For The Hurt Spouse
There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse.
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1206 Resources
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Video Q&A What Do I Do When the Wayward Spouse Remains Hidden? 7/02/2020
Video Q&A How Can I Trust a Man That Has Cheated Most of Our Marriage? 6/25/2020
Video Q&A Could I Have Broken the Cycle Before My Spouse Strayed? 6/25/2020
Video Q&A What Am I Trying to Save Here? 6/19/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Build Trust with My Wayward Spouse? 6/19/2020
Video Q&A My Wife Says She Didn’t Mean to Hurt Me. How Do I Respond to This? 6/19/2020
Video Q&A Is It Possible for the Wayward Spouse to Recover from the Affair If They Don't Really Grieve the Loss of the Relationship? 6/19/2020
Video Q&A How Can These Two Programs Be Helpful in Such a Mess of a Situation? 6/19/2020
Video Q&A If My Spouse Is Going through the Hope for Healing Course, Should I Expect to See His Emotions Roller Coaster like Mine? 6/19/2020
Video Q&A Do I Quit Expressing My Hurt, Asking Questions, and Pray for Peace in Our Remaining Years? 6/19/2020
Video Q&A Is Going No Contact with the Affair Partner Suggested or Discussed during Hope for Healing? 6/19/2020
Video Q&A Is There Anything I Can Do to Prevent Flashbacks of Photos I Have Seen? 6/19/2020
Video Q&A Did My Husband Prefer His Affair Partner over Me? 6/18/2020
Video Q&A Is This Healthy or Are My Concerns Valid? 6/09/2020
Video Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Understand It’s Not about Him and His Pain? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A How Can I Cherish the Positive Family Moments That Happened during the Affair? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A Why Has My Husband Re-written Our Marital History? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Accept That His Actions Were Willful and Done without Any Regard of My Feelings? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A Can You Help Me Understand My Ex-husband's Motive? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A What Would Enabling the Affair Look Like? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A Why Is My Wayward Husband Having a Difficult Time with 'Why'? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Start a New Relationship without Fear That This Will Happen Again? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A How Can I Trust My Husband in the Future If Only He and I Know? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A How Can I Heal When He Still Has to Have Contact with Her Because of Her Job? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Now Distinguish between Truth and Deception? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A How Do You Heal from This Level of Betrayal? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A Does the Length of the Affair Have Implications for Our Recovery? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A Do I Stop Encouraging My Mate to Participate in Hope for Healing and Quit Communicating with Him? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A Is My Request for Confrontation Reasonable? 5/28/2020
Video Q&A What If You Feel the Wayward Spouse Is Not Telling the Whole Truth during the Telling of Their Story? 5/07/2020
Video Q&A Where Is the Empathy for Me? 4/30/2020
Video Q&A How Can I Ever Feel Comfortable Being in a Place with My Husband without Searching for Women Whom I Know Fit His Sexual Criteria? 4/28/2020
Video Q&A Will This Ever Get Better and How Can I Help Myself to Recover This Part of My Marriage? 4/28/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Make the Hard Decision to Stay or Move on after All These Years? 4/28/2020
Video Q&A Why Am I Having an Emotional Reaction When My Spouse Shows Interest in Things Besides Recovery? 4/28/2020
Video Q&A Is It Time for Me to Find My Own Counselor and Begin to Exit This Relationship? 4/28/2020
Video Q&A How Can I Work to Create an Environment Where My Wayward Spouse Feels Safe? 4/28/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Maintain Recovery During Times of Crisis? 4/28/2020
Video Q&A Is It Really Possible for a Man to Fall Back in Love with His Wife If He Was in Love with His Affair Partner? 4/28/2020
Video Q&A Can I Trust This as Real Change or Just Further Manipulation? 4/28/2020
Video Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Understand My Concerns? 4/28/2020
Video Q&A Will We Ever Be Able to Restore Trust in Our Marriage? 4/28/2020
Video Q&A Should We Continue EMS Online If My Spouse Continues to Blame Me for the Affair? 4/09/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Know Limerance Isn’t What My Husband Feels for Me? 4/09/2020
Video Q&A Why Do Wayward Spouses Want to Stay in the Marriage? 4/09/2020
Video Q&A What Was My Husband Telling Himself When He Told Me All These Lies? 4/09/2020
Video Q&A What Kind of Affair Did My Husband Have and What Does It Mean for Recovery? 4/02/2020
Video Q&A Can You Help Me Reframe My Thinking? 3/19/2020
Video Q&A Is My Husband Normal, Sick, or Was He Temporarily Insane? 3/19/2020
Video Q&A What Can I Do to Support My Mate in Breaking Contact with the Affair Partner? 3/19/2020

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