Safety in Recovery
The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do.
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1081 Resources
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Audio Q&A I Don't Know Whether to Stay or Go 12/23/2015
Video Q&A How Much Work is Necessary? 12/22/2015
Video Q&A Should I Ask My Husband to Email His Affair Partner to Defend Me? 12/22/2015
Video Q&A What Are Your Thoughts About Our Current State of Healing? 12/22/2015
Video Q&A Can There be Safety Without Recovery Work? 12/22/2015
Video Q&A Do I Just Wait for Limerance to Fade? 12/15/2015
Video Q&A Do I Have a Right to Contact the AP's Spouse? 12/15/2015
Video Q&A How Can We Handle This Particular Work Challenge? 12/15/2015
Video Q&A How Do I Handle the AP in This Difficult Situation? 12/15/2015
Video Q&A How Can We Communicate When He Isn't Getting It? 12/08/2015
Video Q&A Why Can't We Talk About It? 12/08/2015
Video Q&A How Can it Be Safe With Someone so Selfish? 12/08/2015
Video Q&A Do I Have All the Information Needed? 12/08/2015
Video Q&A Is It Ever Okay To Express Anger? 12/01/2015
Video Q&A How Do We Handle His Working With the AP? 12/01/2015
Video Q&A Is This a Sign of Healthy Mistrust? 11/17/2015
Video Q&A Why Does He Want to Fix the Marriage While He is With His AP? 11/10/2015
Video Q&A What Do You Mean When You Have Us Say... ? 11/10/2015
Video Q&A How Do We Keep Our Children Safe If We Run Into My Wife's Affair Partner While At a School Function? 11/04/2015
Video Q&A My Spouse Is Not Taking Personal Responsibility and May Be a Sex Addict. I Feel Like Giving Up, Should I? 11/04/2015
Video What’s the Most Effective Role for Me? 10/27/2015
Video Q&A How Long Does My No-sex Agreement With My Unfaithful Wife Need to Last? 10/27/2015
Video Q&A How Do I Communicate the Importance of My Spouse's Recovery? 10/20/2015
Video Q&A What Consequences Should Follow Broken Boundaries? 10/20/2015
Video Q&A What Do I Do With the Pain? 10/06/2015
Video Q&A How Do I Deal With His Failure and My Detachment? 10/06/2015
Video Q&A How do I Transform my Pain? 9/22/2015
Video Q&A Who Can I Talk to? 9/22/2015
Video Q&A What About Emotional and Verbal Abuse in Recovery? 9/22/2015
Video Q&A How can I Feel Safe when my Mate's Affair was with their Ex? 9/17/2015
Video Q&A Is it Possible to Recover if your Spouse is Still Deceitful? 9/17/2015
Video Q&A What Boundaries should I Set Before my Mate Comes Home? 9/17/2015
Audio Q&A Are these Ground Rules Sufficient to be Safe from the Affair Partner? 8/27/2015
Video Q&A Can I Tell the Affair Partner she's Not Loved? 8/25/2015
Video Q&A Is there any Hope for our Marriage? 8/18/2015
Video Q&A Do you Ever Recommend Separating? 8/18/2015
Video Q&A How can I Love her After what She's Done? 8/18/2015
Video Q&A Should we let the AP's Know that it's Over? 8/18/2015
Video Q&A At what Point do I Move on? 8/11/2015
Video Q&A What is he Addicted to? 8/11/2015
Video Q&A How do I Respond to Continual Lies? 8/11/2015
Video Q&A Will he Ever Get Over her? 8/04/2015
Video Q&A How can I get Past a Desire for Revenge? 8/04/2015
Video Q&A Can I Heal While Spouse is Active in an Affair? 8/04/2015
Audio Q&A What Next? 7/31/2015
Audio Q&A What Affects do Polygraphs have on Recovery? 7/31/2015
Audio Q&A Should I Secretly Install Spyware on my Spouse's Phone? 7/31/2015
Video Q&A Is this what PTSD Looks Like? 7/28/2015
Video Q&A How do we Cope with the Ashley Madison Blackmail News? 7/28/2015
Video Q&A Any Thoughts for a Hopeless Situation? 7/20/2015

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