Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 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Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 1088 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A What Boundaries Need to Be in Place When Traveling? 1/23/2018 Q&A Are We Generating a Pattern of 'Pretend Normal'? 1/23/2018 Q&A Who Do We Tell about the Affair? 1/23/2018 Q&A Is There Anything I Can Personally Do to Discourage a Persistent AP? 1/22/2018 Forgiving Infidelity: What Forgiveness Is NOT 1/18/2018 Q&A Should I Give My Mate Another Chance? 1/10/2018 Q&A How Much Disclosure Is Considered 'Full Disclosure'? 1/10/2018 Q&A What Do You Do When the Affair Partner Won't Let Go? 1/10/2018 Q&A If Relapse Continues, Does the Effort by the Betrayed Even Matter? 1/08/2018 Q&A What Can Affair Recovery Do Tell Help a Compulsive Liar? 1/08/2018 Q&A Should I Just Suck It Up? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Do I Surrender Control? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Do You End an Affair with an Unstable Affair Partner? 12/20/2017 Q&A Am I Asking for Too Much in Regards to Safety in Recovery? 12/20/2017 Q&A Is It Time to Move On? 12/20/2017 Q&A What Can I Do to Heal from the Massive Anxiety I Am Now Facing? 12/20/2017 Q&A Where Does Self-Love Fit in to the Process of Recovery? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Can I Communicate My Need for Safety in Recovery? 12/06/2017 Q&A How Should I Handle Working with My Affair Partner? 12/06/2017 Q&A How Can I Communicate the Importance of Being Real and Authentic? 12/06/2017 Q&A How Do I Proceed When My Spouse Isn't Safe? 11/28/2017 Q&A When We're Being Sexual, How Can I Get the Affair Partner out of My Head? 11/28/2017 Q&A How Do I Know This Hasn't Happened Before? How Can I Know It Won't Happen Again? 11/28/2017 Q&A Why Would the Unfaithful Shame the Betrayed? 11/22/2017 Q&A How Can I Set Better Boundaries with My In-Laws? 11/22/2017 Q&A What Should I Do If Things Are Getting Worse Rather Than Better? 11/15/2017 Q&A Is My Spouse Really Trying to Disconnect from the Affair Partner? 11/15/2017 Q&A How Do We Break the Barrier between Us When the Unfaithful Says He Isn't Sure He Wants to Be Married? 11/15/2017 Q&A Is It Time to Give Up? 11/15/2017 Q&A If I Continue to Have Sex with My Spouse, Am I Letting Him Use Me? 11/10/2017 Q&A What Should the Expectations Be for Long Separations? 11/10/2017 Q&A How Should I Respond to My Betrayed Husband? 11/10/2017 Q&A If I Decide to Stay, How Do I Trust Again? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Can You Create Safety When the Affair Partner Is a Co-Worker? 11/01/2017 Q&A Is It Unrealistic to Expect Answers to 'Why'? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Do We Heal from the Affair While Raising a Child Conceived with the Affair Partner? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do We Set Reasonable Boundaries? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Can My Mate Get the AP to Stop Contact? 10/25/2017 Q&A Should I Prepare to Leave or Take Control of Our Healing? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Can I Feel Not Just Safe, but Free Again? 10/25/2017 Q&A What Can I Do If My Wife Has Totally Lost Trust in Me? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Can I Help My Wife Not Feel Like a Victim? 10/10/2017 Q&A When Will My Mate Feel Safe Again? 10/09/2017 Q&A What Do I Do with My Husband's Lack of Remorse? 10/05/2017 Q&A Is My Mates Change of Heart Genuine? 10/05/2017 Q&A How Do We Handle a Secure Workplace? 9/27/2017 Q&A How Do We Work Together after Relapse? 9/08/2017 Q&A Why Doesn't He 'Get It'? 9/06/2017 Q&A Am I Making a Mistake by Staying with Him? 9/06/2017 Q&A Should the Unfaithful Spouse Lead Our Healing? 9/06/2017 Pages« first‹ previous…67891011121314…next ›last »
