Why They Did It The lingering question that haunts almost everyone recovering from infidelity: Why? The unfaithful spouse may not know why just yet, but use these articles to gain insight and, eventually, freedom from the uncertainty. Must Reads more less Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain The Problem with Forgiveness The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair How to Survive Infidelity Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons How Could You? 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Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 360 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Could My Wife Feel so Connected with the Affair Partner and Not Think the Sex Was Better with Them? 8/28/2019 Q&A How Does Sexual Imprinting in a Women during Her Teenage Years Impact Her Desire to Be Intimate in a Marriage Compared to with an Affair Partner? 8/23/2019 Q&A Is My Husband's Argument Right? 8/20/2019 Q&A Do You Agree with My Counselor? 8/20/2019 Q&A Where Did the Weakness to Have an Affair Come From? 8/20/2019 Q&A Is His Guilt Truly about the Affair or about Being Caught? 8/06/2019 Q&A Am I Using the Affair Partners Choices as a Cop-Out? 7/17/2019 Q&A How Can My Mate Prefer Anything about the Affair Partner? 7/03/2019 Q&A Why Did My Mate Choose to See the Affair Partner One Last Time? 7/03/2019 Q&A Did God Really Lead My Spouse to Have an Affair? 6/19/2019 Q&A Are My Mates Actions a Result of Poor Self Esteem? 6/11/2019 Q&A Why Did My Mate Take So Many Photos of the Affair Partners? 5/21/2019 Q&A How Do I Move Forward If My Mate Won't Admit What Happened? 5/15/2019 Q&A Could These Be Contributing Factors to My Husband's Acting Out? 5/08/2019 Q&A Why Can't My Husband Face That This Was an Affair? 5/08/2019 Q&A Why Did My Mate Choose to Stay Committed to the Affair Partner? 5/08/2019 Q&A How Often Do the Betrayed End up Having Revenge Affairs? 4/30/2019 Q&A Is It Possible That My Spouse Never Blamed Me for Their Actions? 4/30/2019 Q&A Is This Relationship worth Keeping? 4/17/2019 Q&A How Do I Discern What Is True in All of This? 4/17/2019 Q&A Is Anxiety a Valid Reason to Leave a Marriage? 4/10/2019 Q&A Why Is the Wayward Spouse Continuing to Justify Their Actions? 4/10/2019 Q&A Is an Obsession with Beauty Part of a Deeper Problem? 3/13/2019 Q&A How Much Blame Can We Assign to the Affair Partner? 3/13/2019 Q&A How Can I Believe That My Mate Really Loved Me during Their Affair? 3/06/2019 Q&A Did My Trust Contribute to the Infidelity? 2/20/2019 Q&A Why Is the Wayward Spouse Questioning My Fidelity? 2/20/2019 Q&A Is My Spouse a Good Person in Spite of the Infidelity? 2/20/2019 Why People Cheat: Justifications of the Unfaithful (Part 3) 2/20/2019 Q&A Why Is My Wayward Spouse Having Trouble Facing This? 2/06/2019 Q&A Why Does My Mate Say He Can't Remember Details of the Affair? 1/30/2019 Q&A Why Is the 'Why' Often Never Fully Discovered? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Do I Handle My Husbands Affairs? 11/26/2018 Q&A How Does Depression Affect Infidelity and Recovery? 11/01/2018 Q&A Was My Mate Committed to Me? 11/01/2018 Q&A Is Understanding the 'Why' Important for Healing? 10/23/2018 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand What I'm Dealing With? 10/17/2018 Q&A Why Is Unprotected Sex within an Affair so Alluring? 10/10/2018 Q&A Should I Disclose My Revenge Affair to My Mate? 9/26/2018 Q&A How Does Alcohol Addiction Affect Recovery? 9/20/2018 Q&A Is There Hope for Recovery in This Type of Situation? 9/12/2018 Q&A Why Did the Affair Partner Try to Tear Our Family Apart? 9/12/2018 Q&A Do You Have Advice for Handling Addiction along with Infidelity? 8/29/2018 Q&A Why Won't My Mate See the Affair for What It Was? 8/22/2018 Q&A Was My Husband in Love with His Affair Partner? 8/22/2018 Q&A Can You Help Me Explain My Shame to My Mate? 8/15/2018 Q&A Can You Further Explain Compartmentalization? 8/08/2018 Q&A How Can I Communicate That It Was Shame That Caused Me to Hide? 8/08/2018 Q&A Did My Husband Love Me While He Was Being Unfaithful to Me? 7/16/2018 Q&A Are There Differences in Love of Spouse in Marriage and Love of the Affair Partner? 7/11/2018 Pages« first‹ previous12345678next ›last »
