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A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair 4838 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do You Make Your Partner Feel Understood, Trusted, like They Matter, and That It’s Ok to Make Mistakes, Without Enabling Bad Behavior? 5/24/2022 Q&A Is It Possible There Is a 7th Type of Affair? 5/24/2022 Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? Part III: Individual Vulnerability 5/18/2022 Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? Part II: Marital Vulnerability 5/18/2022 Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? 5/18/2022 Wanting to Be Wanted 5/04/2022 Limerence: Infatuation and How It Works 4/27/2022 Q&A How Do I Continue Supporting Her While Taking Care of My Heart and Mental Health? 4/20/2022 Q&A Why Can’t I Give My Spouse Full Disclosure? 4/20/2022 Q&A Is It OK for the Wayward Spouse to Keep in Touch with Affair Partners from the past That Happened Years before Us? 4/20/2022 Q&A What Is the Best Way to Discuss the Questions That Most Wayward Spouses Get from the Betrayed? 4/20/2022 Romanticism: Don't Believe the Lie 4/13/2022 Q&A How Do I Let Myself Be Happy Again? 4/08/2022 Q&A How Do We Handle Defensiveness? 4/08/2022 Q&A How Do I Move Forward Knowing That He Already Has The Mindset That This Could Happen Again? 4/08/2022 Q&A How Can I Convince Her to Engage More in the Group Therapy? 4/08/2022 Q&A How Could He Go from One Affair to Another? 4/08/2022 Q&A What Can I Do to Support Him but Also Be Heard? 4/06/2022 Q&A How Do I Get Over This Betrayal? 4/06/2022 Q&A How Can I Ever Get Over His Believing He Loved The Affair Partner? 4/06/2022 Q&A How Can I Communicate So That He Does Not Feel Condemned? 4/06/2022 Q&A How Do We Handle Disclosure When My Infidelity Was So Long Ago and I Can’t Remember All the Details? 4/06/2022 Q&A As a Betrayed Husband Is It Unrealistic to Want My Wife to Pursue Me Physically? 4/06/2022 Q&A What If the Hurt Spouse Needs More Information than the Wayward Spouse Is Willing to Give? 4/06/2022 Q&A How Do I Get past the Uncontrollable Fear of This Happening Again or That It Is Still Happening? 4/06/2022 Q&A Can You Please Give Me a Detailed Outline of What a Structured Separation Is and How to Implement It? 4/06/2022 Q&A How Do You Heal the Relationship with the Betrayed’s Extended Family? 4/06/2022 Q&A How Do We Continue in This Process When Only One of Us Is Committed? 4/06/2022 Q&A How Do We Move Forward after Several Relapses? 4/06/2022 Six Types of Affairs: Love Addiction 4/06/2022 Six Types of Affairs: Emotional Affair 4/06/2022 Six Types of Affairs: Wanting the Marriage and the Affair 4/06/2022 Six Types of Affairs: Sexual Addiction 4/06/2022 Six Types of Affairs: Fallen in Love 4/06/2022 Six Types of Affairs: One-Night Stand 4/06/2022 Six Types of Affairs 4/06/2022 How to Prevent Relapse: Healing After an Affair 3/30/2022 Q&A How Much Harder Will Our Recovery Be in This Situation? 3/25/2022 Q&A How Can I Put In the Effort Needed on My End for Intimacy without Getting the Same Failed Result? 3/25/2022 What Is A Forgiveness Letter? 3/16/2022 Q&A How Can I Trust Him Again? 3/10/2022 Q&A If My Spouse Felt So Much Guilt and Shame the First Time, Why Did They Do It Again? 3/10/2022 Q&A How Should I Handle My Spouse Threatening to Harm Me? 3/10/2022 Q&A How Was He Able to Do a 180 Turn on Discovery? 3/10/2022 Q&A How Should I as a Wayward Spouse Approach My Spouse’s Continual Desire for Reassurance? 3/10/2022 Q&A How Do We Create a Shared View of Our Relationship When We Have No Valid Timelines to Reference? 3/10/2022 Q&A Why Was It Easy for Him to Be Nice to Everyone but Me, His Wife? 3/10/2022 Q&A How Do I Emotionally Connect with Someone Who Treats Me This Way? 3/10/2022 Q&A How Long Does It Take for Desire for My Mate to Return after Severing Ties with My Affair Partners? 3/10/2022 Forgiveness: How Does 70 Times 7 Work? 3/09/2022 Pages« first‹ previous…34567891011…next ›last »