says He Isn't Sure He Wants to Be Married? 11/15/2017
Video Q&A Is It Time to Give Up? 11/15/2017
Video Q&A If I Continue to Have Sex with My Spouse, Am I Letting Him Use Me? 11/10/2017
Video Q&A What Should the Expectations Be for Long Separations? 11/10/2017
Video Q&A How Should I Respond to My Betrayed Husband? 11/10/2017
Video Q&A If I Decide to Stay, How Do I Trust Again? 11/01/2017
Video Q&A How Can You Create Safety When the Affair Partner Is a Co-Worker? 11/01/2017
Video Q&A Is It Unrealistic to Expect Answers to 'Why'? 11/01/2017
Video Q&A How Do We Heal from the Affair While Raising a Child Conceived with the Affair Partner? 10/25/2017
Video Q&A How Do We Set Reasonable Boundaries? 10/25/2017
Video Q&A How Can My Mate Get the AP to Stop Contact? 10/25/2017
Video Q&A Should I Prepare to Leave or Take Control of Our Healing? 10/25/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Feel Not Just Safe, but Free Again? 10/25/2017
Video Q&A What Can I Do If My Wife Has Totally Lost Trust in Me? 10/25/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Help My Wife Not Feel Like a Victim? 10/10/2017
Video Q&A When Will My Mate Feel Safe Again? 10/09/2017
Video Q&A What Do I Do with My Husband's Lack of Remorse? 10/05/2017
Video Q&A Is My Mates Change of Heart Genuine? 10/05/2017
Video Q&A How Do We Handle a Secure Workplace? 9/27/2017
Video Q&A How Do We Work Together after Relapse? 9/08/2017
Video Q&A Why Doesn't He 'Get It'? 9/06/2017
Video Q&A Am I Making a Mistake by Staying with Him? 9/06/2017
Video Q&A Should the Unfaithful Spouse Lead Our Healing? 9/06/2017

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