Safety in Recovery
The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do.
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1047 Resources
Type Title Posted
Video Q&A Is there any Hope for our Marriage? 8/18/2015
Video Q&A Do you Ever Recommend Separating? 8/18/2015
Video Q&A How can I Love her After what She's Done? 8/18/2015
Video Q&A Should we let the AP's Know that it's Over? 8/18/2015
Video Q&A At what Point do I Move on? 8/11/2015
Video Q&A What is he Addicted to? 8/11/2015
Video Q&A How do I Respond to Continual Lies? 8/11/2015
Video Q&A Will he Ever Get Over her? 8/04/2015
Video Q&A How can I get Past a Desire for Revenge? 8/04/2015
Video Q&A Can I Heal While Spouse is Active in an Affair? 8/04/2015
Audio Q&A What Next? 7/31/2015
Audio Q&A What Affects do Polygraphs have on Recovery? 7/31/2015
Audio Q&A Should I Secretly Install Spyware on my Spouse's Phone? 7/31/2015
Video Q&A Is this what PTSD Looks Like? 7/28/2015
Video Q&A How do we Cope with the Ashley Madison Blackmail News? 7/28/2015
Video Q&A Any Thoughts for a Hopeless Situation? 7/20/2015
Video Q&A How Likely is my Mate to Cheat Again? 7/07/2015
Video Q&A How can I Pretend to be Happy When I'm Not? 7/07/2015
Video Q&A What do you Suggest I do Now? 7/07/2015
Audio Q&A Does my Spouse Really Want to Save the Marriage? 6/26/2015
Audio Q&A How Can I Encourage my Spouse to Get Help? 6/26/2015
Audio Q&A How do I Respond to Ambivalence? 6/26/2015
Video Q&A Should I be Leading our Recovery? 6/23/2015
Video Q&A Is it Infidelity if we were Separated? 6/23/2015
Video Q&A Should I Start Over While I Still Can? 6/16/2015
Video Q&A What Boundaries are Needed to Keep my Family Safe? 6/09/2015
Video Q&A How Risky is a F.O.B.A.D.? 6/09/2015
Video Q&A How do I Deal with my Spouse's Ambivalence? 6/02/2015
Video Q&A Is There Hope for us to Move Forward After this Degree of Infidelity? 6/02/2015
Video Q&A How Does Trickle Truth Affect my Recovery Timeline? 6/02/2015
Video Q&A How can I be Certain my Spouse has Disclosed Everything? 6/02/2015
Video Q&A Should I Separate my Finances? 6/02/2015
Video Q&A Where is the Line Between Honesty and Pretend Normal? 6/02/2015
Video Q&A Is it Normal to Have Turmoil so Soon After EMS Weekend? 6/02/2015
Video Q&A Can Someone go from Years of Unfaithfulness to Faithful at the Flip of a Switch? 6/02/2015
Video Q&A Why is my Husband Resisting Change? 6/02/2015
Video Q&A How do we Handle a Persistent Affair Partner? 6/02/2015
Audio Q&A How do I get him to be more interested in recovery?” 5/29/2015
Video Q&A When Can the Betrayed Spouse Move on? 5/19/2015
Video Q&A Should I Separate From my Unfaithful Spouse? 5/19/2015
Video Q&A How Can I Set Boundaries While my Spouse is Having an Affair? 5/12/2015
Video Q&A Should I Publicly Expose my Spouse's Affair Partner? 5/12/2015
Video Q&A Why do They Continue to Lie? 5/12/2015
Video Q&A My Spouse Works With Their Affair Partner. Will They Relapse? 5/04/2015
Video Q&A Does my Husband Have a Problem he Can't Break? 4/28/2015
Video Q&A What Does Godly Sorrow vs. Worldly Sorrow Look Like? 4/28/2015
Video Q&A Do They Have Lingering Feelings for the Affair Partner? 4/28/2015
Audio Q&A How do I Decide to Stay or Go? 4/24/2015
Audio Q&A Do you Think he Might be Lying Again? 4/24/2015
Audio Q&A Why is it Not a Good Idea to Contact the AP? 4/24/2015