Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons How to Survive Infidelity The Problem with Forgiveness Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors The 2 Stages of Pain How do you respond to blackmail? Part II 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Recovery Timeline How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity We Started Well, but... Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 1023 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Should I Start Over While I Still Can? 6/16/2015 Q&A What Boundaries are Needed to Keep my Family Safe? 6/09/2015 Q&A How Risky is a F.O.B.A.D.? 6/09/2015 Q&A How do I Deal with my Spouse's Ambivalence? 6/02/2015 Q&A Is There Hope for us to Move Forward After this Degree of Infidelity? 6/02/2015 Q&A How Does Trickle Truth Affect my Recovery Timeline? 6/02/2015 Q&A How can I be Certain my Spouse has Disclosed Everything? 6/02/2015 Q&A Should I Separate my Finances? 6/02/2015 Q&A Where is the Line Between Honesty and Pretend Normal? 6/02/2015 Q&A Is it Normal to Have Turmoil so Soon After EMS Weekend? 6/02/2015 Q&A Can Someone go from Years of Unfaithfulness to Faithful at the Flip of a Switch? 6/02/2015 Q&A Why is my Husband Resisting Change? 6/02/2015 Q&A How do we Handle a Persistent Affair Partner? 6/02/2015 Q&A How do I get him to be more interested in recovery?” 5/29/2015 Q&A When Can the Betrayed Spouse Move on? 5/19/2015 Q&A Should I Separate From my Unfaithful Spouse? 5/19/2015 Q&A How Can I Set Boundaries While my Spouse is Having an Affair? 5/12/2015 Q&A Should I Publicly Expose my Spouse's Affair Partner? 5/12/2015 Q&A Why do They Continue to Lie? 5/12/2015 Q&A My Spouse Works With Their Affair Partner. Will They Relapse? 5/04/2015 Q&A Does my Husband Have a Problem he Can't Break? 4/28/2015 Q&A What Does Godly Sorrow vs. Worldly Sorrow Look Like? 4/28/2015 Q&A Do They Have Lingering Feelings for the Affair Partner? 4/28/2015 Q&A How do I Decide to Stay or Go? 4/24/2015 Q&A Do you Think he Might be Lying Again? 4/24/2015 Q&A Why is it Not a Good Idea to Contact the AP? 4/24/2015 Q&A How Can I Trust Him if I Can't See Him? 4/24/2015 Q&A How Can I Deal with the Affair Partner Having Been in my House? 4/21/2015 Q&A Should I Reciprocate Transparency With my Phone? 4/21/2015 Q&A How Can I Help my Husband Forgive Himself for Leaving his Affair Partner? 4/21/2015 Q&A Does Giving my Wife Full Disclosure in Therapy Make me Less of a Man? 4/21/2015 Q&A How Long do I Wait for my Wife to End her Affair? 4/21/2015 Q&A How do I Obtain Closure When the AP is his Ex-Wife? 4/21/2015 Q&A How Does a Betrayed Spouse Deal with Lying by Omission? 4/15/2015 Q&A My Husband's AP May be Pregnant with his Child. What do I do? 4/15/2015 Q&A What do I do With a New Discovery About my Husband's Behavior? 4/15/2015 Q&A (HFH) Rick, What was Your Personal Experience With Relapse? 4/15/2015 Q&A Am I Overreacting to Setbacks, and is it Too Soon to Move Home? 4/15/2015 Q&A What's Your Advice on Moving? 3/31/2015 Q&A Stuck!? 3/31/2015 Q&A What are Your Views on the Affair Partner? 3/31/2015 Q&A How Can I Stop This Obsession? 3/31/2015 Q&A What Can I do Since my Husband is Still in His Affair? 3/20/2015 Q&A Should I Give up on my Dishonest Husband? 3/20/2015 Q&A How Can I Deal With my Rage? 3/20/2015 Q&A Would more Detail Help me Heal? 3/20/2015 Q&A How can I Get my Husband to Cut off Contact With His AP? 3/20/2015 Q&A Should I Cut off All Contact With my Husband? 3/20/2015 Q&A Is it Just a Leap of Faith? 3/20/2015 Q&A How Long does Limerance Last? 3/20/2015 Pages« first‹ previous…131415161718192021next ›last »