Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? The Power of Small Groups Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity How to Survive Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons The Problem with Forgiveness Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 1057 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Deal With His Failure and My Detachment? 10/06/2015 Q&A How do I Transform my Pain? 9/22/2015 Q&A Who Can I Talk to? 9/22/2015 Q&A What About Emotional and Verbal Abuse in Recovery? 9/22/2015 Q&A How can I Feel Safe when my Mate's Affair was with their Ex? 9/17/2015 Q&A Is it Possible to Recover if your Spouse is Still Deceitful? 9/17/2015 Q&A What Boundaries should I Set Before my Mate Comes Home? 9/17/2015 Q&A Are these Ground Rules Sufficient to be Safe from the Affair Partner? 8/27/2015 Q&A Can I Tell the Affair Partner she's Not Loved? 8/25/2015 Q&A Is there any Hope for our Marriage? 8/18/2015 Q&A Do you Ever Recommend Separating? 8/18/2015 Q&A How can I Love her After what She's Done? 8/18/2015 Q&A Should we let the AP's Know that it's Over? 8/18/2015 Q&A At what Point do I Move on? 8/11/2015 Q&A What is he Addicted to? 8/11/2015 Q&A How do I Respond to Continual Lies? 8/11/2015 Q&A Will he Ever Get Over her? 8/04/2015 Q&A How can I get Past a Desire for Revenge? 8/04/2015 Q&A Can I Heal While Spouse is Active in an Affair? 8/04/2015 Q&A What Next? 7/31/2015 Q&A What Affects do Polygraphs have on Recovery? 7/31/2015 Q&A Should I Secretly Install Spyware on my Spouse's Phone? 7/31/2015 Q&A Is this what PTSD Looks Like? 7/28/2015 Q&A How do we Cope with the Ashley Madison Blackmail News? 7/28/2015 Q&A Any Thoughts for a Hopeless Situation? 7/20/2015 Q&A How Likely is my Mate to Cheat Again? 7/07/2015 Q&A How can I Pretend to be Happy When I'm Not? 7/07/2015 Q&A What do you Suggest I do Now? 7/07/2015 Q&A Does my Spouse Really Want to Save the Marriage? 6/26/2015 Q&A How Can I Encourage my Spouse to Get Help? 6/26/2015 Q&A How do I Respond to Ambivalence? 6/26/2015 Q&A Should I be Leading our Recovery? 6/23/2015 Q&A Is it Infidelity if we were Separated? 6/23/2015 Q&A Should I Start Over While I Still Can? 6/16/2015 Q&A What Boundaries are Needed to Keep my Family Safe? 6/09/2015 Q&A How Risky is a F.O.B.A.D.? 6/09/2015 Q&A How do I Deal with my Spouse's Ambivalence? 6/02/2015 Q&A Is There Hope for us to Move Forward After this Degree of Infidelity? 6/02/2015 Q&A How Does Trickle Truth Affect my Recovery Timeline? 6/02/2015 Q&A How can I be Certain my Spouse has Disclosed Everything? 6/02/2015 Q&A Should I Separate my Finances? 6/02/2015 Q&A Where is the Line Between Honesty and Pretend Normal? 6/02/2015 Q&A Is it Normal to Have Turmoil so Soon After EMS Weekend? 6/02/2015 Q&A Can Someone go from Years of Unfaithfulness to Faithful at the Flip of a Switch? 6/02/2015 Q&A Why is my Husband Resisting Change? 6/02/2015 Q&A How do we Handle a Persistent Affair Partner? 6/02/2015 Q&A How do I get him to be more interested in recovery?” 5/29/2015 Q&A When Can the Betrayed Spouse Move on? 5/19/2015 Q&A Should I Separate From my Unfaithful Spouse? 5/19/2015 Q&A How Can I Set Boundaries While my Spouse is Having an Affair? 5/12/2015 Pages« first‹ previous…141516171819202122next ›last »